Ukuzinikela kumaSakramente: abazali "umyalezo okufanele bawunikeze izingane zabo nsuku zonke"
Ucingo lomuntu siqu
Akekho umuntu ongafuna isihloko sesithunywa komunye umuntu uma engatholanga isabelo. Noma kubazali kungaba ukugabadela ukuzibiza ngezithunywa zikaNkulunkulu uma kungekho okubizwayo okuqondile ngabo. Le kholi esemthethweni yenziwa ngosuku lwabo lomshado.
Ubaba nomama bafundisa izingane zabo ukukholwa, hhayi ngesimemo sangaphandle noma ngesimo sangaphakathi, kodwa ngoba babizwa uNkulunkulu ngokuqondile ngesakramente somshado. Bathola isimemezelo esisemthethweni esivela kwiNkosi, ngokuzithoba phambi komphakathi, ukubizelwa kobabili, njengombhangqwana.
Umsebenzi omuhle
Abazali ababizwanga ukuthi banikeze noma yiluphi ulwazi ngoNkulunkulu: kumele babe ngabamemezeli bomcimbi, noma kunalokho bewuchungechunge lwamaqiniso, lapho iNkosi izenza ibekhona. Bememezela ubukhona bukaNkulunkulu, lokho akufezile emndenini wabo nalokho akwenzayo. Bangofakazi balobu bukhona obunothando ngezwi nangokuphila.
Abalingani bangofakazi bokholo komunye nomunye nasezinganeni zabo nakuwo wonke amanye amalungu omndeni (AA, 11). Bona, njengezithunywa zikaNkulunkulu, kumele babone iNkosi ikhona ekhaya labo futhi bayikhombise ezinganeni ngezwi nangokuphila. Ngaphandle kwalokho abethembekile esithunzini sabo futhi babeke phansi isisulu ukuthunywa okutholwe emshadweni. Ubaba nonina abamchazi uNkulunkulu, kodwa bambonise ekhona, ngoba bona uqobo sebethole futhi bamjwayela.
Ngamandla okubakhona
Isithunywa singomunye omemeza umyalezo. Amandla wesimemezelo akufanele ahlolwe ithoni yezwi, kepha kungukuqiniseka komuntu siqu okuqinile, amandla okukhohlisa, umdlandla okhanya ngazo zonke izindlela nakuzo zonke izimo.
Ukuze babe yizithunywa zikaNkulunkulu, abazali kumele babe nezinkolelo ezijulile zobuKhrestu ezibandakanya izimpilo zabo. Kule nkambu, uthando, uthando uqobo lwalo, alwanele. Bazali kumele bathole, ngomusa kaNkulunkulu, ikhono ngaphezu kwakho konke ngokuqinisa izinkolelo zabo zokuziphatha nezenkolo, bebeka isibonelo, becabanga ndawonye ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, babonise abanye abazali, nabafundisi abangochwepheshe, nabaphristi (UJohn Paul II , Inkulumo ku-III International Congress of the Family, 30 Okthoba 1978).
Ngakho-ke abakwazi ukwenza sengathi bafundisa izingane zabo ukukholwa uma amazwi abo angavevezi futhi engazwakali ngokuhlangana kwabo. Ngokubabiza ukuba babe yizithunywa zakhe, uNkulunkulu ucela abazali kakhulu, kepha ngesakramente lomshado uqinisekisa ubukhona bakhe emndenini wabo, ulethe umusa wakhe kuwe.
Umyalezo okufanele uhunyushwe nsuku zonke ezinganeni
Yonke imilayezo idinga ukuhunyushwa futhi iqondwe ngokuqhubekayo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kumele kubhekane nezimo zokuphila, ngoba kukhulunywa ngokukhona, izici ezijulile zokuphila lapho kuphakama imibuzo ebaluleke kakhulu engenakugwenywa. Bayizithunywa, kithi thina bazali, abaphethe ukuyihumusha, ngoba banikezwe isipho sokuhumusha.
Unika abazali umsebenzi wokusebenzisa izincazelo zomlayezo empilweni yomndeni futhi ngaleyo ndlela udlulise umuzwa wobuKristu ezinganeni zabo.
Le ngxenye yokuqala yemfundo yokholo lomndeni ifaka phakathi izikhathi ezijwayelekile zazo zonke izinto ezisebenzayo: ukufunda ikhodi yokuhumusha, ukuthola ulimi nokuthinta ukuthinta komphakathi kanye nokuziphatha.