Izingelosi zokugada zizinakekela kanjani izingane?
Izingane zidinga usizo lwezingilosi ezigada ngisho nangaphezu kwabadala kuleli zwe eliwile, njengoba izingane zingakafundi okuningi njengabantu abadala ngendlela yokuzama ukuzivikela engozini. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ubusisa izingane ngokunakekelwa okwedlulele okuvela ezingelosini ezibagadayo. Nakhu ukuthi izingelosi zokugada zingasebenza kanjani manje, zibheke izingane zakho nazo zonke ezinye izingane emhlabeni:
Abangani beqiniso nabangabonakali
Izingane zijabulela ukucabanga ngabangane abangabonakali ngenkathi bedlala. Kepha empeleni banabangane abangabonakali ngesimo sezingelosi ezigadayo, kusho amakholwa. Eqinisweni, kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zibike ngokwemvelo ukubona izingelosi zokugada futhi zihlukanise lokho kuhlangana kwangempela emhlabeni wazo oqanjiwe, ngenkathi zisazwakalisa umuzwa wokumangala ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwazo.
Encwadini yakhe ethi The Essential Guide to Catholic Prayer and Mass, uMary DeTurris Poust ubhala athi: "Izingane zingaziveza kalula futhi zibambelele embonweni wengelosi egada. Ngemuva kwalokho, izingane zisetshenziselwa ukwakha abalingisi abangqondo, ngakho-ke, yeka ukuthi kumnandi kanjani lapho bezwa ukuthi bahlala benomngane weqiniso ongabonakali nabo, okuwumsebenzi kabani ukubeka iso kubo?
Impela, zonke izingane zihlala zigadwe yizingilosi ezigadayo, uJesu Kristu usho lapho etshela abafundi bakhe bezingane kuMathewu 18:10 eBhayibhelini: “Bhekani ukuthi anideleli omunye walaba abancinyane. ukuthi izingelosi zabo ezulwini zihlale zibubona ubuso bukaBaba osezulwini ”.
Ukuxhumana okungokwemvelo
Ukuvuleleka kwemvelo kokukholelwa ezinganeni kubukeka sengathi kwenza kube lula kuzo ukwedlula abantu abadala ukuqaphela ubukhona bezingelosi ezigadayo. Izingelosi zokugada nezingane zihlanganyela ukuxhumana kwemvelo, amakholwa athi, okwenza izingane zikhathazeke ngokukhethekile ekuqashelweni kwezingelosi ezinogada.
"Izingane zami zikhulume futhi zaxhumana njalo nezingelosi ezizigcinayo ngaphandle kokukhuluma noma ukucela igama," kubhala uChristina A. Pierson encwadini yakhe ethi A Living: Living with Psychic Children. "Lokhu kubonakala njengento ejwayelekile njengoba abantu abadala bedinga amagama ukukhomba nokuchaza zonke izidalwa nezinto. Izingane zibona izingelosi zazo ngesinye izinkomba ezithile, ezicacisiwe neziqondile, ezinjengomuzwa, vibration, tonion ngombala, umsindo nokubonayo. "
Uyajabula futhi ugcwele ithemba
Izingane ezihlangana nezingelosi zokugada zivame ukuvela kokuhlangenwe nakho okuphawulwe injabulo entsha nethemba, kusho umcwaningi uRaymond A. Moody. Encwadini yakhe ethi The Light Beyond, uMoody uxoxa nezingxoxo azenze nezingane eziye zaba nokuhlangenwe nakho kwasekufeni futhi zivame ukubika zibona izingelosi ezigada zibaduduze futhi zibaqondise kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho. UMoody ubhala ukuthi "esezingeni lomtholampilo, isici esibaluleke kakhulu sezingane zakwa-NDEs umuzwa wempilo" engaphezulu "abayitholayo nokuthi ibathinta kanjani impilo yabo yonke: labo abanayo bajabule kakhulu futhi banethemba kunabo bonke abanye. azungeze. "
Fundisa izingane ukuxhumana nezingelosi zazo
Kulungile ukuthi abazali bafundise izingane zabo ukuthi zingakhulumisana kanjani nezingelosi ezingabagadayo abangahlangana nazo, ngokwesibonelo amakholwa, ikakhulukazi lapho izingane zibhekene nezimo ezinzima futhi zingasebenzisa ukukhuthazeka noma ukuholwa okwengeziwe yizingelosi zazo. "Singazifundisa izingane zethu - ngomkhuleko wakusihlwa, izibonelo zansuku zonke kanye nezingxoxo ngezikhathi ezithile - ukuphendukela engelosini yazo lapho besaba noma bedinga ukuholwa. Asiceli ingelosi ukuthi iphendule umthandazo wethu kodwa baye UNkulunkulu ngemikhuleko yethu futhi asizungeze ngothando. "
Ifundisa ukuqonda kwezingane
Ngenkathi izingelosi eziningi ezigada zinobungane futhi zinentshisekelo yezingane ezingqondweni, abazali kufanele bazi ukuthi akuzona zonke izingelosi ezithembekile futhi zifundisa izingane zazo ukuthi zingazi kanjani lapho zingathintana nengelozi eliwile, abanye bathi amakholwa.
