Ngabe kufanele ngivume izono ezedlule?
Ngineminyaka engama-64 futhi ngivame ukubuyela emuva ngikhumbule izono zangaphambili okungenzeka zenzeka eminyakeni engama-30 edlule futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi ngabe ngazivuma. Yini okufanele ngiyicabangele ukuqhubekela phambili?
A. Kungumqondo omuhle lapho sivuma izono zethu kumpristi ukuthi azosengeza, uma sesiqedile ukusho izono zethu zakamuva, into efana nokuthi "Futhi ngazo zonke izono zempilo yami edlule" "Nazo zonke izono engingazenza Ngikhohliwe ". Lokhu akusho ukuthi singashiya ngamabomu izono ngenxa yokuvuma kwethu noma sizenze zingacaci futhi zingapheli. Ukwenza lezi zimangalo ezijwayelekile kukwamukela kuphela ubuthakathaka bememori yabantu. Akusilo njalo isiqiniseko sokuthi sikuvumile konke okonembeza bethu abakukhuthazayo, ngakho-ke siphonsa ingubo yesakramente ngokuziphatha okwedlule noma okukhohliwe ngesitatimende esingenhla, ngaleyo ndlela sihlanganisa nabo lapho umpristi esithola.
Mhlawumbe umbuzo wakho ufaka nokukhathazeka okuthile kokuthi izono zangesikhathi esedlule, ngisho nezono zakudala ezedlule, zithethelelwe ngempela uma sisakwazi ukuzikhumbula. Ake ngiphendule kafushane kulokhu kukhathazeka. Ama-Dashboards afeza inhloso. Inkumbulo inenye inhloso. Isakramente lokuvuma izono akuyona indlela yokwenza ingqondo. Akudonseli ameva phansi kwengqondo yethu futhi kulande zonke izinkumbulo zethu. Kwesinye isikhathi sikhumbula izono zethu zangesikhathi esedlule, ngisho nezono zethu ezenziwa eminyakeni eminingi edlule. Ukulandela umkhondo wezithombe zesono esedlule ezihlala kumemori yethu akusho lutho ngokwenkolo. Izinkumbulo zingokoqobo kwe-neurological noma kwengqondo. Ukuvuma izono kuyinto engokwenkolo.
Ukuvuma izono kanye nokwesulwa izono zethu ukuphela kwendlela yokuhamba yesikhathi ekhona. Naphezu kwazo zonke izindlela zokudala ababhali nababhali besikrini abazamile ukuxhumana nezindlela esingabuya sibuyele emuva esikhathini, esingakwenza kuphela ngemfundiso yenkolo. Amagama ompristi wokuqothuka aqhubeka emuva ngesikhathi. Njengoba umpristi esebenza njengomuntu kaKristu ngaleso sikhathi, usebenza ngamandla kaNkulunkulu, okungenhla nangesikhathi esedlule. UNkulunkulu wadala isikhathi futhi ugoqa imithetho yakhe. Ngemuva kwalokho amazwi ompristi aqhubekela esikhathini esedlule somuntu ukusula icala, kepha hhayi isijeziso, ngenxa yokuziphatha okunesono. Anjalo amandla alawo magama alula athi "ngiyanithethelela". Ngubani owake wavuma izono, wavuma izono zabo, wacela ukungasuswa, wabe esetshelwa "cha?" Akwenzeki. Uma uzivumile izono zakho, bathethelelwe. Zingahle zibe khona kwimemori yakho ngoba ungumuntu. Kepha azikho enkumbulweni kaNkulunkulu. Futhi ekugcineni, uma inkumbulo yezono zesikhathi esedlule inenkinga, noma ngabe ivunyelwe, khumbula ukuthi eceleni kwenkumbulo yesono sakho kufanele kube neminye imemori ecacile ngokulinganayo: inkumbulo yokuvuma kwakho izono. Lokho kwenzeka futhi!