Ukuzinikela nokuthandaza: thandaza ngokwengeziwe noma uthandaze kangcono?
Ingabe uthandaza ngokwengeziwe noma uthandaza kangcono?
Umbono ongelona iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi wokufa ngukuthi wesibalo. Ukuzenzisa ngokweqile emthandazweni kusabusa ukukhathazeka okucishe kucace kwenombolo, imithamo, nemnqamulajuqu.
Kungokwemvelo-ke ukuthi abantu abaningi “benkolo” benze umzamo omkhulu wokuphonsa izikali ohlangothini lwabo, banezela imikhuba, ukuzinikela, ukuzivocavoca okunempilo. UNkulunkulu akayona i-accountant!
".. Wayekwazi okungaphakathi kwawo wonke amadoda .." (Jn 2,25)
Noma, ngokusho okunye ukuhumusha: "... lokho umuntu akuphatha ngaphakathi ...".
UNkulunkulu angabona kuphela lokho umuntu "okuthwalela ngaphakathi" lapho ethandaza.
Okuyimfihlakalo kwanamuhla, uDadewethu uMaria Giuseppina kaJesu Wokubethelwa Eqaqahleni, uCalalised Carmelite, uxwayise:
“Nikeza uNkulunkulu inhliziyo yakho ngomkhuleko, esikhundleni samazwi amaningi! "
Singakwazi futhi kufanele sithandaze ngokwengeziwe, ngaphandle kokuphindaphinda imithandazo.
Ezimpilweni zethu, igelu lomkhuleko aligcwalisiwe ngobuningi, kepha ngobuqiniso namandla ehlanganyelo.
Ngithandaza ngokwengeziwe lapho ngifunda ukuthandaza kangcono.
Kufanele ngikhulise emthandazweni esikhundleni sokukhulisa isibalo semikhuleko.
Ukuthanda akusho ukuhlanganisa inani elikhulu kakhulu lamagama, kodwa ukuma phambi kweLinye eqinisweni nasekucaceni kobuntu bakho.
° Thandaza kuBaba
"... Lapho uthandaza, yithi: Baba ..." (Lk 11,2: XNUMX).
UJesu usimema ukuba sisebenzise leli gama kuphela emthandazweni: Baba.
Ngokuphambene nalokho: Abbà! (UPapa).
"Ubaba" uhlanganisa konke esingakusho ngomkhuleko. Futhi iqukethe "okungacabangi".
Siyaqhubeka ukuphinda, njengakwi-litany engapheli: "Abbà ... abbà ..."
Akunasidingo sokungeza okunye.
Sizozwa ukuzethemba kwethu kukhula.
Sizozwa ubukhona obunzima babafowethu abaningi abasizungezile. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, sizobanjwa ukumangala kokuba yizingane.
° Thandaza kumama
Lapho uthandaza futhi uthi: “Umama! "
Kwivangeli lesine, uMariya waseNazaretha kubukeka sengathi ulahlekelwe igama lakhe. Eqinisweni, kuboniswa kuphela ngesihloko esithi "Umama".
"Umkhuleko wegama likaMariya" ungaba yilokhu kuphela: "Mum ... mum ..."
Ngisho nalapha akukho mkhawulo. I-litany, njalo iyafana, ingaqhubeka unomphela, kepha ngokuqinisekile isikhathi sifika lapho, ngemuva kokuncenga okokugcina "mama", sizwa impendulo ekudala ilindelwe, kodwa esimangazayo: "Jesu!"
UMariya uhlala ehola eNdodaneni.
° Umkhuleko njengendaba eyimfihlo
“Mnumzane, kukhona engizokutshela kona.
Kodwa yimfihlo phakathi kwami nawe. "
Umkhuleko oyimfihlo ungaqala kakhulu noma ngaphansi kanjena bese uvela ngendlela yendaba.
I-Flat, elula, evulekile, ethunzini elinesizotha, ngaphandle kokungabaza futhi ngaphandle kokufakwa.
Lolu hlobo lomkhuleko lubaluleke kakhulu emphakathini wethu egameni lokubonakala, ukusebenza, ubuze.
Uthando lufuna ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthobeka, isizotha.
Uthando aluseluthando ngaphandle komongo wokugcina izimfihlo, ngaphandle kwesilinganiso sobumfihlo.
Ngakho-ke, thola emthandazweni, injabulo yokufihla, yokungashisi ukukhanya.
Ngikhanyisela ngempela uma ngikwazi ukucasha.
° Ngifuna "ukuxabana" noNkulunkulu
Siyasaba ukutshela iNkosi, noma sikholwa ukuthi akulungile, konke esikucabangayo, okusikhathazayo, okusikhathazayo, konke esingavumelani nakho. Senza sengathi sithandaza "ngokuthula".
