Isipho sokuphikelela: ukhiye wokholo
Angisiyena omunye walezo zikhulumi ezishukumisayo ezingakuphakamisa kakhulu kangangokuba kufanele ubheke phansi ukubona ipharadesi. Cha, ngisebenza ngokwengeziwe. Uyazi, lowo onezibazi kuzo zonke izimpi, nokho uphile ukubatshela.
Kukhona izindaba ezingenakubalwa zamandla okuphikelela nokunqoba okuza ngobuhlungu. Futhi ngifisa ukuthi ngabe sengivele ngibe phezu kwelentaba izingalo zami ziphakanyisiwe, ngibheke phansi futhi ngibona izithiyo engizinqobile. Kepha ukungithola endaweni ethile eceleni kwaleyo ntaba, ngisakhuphuka, kumele kube nokuqonda okuthile ekucabangeni okungenani ukubona phezulu!
Singabazali bomuntu osemdala osinezidingo ezikhethekile. Manje useneminyaka engama-23 futhi ukuphikelela kwakhe kuyinto okumangazayo.
U-Amanda wazalwa ezinyangeni ezi-3 ngaphambili, epawundi eli-1, ama-awa ayi-7. Le bekuyingane yethu yokuqala, futhi ngichithe izinyanga eziyisithupha kuphela, ngakho-ke umcabango wokuthi ngingaqala ukusebenza kuleli banga ekuqaleni awuzange uvele kimi. Kepha ngemuva kwezinsuku ezintathu zomsebenzi sasingabazali balo muntu omncane owayesezoshintsha umhlaba wethu kakhulu kunendlela ebesingacabanga ngayo.
Izindaba zokuboshwa kwenhliziyo
Lapho u-Amanda ekhula kancane, kwaqala izinkinga zempilo. Ngikhumbula ngithola izingcingo ezivela esibhedlela zisitshela ukuthi ngize khona lapho. Ngikhumbula ukuhlinzwa okuningi nokutheleleka, futhi inhliziyo-ke yafika yamisa lolu daba lodokotela. Babesithi u-Amanda uzobe eyimpumputhe esemthethweni, mhlawumbe abe yisithulu futhi mhlawumbe abe ne-cerebral palsy. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile akubanga yilokho esasihlelile futhi besingazi ukuthi sizolusingatha kanjani lolu hlobo lwezindaba.
Lapho ekugcineni simyisa ekhaya siyoluka amakhilogremu amane, ama-4 o-oveni, ngamgqoka ngigqoke amakhethini eklabishi ngoba kwakuyizingubo ezincane kunazo zonke engazithola. Futhi yebo, wayemuhle.
Igcotshwe ngezipho
Esikhathini esingangenyanga ebuyile ekhaya, sabona ukuthi wayekwazi ukusilandela ngamehlo akhe. Odokotela abakwazanga ukuchaza ngoba ingxenye yobuchopho bakhe obulawula umbono wakhe ayisekho. Kepha ubone. Futhi uhamba futhi uyezwa njengokujwayelekile.
Vele, lokho akusho ukuthi u-Amanda wayengenaso isabelo sakhe esifanele sezinkinga zempilo, ukuvimba imigwaqo nokubuyiselwa kwengqondo. Kepha kuzo zonke lezo zinto wahlonishwa ngezipho ezimbili.
Eyokuqala inhliziyo yakhe ukusiza abanye. Kungamaphupho womqashi ngalomqondo. Akayena umholi, kepha uma esewufundile umsebenzi, uzosebenza kanzima ukusiza labo. Unomsebenzi owenza umsebenzi wamakhasimende ngokufaka izinto zokudla esitolo sezitolo. Uhlala enza izinto ezincanyana zabantu, ikakhulukazi lezo acabanga ukuthi zinzima.
UAmanda ubelokhu enendawo ekhethekile enhliziyweni yakhe yabasebenzisa izihlalo ezinamasondo. Kusukela efunda esikoleni samabanga aphansi, ngokwemvelo kube nomthelela omuhle kakhulu kubo futhi kungahlala kubonakale kugudlwa abantu ezihlalweni zabakhubazekile.
Isipho sokuphikelela
Isipho sesibili sika-Amandla yikhono lakhe lokuphikelela. Ngoba kuhlukile, wayeklolodelwa futhi waxhashazwa esikoleni. Futhi kufanele ngithi impela wakuvivinya ukuzethemba kwakhe. Vele, singene sisize konke ebesingakwenza, kepha wabekezela futhi waqhubeka nokuhamba.
Lapho ikolishi lethu lasekhaya limtshela ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukuya kulo ngoba ehluleka ukufinyelela emazingeni aphansi okufunda, wadabuka enhliziyweni. Kepha wayefuna ukuthola uhlobo oluthile lokuqeqeshwa nomaphi lapho kudingeka aye khona. Uke waya esikhungweni saseJobe Corps esifundazweni sethu futhi yize abhekana nezikhathi ezinzima lapho, wasithola isitifiketi sakhe yize zazikhona.
Iphupho lika-Amon lokuba ngundunankulu, ngakho-ke ukuhlala yedwa kuyisinyathelo sakhe sokuqala. Usanda kusuka ekhaya lethu ngoba efuna ukuzama ukuhlala endlini yakhe. Uyazi ukuthi unezingqinamba ezengeziwe okufanele anqobe ngenkathi esebenza ekufinyeleleni inhloso yakhe. Imiphakathi eminingi ngeke yamukele umuntu onezidingo ezikhethekile, ngakho-ke uzimisele ukubakhombisa ukuthi unezipho eziningi anganikela ngazo uma benikezwa ithuba elilodwa nje.
Yehla intaba
Khumbula lapho ngithe ngikhona endaweni ethile ngasentabeni ngizama ukubona phezulu? Akulula ukubheka izidingo zakho ezikhethekile izingane ezilwela kuzo impilo yonke. Ngibuzwe bonke ububi, konke ukudumala kanye nentukuthelo ibhekiswe kuwo wonke umuntu oye wadumaza intombazanyana yethu.
Ukuthatha ingane yakho lapho iwa futhi iqhubeke nokuyinto yonke abazali okufanele babhekane nayo. Kodwa ukukhetha ingane enezidingo ezikhethekile ukuze umbuyise ezweni elingaphansi kobungane kuyinto enzima kunazo zonke engake ngazenza.
Kepha isifiso sika-Amanda sokuqhubeka nokuhamba, qhubeka uphupha futhi uqhubeke uphokophele phambili ngandlela thile kubonakala kunzima. Usuvele wenza okungaphezu kwanoma ubani umuntu ake akucabanga ngakho futhi sizojabula kakhulu lapho egcina efezekisa amaphupho akhe.