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Izingane kumele zizizwe zithandwa njalo futhi zilandelwa ngabazali bazo
Emlayezweni wonyaka wentsha (15 Agasti '88), INkosikazi yethu ikhulume ngomzuzu onzima wabantu abasha, okufanele sibathandazele..futhi ukhulume nabo…. Sikwazi kahle kahle ukuthi yini izwe elinikeza abantu abasha: izidakamizwa, utshwala nezinye izinto eziningi. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukunakwa okuyinhloko kumele kube okwabazali. Ngeshwa, abanye abazali bazimisele kakhulu ngezinto ezibonakalayo kunasemfundweni yezingane…. Ubudlelwano nezingane kufanele bube yilokhu:
Into yokuqala: Abazali kufanele basebenzise isikhathi esithe xaxa nezingane zabo namuhla.
Okwesibili: Namuhla abazali kufanele banikeze izingane zabo uthando olwengeziwe. Inkinga ukuthi ubanikeza kanjani uthando. Namuhla izingane kufanele zinikezwe uthando lwangempela lukamama noloyise, hhayi lolu thando oluqukethe ukubanika izinto ezidlulayo.
Okwesithathu: Kufanele sizibuze ukuthi bangaki abazali emndenini abathandaza nezingane zabo namuhla ukuthi bathandaze kanjani.
Okwesine: Bangaki abazali namuhla abanazo nezingane zabo emndenini ukuze bakhulume ndawonye futhi bacabangisise ngolwazi lwabo? Umuntu ubuye azibuze ukuthi yibuphi ubumbano, okuyinto evumayo, ebusa namuhla phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Hhayi lokho kuphela, kepha nokuthi ubunye nobunye buphi phakathi kwabazali, umyeni nenkosikazi; bese kuthiwani-ke ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali nezingane naphakathi kwabantwana nabazali. Futhi abazali bakhula kanjani ngokwabo, baba ngabantu abavuthiwe? Futhi ke yini abazali abafuna ukuyinika izingane zabo. Ukuthi abazali bakuphatha kanjani ukulawula inkululeko yezingane namuhla. Iningi labazali liyeka konke liqhubeke futhi liqhubeke nokunikeza izingane zabo imali nemali!
Lokhu kumkhondo kuphela wabazali abafuna ukuhlanganisa umndeni wabo ...
Bazali kudingeka bahambisane nezingane zabo futhi bazifundise ngokholo, bazifundise ukuthandaza nokubakhanyisela kuzo zonke izinto empilweni. Kuyadingeka ukuqondisa ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze ikwazi ukubona okungekuhle, kuyadingeka ukuthi imqale empilweni futhi isisize ukuba izitholele yona, ingane ayinakho ukuvuthwa okudingekayo ukuze izazi, abazali bathole okuhlangenwe nakho, kufanele bakhulume nezingane zabo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba khona kwabazali eduze kwezingane zabo yikho okubaluleke kakhulu.