UDon Giovanni D'Ercole: i-alamu ye- "pedophilia"
"Angithandi ukuphazamisa ukuthula kwakho, kepha njengoba kungezona zonke lezi zindaba ezifinyelela kuwo wonke umuntu, ngithanda ukuveza, ngemibhalo efanelekile, ukuthi i-Association of American Psychiatrists, enye yezinhlangano ezibaluleke kakhulu zesayensi emhlabeni, iguqule umugqa encwadini yayo yakamuva kwi-pedophilia: akusekho "ukuphazamiseka" kepha "ukuma" njengabanye. Ngamafuphi, "ukunakwa" kwabantu abadala ezinganeni akusabhekwa "njengesifo". Le nhlangano yathi ngeminyaka yama-XNUMX ukuthi ubungqingili kwakuyinto "eyinkinga" kepha okwakungaphansi kokucindezelwa okukhulu yizishoshovu zobungqingili, ngakho-ke manje ngaphansi kwengcindezi yezishoshovu zabanukubeza izingane isimemezele ukuthi isifiso sobulili sezingane siyinto ethandwa ngabantu. I-Pedophilia ichazwa ngokuthi "uthando lwezizukulwane". U-Alfred Kinsey, isikhulu senguquko kwezocansi eNtshonalanga osekhuthaze izifundo eziningi zengqondo emkhakheni wezocansi, "kuMbiko" wakhe wesibili unikezela isigaba esinesihloko esithi "Oxhumana nabo eminyakeni engaphambi kokubeletha nabesilisa abadala", lapho kuchazwa khona ubudlelwane bezocansi phakathi kwabantu abadala nezingane. : "Kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani intombazane, ngaphandle kwalapho inesimo semfundo, kufanele icasuke lapho kuthintwa izitho zangasese, noma icasuke ngokubona izitho zangasese zabanye abantu, noma ibe nokuxhumana ngqo ngocansi" .
Ocwaningweni olwenziwe ngoprofesa abathathu (uBruce Rand waseThempeli University, uPhilip Tromovitch waseNyuvesi yasePennsylvania noRobert Bauserman wase-University of Michigan) okwathi okokuqala ngqa ngonyaka ka-1998 walichaza kabusha leli gama nencazelo "yokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi", sifunda ukuthi “lolu cwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwezingane, kwabesilisa nabesifazane, abaye bahlukunyezwa ngokobulili kubukeka njengokuphakathi. Babuye futhi bathi ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi akuvezi imiphumela emibi ehlala njalo ”.
Ngemuva kwezinsolo kuleli sonto zokuba nesifo esijwayelekile sabantwana, i-Psychiatrists Association ithe izolungisa imanuwali entsha, ihlukanise lesi sikhathi phakathi kwe- "pedophilia and pedophilia disorder" Uma lesi sakamuva sihlala singumqondo wezifo zengqondo, lowo owedlule uzoba "umkhuba ojwayelekile wezocansi lomuntu". Futhi ngeke kushiywe ngaphandle ukuthi, ngemuva komshado wobungqingili, ngisho nobudlelwano babasolwa ngelinye ilanga bungaba… ilungelo. Ilungelo "lomphakathi". Ngemuva kwakho konke, uthathe indlela yokwenza zonke izifiso zilungile, yisiphi isizathu esizwakalayo okufanele sivinjelwe? "