Umama umangalela umpristi ngemuva kokuthi ukuzibulala kwendodana eyeve eshumini nambili "kuphikisana noNkulunkulu"

Umhlangano womngcwabo weMaison Hullibarger uqale ngendlela ejwayelekile: umpristi walubona usizi lwabazali bomuntu oneminyaka engu-XNUMX futhi wacela uNkulunkulu ukuthi asebenzise amazwi akhe ukubakhanyisela.

Ngemuva kwalokho umyalezo ovela kuMfundisi uDon LaCuesta uthathe ushintsho olukhulu.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi sikubize ngokubi okuhle, okungalungile okulungile," kusho uMnu LaCuesta etshela abalilayo esontweni lakhe eTemperance, eMichigan.

"Njengoba singamaKrestu, kufanele sisho ukuthi esikwaziyo kuyiqiniso: ukuthi ukuthatha impilo yakho kuphambene noNkulunkulu owasidala futhi umelene nabo bonke labo abasithandayo".

UJeffrey noLinda Hullibarger bamangala. Abazange badalule ukuthi indodana yabo ishone kanjani ngaphandle kwabangani nomndeni, kepha uMnu LaCuesta uqhubeke nokuphimisela igama elithi "ukuzibulala" amahlandla ayisithupha futhi waphakamisa nokuthi abantu abaqeda izimpilo zabo bangibuso bukaNkulunkulu.

Cishe unyaka ngemuva kokuba uMnu. LaCuesta engamele umngcwabo ngoDisemba 8, 2018, uLinda Hullibarger wafaka icala kuye, iSonto LamaKhatholika leNkosikazi Yethu yaseMount Carmel kanye ne-Archdiocese yaseDetroit, bethi leli khaya lilimaze ngendlela engalungiseki umndeni.

Isenzo esethulwe ngoLwesithathu olwedlule siphakamisa umzamo oqhubekayo wababambe iqhaza ukuthola umthwalo omkhulu kusuka ku-archdiocese uye embusweni wezomthetho.

"Ngokubona kwami, wenza umngcwabo wendodana yethu ohlelweni lwakhe."

UMelinda Moore, ongomunye wabaholi bezinhlangano zemiphakathi yezenkolo eNational Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention, uthe abaholi bezenkolo bangabalingani ababalulekile ekuvimbeleni ukuzibulala nokusabela uma kwenzeka.

Uthe imindeni efana nekaLaCuesta ikhombisa ukucwaswa kwabantu namanje okuzibulala emiphakathini yezenkolo futhi kuvame ukuqinisa imizwa yezibopho, amahloni nosizi lwabathandekayo.

UNksz Hullibarger uthi ecaleni lakhe, wafaka eNkantolo Yombuso waseMichigan, ukuthi uMnu. ILaCuesta ibangele lolo hlobo lwenhliziyo ngemuva kokuba yena nomyeni wakhe bephendukele epherishi labo eselinesikhathi eside befuna induduzo.

UMnu LaCuesta wehlulekile ukukhombisa uzwelo ngesikhathi ehlangana nalezi zithandani ukuhlela umngcwabo, kusho icala, kunalokho wasuka khona lapho wayokhuluma ngokulungela kwesonto.

AbakwaHullibarger batshele umpristi ukuthi bafuna umngcwabo ubungaze impilo kaMaison, umuntu omusha waseNyuvesi yaseToledo owayefunda ezobulungiswa. Lezi zithandani nazo bezifuna ukuthi umngcwabo usabalalise umyalezo omuhle ngomusa kwabanye, kanti icala lithi uMnu LaCuesta uzivumile izicelo.

Ngemuva kokuthi abantu abangamakhulu bebuthene esontweni bezokwenzela le nkonzo, uMnu LaCuesta wathi emndenini wakhe uNkulunkulu angakuthethelela ukuzibulala njengoba ethethelela zonke izono lapho abantu befuna umusa wakhe. Uthe uNkulunkulu angahlulela impilo yonke yomuntu ngaphandle kokubheka "isinqumo esibi nesokugcina esenziwe yilowo muntu".

"Ngenxa yomhlatshelo kaKristu ohlanganisa konke esiphambanweni, uNkulunkulu angaba nesihe kunoma isiphi isono," kusho uMnu. LaCuesta, ngokusho kwekhophi yomndeni wakhe eyashicilelwa yisifundabhishobhi esikhulu.

