Imithandazo eyishumi okufanele yenziwe yingane ngayinye yamaKatolika
Ukufundisa izingane zakho ukuthandaza kungaba ngumsebenzi owesabekayo. Ngenkathi ekugcineni kukuhle ukufunda ukuthandaza ngamazwi ethu, impilo yomkhuleko esebenzayo iqala ngokwenza eminye imemori ukuyikhumbula. Indawo enhle ongayiqala ngayo yimikhuleko ejwayelekile yezingane engabanjwa ngekhanda kalula. Izingane ezenza umthendeleko wazo wokuqala kufanele ngabe zazazi ngekhanda iningi lemikhuleko elandelayo, ngenkathi umusa ngaphambi kokudla nomthandazo wengelosi wokugada kuyimikhuleko yokuthi ngisho nezingane ezincane kakhulu zingafunda ukuphindaphinda nsuku zonke.
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Isibonakaliso sesiphambano ngumthandazo oyisisekelo wamaKatolika, noma ngabe sivame ukungacabangi njalo. Kufanele sifundise izingane zethu ukusho ngenhlonipho ngaphambi nangemva kweminye imikhuleko yazo.
Inkinga evame kakhulu ukuthi izingane zibe nayo lapho ifunda iSibonakaliso Sesiphambano ukusebenzisa isandla sobunxele esikhundleni sokudla; okwesibili okuvame kakhulu ukuthinta ihlombe lokunene ngaphambi kwesokunxele. Ngenkathi eyokugcina iyindlela efanelekile yamaKristu aseMpumalanga, amaKhatholika nama-Orthodox, ukwenza uphawu lwesiphambano, amaLatini amaLatin Rite enza uphawu lwesiphambano ngokuthinta kuqala ihlombe lakwesobunxele.
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Kufanele sithandaze kuBaba wethu nsuku zonke nezingane zethu. Kungumthandazo omuhle ukuwusebenzisa njengomkhuleko wasekuseni noma wakusihlwa. Nakisisa ukuthi izingane zakho ziwaqamba kanjani amagama; kunamathuba amaningi okungaqondi kanye nezethulo ezingezinhle, njenge "Howard igama lakho."
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Izingane ngokwemvelo zifuna ukubhekelwa eNcasakazini uMariya futhi zifunde i-Ave Maria kusenesikhathi kwenza kube lula ukukhuthaza ukuzinikela kuSanta Maria futhi kwethule nemikhuleko emide yaseMarian, efana neRosary. Indlela enhle yokufundisa i-Ave Maria ukuthi uphinda ingxenye yokuqala yomkhuleko (“ngesithelo sesibeletho sakho, uJesu”) bese izingane zakho ziphendula ngengxenye yesibili ("iSanta Maria").
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INkazimulo Be ingumthandazo olula kakhulu ukuthi noma yimuphi ingane engenza iSibonakaliso Sesiphambano ikwazi ukukhumbula ngekhanda. Uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokukhumbula ukuthi yisiphi isandla okufanele isetshenziswe lapho isenza iSibonakaliso Sesiphambano (noma ihlombe lokuthinta kuqala), ungazijwayeza ukwenza uphawu lweSiphambano ngenkathi uphinda amaGloria, njengamaKatolika asenkonzweni yaseMpumalanga kanye I-Eastern Orthodox.
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Izenzo zokukholwa, ithemba nokupha imithandazweni evamile yasekuseni. Uma usiza izingane zakho ukuba zikwazi ukukhumbula le mithandazo emithathu, ziyohlala zinendlela emfushane yokuthandaza ekuseni yalezo zinsuku lapho zingenaso isikhathi sokuthandazela uhlobo olude lomthandazo wasekuseni.
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Isenzo sethemba singumthandazo omuhle kakhulu wezingane ezifunda isikole. Khuthaza izingane zakho ukuthi zikubambe ngekhanda ukuze zikwazi ukuthandazela isenzo seThemba ngaphambi kokuhlolwa. Yize kungekho okuthatha indawo yokutadisha, kuhle ukuthi abafundi babone ukuthi akufanele bathembele emandleni abo bodwa.
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Ubuntwana yisikhathi esigcwele imizwa ejulile, futhi izingane zivame ukuhlushwa ukulimala kwangempela nokubonakalayo nokulimala okuvela kubangane nakwaba ofunda nabo. Ngenhloso enkulu yesenzo sokupha uthando ukukhombisa uthando lwethu ngoNkulunkulu, lo mkhuleko uyisikhumbuzo sansuku zonke sezingane zethu sokuzama ukuthuthukisa intethelelo nokuthanda abanye.
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UMthetho Wokunikela umthandazo obalulekile we-Sacrament of Confvuma, kodwa futhi kufanele sikhuthaze izingane zethu ukuthi zikusho njalo ebusuku ngaphambi kokulala. Izingane ezenze uvumo lwazo lokuqala kufanele futhi zizihlole ngokushesha ngaphambi kokusho isenzo senkambiso.
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Ukufaka umuzwa wokubonga ezinganeni zethu kungaba nzima kakhulu ezweni lapho abaningi bethu bebaningi bempahla. UGrace Ngaphambi Kokudla uyindlela enhle yokubakhumbuza (nathi uqobo!) Ukuthi konke esinakho ekugcineni kuvela kuNkulunkulu. (Cabanga ngokungeza i-Grace After Meals ohlelweni lwakho futhi, ukuhlakulela umuzwa wokubonga nokugcina labo oshone emithandazweni yethu.)
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Njengokuzinikela kwiNtombi Enyulu uMariya, izingane zibonakala zinqunyelwe ekukholweni ingelosi yazo ezobavikela. Ukuhlakulela le nkolelo lapho besebancane kuzosiza ukuzivikela ekungabazeni kamuva. Njengoba izingane zikhula, zikhuthaze ukuba zengeze umthandazo we-Guardian Angel ngemikhuleko eyengeziwe yomuntu we-Guardian Angel yazo.