Futhi asifuni ukuqaphela iqiniso lokuthi, okokuqala, kufanele siwele isivunguvungu.
Umuntu uza ekulobeni, ekulaleleni, ngemuva kokulingwa ngokuhlubuka.
Ubudlelwano noNkulunkulu buba nzima, bube nokuthula, kuphela ngemuva kokuba "bekunesivunguvungu".
Lonke iBhayibheli ligcizelela kakhulu ingqikithi yokuxabana komuntu noNkulunkulu.
ITestamente Elidala lisinikeza "iqhawe lokholo", njengo-Abhrahama, ophendukela kuNkulunkulu ngomkhuleko othinta ubuzwe.
Kwesinye isikhathi umkhuleko kaMose uthatha izici zenselelo.
Ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile, uMose akathandabuzi ukubhikisha ngamandla phambi kukaNkulunkulu. Umthandazo wakhe ukhombisa ukujwayela okusishiya simangele.
Ngisho noJesu, ngesikhathi sokuqulwa kwecala eliphakeme, uphendukela kuYise ethi: "Nkulunkulu wami, Nkulunkulu wami, ungilahleleni?" (Mk. 15.34).
Kucishe kufane nesihlamba.
Kodwa-ke, indida kumele iqashelwe: uNkulunkulu uhlala "eyami" noma engilahlile.
Ngisho uNkulunkulu okude, ongazweli ongaphenduli, ongashukunyiswa futhi ongishiya ngingedwa esimweni esingenakwenzeka, uhlala "eyami".
Kungcono ukukhononda kunokuthatha sengathi usule emsebenzini.
Ubungqabavu besililo, obunamazwi amakhulu, bukhona kumaHubo amaningana.
Kuphakama imibuzo emibili ehluphayo:
Ngoba? Kuze kube nini?
AmaHubo, ngokunembile ngoba ayinkolelo yokholo oluqinile, awanqikazi ukusebenzisa lezi zinsolo, ngokusobala ezephula imithetho "yokuziphatha okuhle" ebudlelwaneni noNkulunkulu. Ngesinye isikhathi kungukuphikisana isikhathi eside lapho umuntu ekwazi ukuwa, ekugcineni futhi ngenjabulo wanikela, ezingalweni zikaNkulunkulu.
° Thandaza njengetshe
Uzizwa ebandayo, eyomile, engenalutho.
Akukho ongakusho. Isikhala esikhulu ngaphakathi.
Ama-jammed will, imizwa eqandisiwe, izinhloso ezincibilikisiwe. Awufuni ngisho nokubhikisha.
Kubukeka kungenamsebenzi kuwe. Ubungeke wazi nokuthi yini ongayicela eNkosini: akukufanele.
Lapha, kufanele ufunde ukuthandaza njengetshe.
Okungcono nokho, njengebhodwe.
Hlala nje lapho, njengoba unjalo, nokuhlanya kwakho, isicanucanu, ukudangala, ukungathandi ukuthandaza.
Ukuthandaza njengetshe kusho nje ukugcina isikhundla, ukungayeki indawo "engenamsebenzi", ukuba lapho ngaphandle kwesizathu.
INkosi, ngezikhathi ezithile ozaziyo nokuthi wazi kangcono kunawe, yanelisekile ukubona ukuthi ukhona, ngaphandle, kukho konke.
Kubalulekile, okungenani kwesinye isikhathi, ukungabi kwenye indawo.
° Thandaza izinyembezi
Kungumthandazi buthule.
Izinyembezi ziphazamisa ukuhamba kwamagama nalokho kwemicabango, ngisho nalokho kwemibhikisho nezikhalazo.
UNkulunkulu ukuvumela ukhale.
Kuthatha izinyembezi zakho ngokungathi sína. Ngempela, ngomona ugcina ngamunye ngamunye.
IRhalani 56 liyasiqinisekisa: "... izinyembezi zami esikhunjeni seqoqo lakho ..."
Akukho neyodwa elahlekile. Akukho nokukodwa okukhohliwe.
Kuyimpahla yakho eyigugu kunayo yonke. Futhi kusezandleni ezinhle.
Nakanjani uzokuthola futhi.
Izinyembezi zibonisa ukuthi uxola ngokweqiniso, hhayi ngokweqa umthetho, kodwa ngokuba ukhaphele uthando.
Ukukhala kuyisibonakaliso sokuphenduka, kukhonza ukugeza amehlo akho, ukuhlanza iso lakho.
Emva kwalokho, uzobona ngokucacile indlela okufanele uyilandele.
Uzokhomba ngokucophelela izingozi okufanele uzigweme.
"... Nibusisiwe nina enikhala ...." (Lk 7.21).
Ngezinyembezi, awuceli izincazelo ezivela kuNkulunkulu.
Ngiyavuma kuye ukuthi uyamethemba!