Ukuzinikela kosuku: umngane oyikhohlakele wothando lwakho

Ungumngane omubi. Akekho ongasinqabela uthando oluqondiswe ngathi, olusishukumisela ukuba sithande impilo futhi sizihlobise ngobuhle; kepha ukuzithanda akulawulwa futhi kuba nobugovu lapho kusenza sizicabange thina kuphela, sithanda thina kuphela futhi silangazelela abanye ukuthi babe nesithakazelo kithi. Uma sikhuluma, sifuna ukuzwa; uma sihlupheka, sizisole; uma sisebenza, sidumise; asifuni ukumelana, ukusiphikisa, ukusinyanyisa. Kulesi sibuko awuziboni yini?

Ukungajwayelekile kokuzithanda. Zingaki iziphambeko ezivela kulokhu kubi! Ngenxa yokuzenzisa okuncane, umuntu akanaki, uvukela abanye abenze babekezelele isisindo semizwa yakhe emibi! Zivelaphi izifiso, ukungabekezeli, intukuthelo, inzondo? Kusuka kuzithanda wena. Kuvelaphi ukukhononda, ukungathembani, nokuphelelwa yithemba? Kusuka kuzithanda wena. Kusuka kuphi ukukhononda kwezinkathazo? Kusuka kuzithanda wena. Uma siyiwinile, besinganciphisa kangakanani ukulimala kwethu!

Konakalisa okuhle okwenziwe. Ubuthi bokuzithanda wena ukuthi zingaki izenzo ezinhle ezintshontsha isikweletu sethu! Ukungabi nalutho, ukwaneliseka, ukwaneliseka okungokwemvelo okufunwa lapho, kuthumba ukufaneleka, okuphelele noma okuyingxenye. Mangaki imithandazo, izipho zomusa, ukuhlanganyela, imihlatshelo, okuzohlala kungatheli, ngoba kuvela noma kuhambisana nokuzithanda! Nomaphi lapho kuhlangana khona, konakalisa futhi konakalise! Ngeke wenze yonke imizamo ukumxosha? Ngeke umgcine njengesitha sakho?

UKWENZA. - Thanda okuhle kwakho njalo, okungukuthi, njengoba uNkulunkulu akufunayo futhi inqobo nje uma kungalimazi amalungelo omakhelwane wakho.