Kuthiwani uma ingqondo yakho izulazula emthandazweni?
Ulahlekelwe yimicabango ekhathazayo futhi ephazamisekile ngenkathi uthandaza? Nayi ithiphu elula yokuphinda uthole ukugxilwa.
Gxila emthandazweni
Ngihlala ngizwa lo mbuzo: "Yini okufanele ngiyenze lapho ingqondo yami izulazula ngenkathi ngithandaza?" Ngithole impendulo enhle kakhulu encwadini eyabhalwa emakhulwini eminyaka edlule.
Ukubhalwa kwe-The Cloud of Unnowing kuyimfihlakalo. Mhlawumbe wayeyindela, mhlawumbe umpristi, ebhala ngesiNgisi - isiNgisi esiphakathi - ngasekupheleni kwekhulu le-XNUMX. Nikeza izeluleko kumngane omncane ngomkhuleko.
Ngincike ekuhumusheni kukaCarmen Acevedo Butcher ukungena ngokujulile ekuhlakanipheni okusebenzayo kweThe Cloud. Njengoba uButcher esho, umbhali wayefuna ukuhlala engaziwa ngesizathu. Ukukhanya kwakumele kukhanyiswe uNkulunkulu, hhayi ngaye.
"UNkulunkulu akaceli usizo lwakho," kubhala u-Anonymous. “Ufuna uvale amehlo akho kuye futhi umshiye yedwa ukuze asebenze kuwe. Ingxenye yakho ukuvikela umnyango namafasitela ngokugcina kungenelele futhi kuphume ngaphandle. "
Lokho kungenelela nezimpukane? Imicabango yethu ephazamisekile futhi engathandeki. Emsebenzini wami wokuthandaza, lapho ngihlala kusofa ngivala amehlo ami, ngizoqala ngicabange ngokuthile okufanele ngikwenze emsebenzini, i-imeyili okufanele ngiyithumele, umbuzo okufanele ngiwubuze. Abangeneleli nezimpukane ngempela.
Ngakho-ke ngenza okuthile okuphakamisa ukuthi kungaziwa, noma ngisebenzise igama elilodwa ukungibuyisela kwinhloso yami. Uyabhala: "Uma lifushane izwi, yilapho lisiza kakhulu ukusebenza komoya." "UNkulunkulu noma uthando lusebenza kahle. Khetha eyodwa yalezi noma elinye igama olithandayo, inqobo nje uma kuluvumelano. "
Kungani silllable eyodwa nje? Mhlawumbe leyo yindlela esingabanjwa ngayo entweni eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, futhi ebambeke kakhulu ezingqondweni zethu. Njengoba ethi: "Akunangqondo yomuntu onamandla ngokwanele ukuqonda ukuthi uNkulunkulu ungubani. Singamazi kuphela ngokuphila uthando lwakhe. "
Umkhuleko yithuba lokuhlala futhi sithokozise uthando lukaNkulunkulu, ukukhumbula ukuthi lubaluleke kangakanani. "Ngeke sicabange ngoNkulunkulu," kubhala umbhali. Kepha singakwazi ukuhlangana neNkosi ngomkhuleko.
Uyabhala: “Kungakho ngizimisele ukulahla konke engikwaziyo, ukuthanda into engingakwazi ukuyicabanga. Kungathandwa, kepha hhayi ngomcabango. "
Ulahlekile emthandazweni? Kwakuhle kuwe. Ulahlekelwe yimicabango ekhathazayo nephazamisayo? Zama lokhu: gxila ezwini elilodwa elinamandla, lisho kancane ngokwakho bese ubuyela emthandazweni wakho.
Uzokwenza okuthile okwenziwe ngamakholwa amakhulu eminyaka.