Isehlukaniso: ipasipoti eliya esihogweni! Okushiwo iSonto
UMkhandlu WesiBili waseVictoria (uGaudium et Spes - 47 b) uchaze isehlukaniso ngokuthi "isifo" futhi ngempela isifo esikhulu esiphikisana nomthetho kaNkulunkulu kanye nomndeni.
Simelana noNkulunkulu - ngoba kwephula umyalo ovela kuMdali: "Umuntu uyoshiya uyise nonina, ahlangane nonkosikazi wakhe, kuthi labo bobabili babe nyamanye" (Gen. 2: 24).
Isehlukaniso siphikisana nomyalo kaJesu:
"Lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile, makungahlukaniswa ngumuntu" (Mt 19: 6). Ngakho-ke isiphetho sika-St Augustine: "Njengoba umshado uvela kuNkulunkulu, ngakho-ke isehlukaniso sivela kuDeveli" (iTraff. KuJoannem).
Ukuze aqinise isikhungo somndeni futhi amnikeze usizo oluvela phezulu, uJesu waphakamisa isivumelwano semvelo somshado kwisithunzi seS Sacramento, okwenza kwaba uphawu lobumbano bakhe neBandla lakhe (Efe. 5:32).
Ukusuka kulokhu kucace bha ukuthi imithetho yezwe, efana neye-Italy, iphika umshado umlingisi wesakramente bese yazisa ngesehlukaniso kodwa ilungelo abangenalo, ngoba awukho umthetho wabantu ongaphikisana nomthetho wemvelo, ungavumeli umthetho waphezulu . Ngakho-ke isehlukaniso siphikisana noNkulunkulu nomndeni ngokulimala okungenakulungiseka ezinganeni ezidinga uthando nokunakekelwa kwabazali bobabili.
Ukuze sithole umbono wenhlupheko yesehlukaniso, sinikeza isibalo saseMelika. E-United States izingane ezingaphezulu kwezigidi eziyishumi nanye, izingane zemibhangqwana ehlukene. Kulinganiselwa ukuthi minyaka yonke edlula ezinye izingane eziyizigidi ziyazi ukushaqeka kokuqothuka komndeni futhi kuthi u-45% wazo zonke izingane zaseMelika, ezizalwa kunoma yimuphi unyaka, zizithole zinomzali oyedwa kuphela zingakayihlanganisi iminyaka eyi-18. Futhi ngeshwa izinto azingcono eYurophu.
Izibalo zokukhohlisa kwabantwana, zokuzibulala kwabafana ziyesabeka futhi zibuhlungu.
Noma ngubani ohlukanisa futhi aphinde ashade, phambi kukaNkulunkulu neBandla uyisoni esesidlangalaleni futhi angemukeli amasakramente (iVangeli limbiza ngokuthi uyisiphingi - Mt 5:32). UPadre Pio wasePietralcina, kowesifazane owayekhala ngokuthi umyeni wakhe ufuna isehlukaniso, uphendule wathi: "Mtshele ukuthi isehlukaniso yiphasishi eliya esihogweni!". Futhi komunye umuntu wathi: "Isehlukaniso siyimbangi yezikhathi ezisanda kwedlula." Uma ukuhlala ndawonye sekube yinto engenakwenzeka, kukhona ukwahlukana, okungekubi ukulungisa.