Cabanga namhlanje ngemfihlakalo yabantu obizelwe ukubathanda
“Anifundanga yini ukuthi kwasekuqaleni uMdali wabadalela owesilisa nowesifazane, wathi: Ngalesi sizathu indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina, ihlanganiswe nomkayo, bobabili babe nyamanye? Ngakho-ke abasasebabili, kepha banyama-nye ”. UMathewu 19: 4-6a
Uyini umshado? Abesilisa nabesifazane kusukela besebancane bazizwa bakhangwa omunye komunye. Kungokwemvelo ukubona lokhu. Yebo, kwesinye isikhathi lokhu "kuklanywa" kuyahlanekezelwa bese kuphenduka inkanuko, kepha kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi lo mklamo wemvelo umane nje ungokwemvelo ... wemvelo. "Kusukela ekuqaleni uMdali wabadala baba owesilisa nowesifazane ..." Ngakho-ke, kusukela ekuqaleni, uNkulunkulu wayesho ubumbano olungcwele lomshado.
Umshado uyimfihlakalo ngempela. Yebo, amadoda angacabanga ukuthi abafazi bawo "abayimfihlakalo" futhi amakhosikazi angacabanga okufanayo ngabayeni bawo, kepha ngeqiniso umuntu ngamunye uyimfihlo engcwele futhi ubunye babantu ababili emshadweni buyimfihlakalo enkulu kunaleyo.
Njengemfihlakalo, umuntu oshade naye kanye nomshado uqobo kumele uqedwe ngokuvuleleka nokuthobeka okuthi, "Ngifuna ukukwazi kakhulu nsuku zonke." Abashadayo abasondela emshadweni wabo ngokuzenzisa bayohlala bebukela phansi abanye futhi bayohlala behluleka ukuhlonipha imfihlakalo engcwele yomunye.
Wonke umuntu owaziyo, ikakhulukazi owakwakho, uyimfihlakalo enhle futhi ekhazimulayo yendalo kaNkulunkulu ongabizwanga ukuba 'uyixazulule' kepha ubizelwe ukuthi uzohlangana nsuku zonke ngokujula. Kufanele kube nokuthobeka okuvumela abashadayo ukuthi bavulekele nsuku zonke kwenye indlela entsha, ukuthola ngokuqhubekayo ukujula kobuhle kwenye. Lokhu kungukuthobeka nenhlonipho komunye nomunye emshadweni evumela abashade ukuthi bafeze umsebenzi wabo ojwayelekile wokuba munye. Cabanga ngakho, "abasasebabili, kepha banyama-nye". Bambalwa kakhulu abaqonda ngokweqiniso ukuthi kusho ukuthini lokhu futhi bambalwa kakhulu abathola ukujula okumangalisayo kwalokhu kubizelwa okuhle komshado okukhazimulayo.
Cabanga namhlanje ngemfihlakalo yabantu obizelwe ukubathanda, ikakhulukazi uma ushadile. Ukubiza omunye ngokuthi "imfihlakalo" ekuqaleni kungaholela ekumameleni njengoba ubona ukuthi awukwazi ukukuqonda. Kepha ukuyivuma ngokuzithoba incazelo enhle yokuthi "imfihlakalo" kuzokuholela ukuthi ubone ukuvelela kwabanye futhi kuzokusiza ukuthi wamukele ubizo lobumbano lwabantu, ikakhulukazi emshadweni.
Nkosi ngisize ngibone ubuhle nemfihlakalo engcwele yabantu obabeke empilweni yami. Ngisize ngibathande ngenhliziyo ethobekile. Kwangathi ngingajulisa uthando lwami ngomngane wami nsuku zonke. Jesu ngiyakholelwa kuwe.