"Yebo, sibonga umusa wakhe, uNkulunkulu angakuthethelela ukuzibulala futhi alaphe okwaphukile."

Abazilile bebebonakala ukuthi bacasukile uma bezwa imbangela yokushona kukaMaison, ngokusho kwembangela.

UJeffrey Hullibarger wadlula waya epulpiti wahlebela uMnu LaCuesta ukuthi "ngicela uyeke" ukukhuluma ngokuzibulala, kusho icala, kepha umpristi akakayishintshi inkambo. Kuthiwa wayiqeda inkonzo ngaphandle kokuvumela umndeni ukuthi ufunde imibhalo ekhethiwe noma usho amagama okugcina ngoMaison.

Abanye abantu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi batshele uLinda Hullibarger ukuthi bezwa imindeni engenazwelo ngokufanayo ngabathandekayo babo kuMnu LaCuesta, kusho icala.

Umndeni wahlangana noMbhishobhi omkhulu u-Allen Vigneron noMbhishobhi Gerard Battersby, kodwa baxoshwa, ngokusho kwecala. UMnu Battersby kuthiwa utshele uLinda Hullibarger ukuthi "ayidedele."

Umndeni ucele ukuthi uMnu LaCuesta asuswe, kepha umpristi watshela amakholwa akhe ukuthi uncamela ukuhlala asebenzele umphakathi wesifunda. Ihlala ibhalwe kuwebhusayithi yesonto.

U-Linda Hullibarger utshele iThe Post ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi i-homily ethunyelwe ku-inthanethi inguqulo ecatshangelwe kakhulu kunalokho okunikezwe nguMnu LaCuesta. I-archdiocese yenqabile ukuphawula ngaleli cala.

Okhulumela i-Archdiocese uHolly Fournier wenqabile ukuphawula ngalesi sizathu, kodwa wakhomba esitatimendeni esenziwa yisifunda sombhishobhi esikhulu ngoDisemba sokuxolisa ngokuhlukumeza umndeni wakwaHullibarger, kunokuwududuza.

"Siyabona… ukuthi umndeni wawulindele i-homilia ngokubheka ukuthi lowo othandekayo wayephila kanjani, hhayi ukuthi wafa kanjani," kusho isitatimende.

"Siyazi nokuthi umndeni walinyazwa kakhulu ukukhetha kukababa ukuhlanganyela emfundisweni yeSonto ngokuzibulala, lapho bekugcizelelwa kakhulu ukusondela kukaNkulunkulu kulabo abalilayo."

Sekuyisikhathi eside iSonto LamaKatolika liphikisana nokuthi ukuzibulala kuphikisana nomsebenzi womuntu ngamunye wokuvikela impilo uNkulunkulu ayinikeze yona.

Kuze kube uMkhandlu Wesibili weVatican ngawo-60, abantu ababezibulala babengavunyelwe ukuthola umngcwabo wobuKristu. ICatechism of the Catholic Church, eyagunyazwa nguPapa John Paul II ngo-1992, ithi ukuzibulala “kuphambene kakhulu nokuzithanda okulungile” kodwa iyabona ukuthi abantu abaningi abagcina ngokuphila kwabo bagula ngengqondo.

“Ukuphazamiseka okukhulu kwengqondo, usizi noma ukwesaba okukhulu ukungaphatheki kahle, ukuhlupheka noma ukuhlukunyezwa kunganciphisa umthwalo walabo abazibulalayo,” kusho ikhathekizimu.

Amalungu amaningi abefundisi awaqeqeshiwe kahle ngokuzibulala futhi awazi ukuthi angawusiza kanjani umndeni nabangane bomuntu oshonile, kusho uNksz Moore, ophinde abe nguprofesa wezengqondo e-Eastern Kentucky University.

Uthe abaholi bezenkolo kumele balalele usizi, badlulise amazwi enduduzo, babheke emibhalweni ukuze bathole umhlahlandlela, bakhulume nangendlela umuntu oshonile aphila ngayo, hhayi nje indlela ashone ngayo.

"Ukusho ukuthi kuyisono, kuyisenzo sikaDeveli, ukubeka imicabango yakho kulokhu futhi ungabheki ngempela izimfundiso zesonto lakho kulokhu engicabanga ukuthi abaholi bezenkolo akufanele bakwenze," kusho uNksz Moore.

IWashington Post