Encwadini yakhe ethi A Living: Living with Psychic Children, uPierson ubhala ukuthi izingane “zingazithela ngabandayo [ezingelweni ezigada] zingazenzisi. Izingane zingakhuthazeka ukuba zenze njalo, kepha qiniseka ukuthi ziyachaza ukuthi izwi, noma ulwazi oluzayo kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi babe nothando futhi babe nomusa futhi bangahloniphi noma bahlukumeze: uma ingane ibingahlanganyela ukuthi inhlangano iveza ubu budedengu, khona-ke kufanele yelulekwe ukuba inganaki noma ivimbe leloya bhizinisi futhi icele usizo nokuvikelwa ngakolunye uhlangothi. ".
Chaza ukuthi izingelosi aziwona umlingo
Abazali kufanele futhi basize izingane zabo ukuba zifunde ukucabanga ngezingelosi ezigadayo ngombono ongokoqobo kunokuba zibhekane nemilingo, kusho amakholwa, ngakho-ke bazokwazi ukuphatha okulindelwe yizingelosi zabo ezibagcinayo.
"Ingxenye enzima iza lapho othile egula noma kwenzeka ingozi bese ingane izibuza ukuthi kungani ingelosi yakhe engagcinanga ingawenzanga umsebenzi wayo," kubhala uPoust ku-Essential Guide to Katolika and Mass. "Lesi yisimo esinzima ngisho nakubantu abadala, indlela yethu enhle ukukhumbuza izingane zethu ukuthi izingelosi azilumlingo, zizokwazi ukuba nathi, kodwa azikwazi ukusenzela thina noma ezinye, nokunye. Kwesinye isikhathi umsebenzi wengelosi yethu ukusiduduza lapho kwenzeka into embi. "
Letha ukukhathazeka kwezingane zakho ezingelosini zazo ezigadayo
Umlobi uDoreen Virtue, ebhala encwadini yakhe ethi The Care and Feeding of Indigo Izingane, ukhuthaza abazali abakhathazekile ngezingane zabo ukuthi bakhulume ngezinto ezikhathazayo nezingelosi ezibaphethe izingane, ebacela ukuba basize noma yisiphi isimo esibakhathazayo. "Ungakwenza ngokomqondo, ukhulumela phezulu noma ubhale incwadi ende," kubhala uVicttue. “Tshela izingelosi ngakho konke okucabangayo, kubandakanya nemizwa ongaziqhenyi ngayo. Ngokuthembeka ezingelosini, sengikwazi ukukusiza. … Ungakhathazeki ukuthi uNkulunkulu noma izingelosi zizokugweba noma zikujezise uma uzidlulisela kubo imizwa yakho yangempela: izulu lihlala likwazi lokho esizizwa ngakho, kepha ngeke basisize uma singazivuleli izinhliziyo zethu.
Funda ezinganeni
Izindlela ezinhle izingane ezihlobana ngazo nezingelosi zokugada zingagqugquzela abantu abadala ukuba bazifunde esibonelweni sabo, njengamakholwa. "... singafunda emdlondweni nasekumangalisweni kwezingane zethu, kungenzeka ukuthi sizobona ukuzethemba okuphelele kumqondo wengelosi egada nokuzimisela ukuguqukela engelosini yazo ngomkhuleko ngezimo eziningi ezahlukahlukene", kubhala uPoust Igayidi Elibalulekile Emthandazweni WamaKatolika NaseMiseni.