Intombazane yakwamakhelwane ekwazi ukwenza izimanga

Namuhla, ngesikhathi sokugubha iminyaka engu-5 enyamalala, sizokutshela ngoSimonetta Pompa Giordani, ragazza kokubili okuvamile nokungavamile.

UStefano kanye no Simonetta

ISimonetta wayeyintombazane engajwayelekile, wayeyithanda impilo futhi ehlala emamatheka ezindebeni zakhe. Impilo yakhe ibingelula neze. Umndeni wakubo wawunomama okhubazeke kakhulu, udadewabo one-Down's syndrome kanye nobaba onothando nogxeka kakhulu.

Ngemva kweminyaka yokufundela umsebenzi nokuzikhandla, intombazane yayisifeze iphupho layo lokuba iumdwebi wezithombe nomklami. Ngo-2008, lapho izinkundla zokuxhumana zingakabi khona, ngeqembu elisha, uSimonetta waqala ukuba nezingxoxo ezinde naye. UStefano Giordani, udokotela wezilwane oneminyaka engu-6 omncane wakhe.

Ngokusobala laba bafana ababili babefana kancane. U-Simonetta wayekhona Indlela ye-Neucatecuminal, uhambo lokholo olwamvumela ukuba aqhubeke emamatheka naphezu kokukhula kanzima. Kwakunjalo uStefanu ongakholelwa kuNkulunkulu futhi abangenandaba nhlobo nenkolo. Njengoba ayemelene nobuKatolika, lapho unina eshona, wathi akakhiphe isiphambano ebhokisini.

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ikhredithi: isithombe uStefano Giordani

U-Simonetta uyakwazi ukusondeza umyeni wakhe noyise okholweni

Ngo 2010 lezi zinsizwa ezimbili zanquma ukuhlangana mathupha. Kwakuwuthando ekuqaleni kokubona futhi ukholo lwentombazane lwakwazi ungakapheli unyaka ukwenza zonke iziqinisekiso zikaStefano zibhidlike, kangangokuthi wamcindezela ukuba angene endleleni ye-Neucatecuminal. UStefano, ethanda leyo ntombazane njengoba engakaze athande muntu empilweni yakhe, waqonda ukuthi okuwukuphela kwesenzo sesenzo sokuthanda kwakuyi-infinitive.

Yebo, izingane ezimbili bashada ngoJuni 3, 2012 futhi iminyaka emithathu eyalandela yayingcono kakhulu ekuphileni kwabo. Ukuphela kwento eyayishoda ukuze baqedele injabulo yabo kwakuyindodana. Ngemuva kwezindlela zokwelapha ezahlukahlukene zokuzala, ngo-2015 uSimonetta watholakala ukuthi unalo umdlavuza webele. Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuhlupheka kwangena ezimpilweni zabo, kodwa bangalokothi balahle ithemba. Ukholo, abangani kanye nomphakathi we-Neucatecuminal uhlale uhamba nabo kulolu hambo olubuhlungu.

Ezinyangeni zokugcina zempilo kaSimonetta, uyakwazi ukufeza umsebenzi wakhe isimangaliso sesibili. Uyise, obelokhu ephikisana nokukhetha kwakhe kanye nendlela yakhe yokukholwa, ukhumula izikhali zakhe futhi waqala ukuthandaza.