Intombazane echobozekile ivuka ekhefini enencazelo ekhanyayo yezulu
Intombazane yaseMinnesota echotshozwe ithayi ugandaganda ivuka ekhefini enencazelo ekhanyayo yezulu
“Uthe, 'Mama, ngivuke emzimbeni wami ngabona ubaba enganga. Ungiphuca ithayi, ”kukhumbula uKordiak. “Uthe ubone amakhulu ezinsimbi zokukhanya ethandaza kuwo wonke umuntu emhlabeni emthandazela ukuthi aphile. Wayejabule epharadesi. "" Uthi ubengasibona futhi akhombise ngobuhlungu nokuzisola kwethu ... futhi wakhetha ukubuyela kulomhlaba. "
Ngemuva kwengozi nesipiliyoni sokubulawa kwakhe eduze, u-Amber-Rose Kordiak oneminyaka engu-10 uyamamatheka futhi.
"Ngiye ezulwini," kusho intombazane eneminyaka eyi-10 ngemuva kokubuya "ekufeni" - Ukuphila ngaphambi kokufa kubangele isimanga esibi ku-Amber Rose Kordiak. Lapho eseneminyaka eyisikhombisa kuphela ubudala, kwehla ithayi lamakhilogremu angu-600 ngoJulayi 2013. Kwakukubi kakhulu, ngoba kwaqhoboza amathambo obuso bakhe obuthambile.
Batali bakhe bebasaba kakhulu. Ukulimala kuka-Amber Rose bekukubi kakhulu kangangoba nabezimo eziphuthumayo bashaqekile. "Bebemi lapho imilomo yabo ivulekile, ibiyimakhaza, ibingashukumi," umama wakhe, uJen Kodiak, ukhumbule ukuthi u-Amber ungeniswe esibhedlela saseTwin Cities, lapho kubukeka sengathi ulahlekelwe yigazi eliningi kangangokuba umzimba wakhe wawuphansi ukwethuka. Ngenhlanhla, izitho zahlala ziqinile futhi azivalanga. Wathunyelwa ngokushesha ukuba ahlinzwe futhi waquleka.
Ingabe wayezophila noma afe? Kwavela ukuthi sobabili! Wayephila ngoba kusobala ukuthi wayesabhalile. Kepha ngemuva kokuvula amehlo, watshela umama wakhe, uJen Kordiak, ukuthi wayekade "esezulwini". Kamuva, uJen wathi, “Ngicabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ushonile; Angazi ukuthi ukwenze kanjani. ” U-Amber uthe, "Lapho ngiya ezulwini, ngabona imisebe yokukhanya inyukela ezulwini." UJen uthe indodakazi yakhe ilandele “izibani nezinqwaba zemikhuleko”.
Intombazane efile ibizigqolozele ngemuva kwengozi futhi empeleni ibuke ubaba wakhe esusa izinsini emzimbeni wakhe. UJen uthe ku-KSTP: “Uthe, 'Mama, ngivukile emzimbeni wami ngabona ubaba engibamba. Ungiphuce ithayi. '”Wanezela:“ Wayejabule epharadesi. Uthi ubengasibona futhi engakhombisa ubuhlungu nokuzisola kwethu futhi wakhetha ukubuyela kulomhlaba. " Ngemuva kweminyaka emithathu, u-Amber walanda konke okwenzekile. Uvumile kubazali bakhe ukuthi "unqume ukubuyela eMhlabeni" ngoba "ubengafuni ukuthi umndeni wakhe udabuke". Ngakho-ke, kwakuyisinqumo sakhe ukuba aphile.
Ukuhlinzwa okuningana kuye kwasiza ukubuvuselela ubuso bakhe, yize amathambo amaningi amchobozile amathambo akhe obuso. Ukuze ubuyisele umbono wakhe, ithambo lakhe lomlomo lidinga ukubuyiselwa, kanti nekhala lakhe kufanele lakhiwe kabusha ukuze likwazi ukuphefumula futhi. Umhlathi wakhe, amazinyo nezinzwa nakho kufanele kulungiswe futhi alimale ukulimala kobuchopho obuhlukumezanayo. U-Amber udlule ibhethri lokuhlinzwa ngesibindi futhi usethola ukubuyela kwakhe ebusweni bakhe eMayo Clinic. UJen uthe: "Ngiyakuthanda nje lokho asifundisa khona ngothando nangabantu nangesihe nangobuhle futhi akazi nokuthi uyakwenza. … Ngenkathi kwenzeka okokuqala basitshele ukuthi ingane yethu yentombazane ngeke iphinde imamatheke, futhi ukumamatheka kwakhe kumnandi kusukela ngosuku lokuqala. Wadelela okungahambi kahle, wathi, 'Angikwazi ukukhohlisa, kodwa ngingamomotheka' futhi yilokho okwenzekile. "
Novemba 15, 2016 Kubikwe [lapha]. Ngemuva kwengozi emangazayo nokuhlangenwe nakho okusondelene nokufa, intombazane eneminyaka eyishumi iyaphinda imamatheke futhi: U-Amber-Rose Kordiak oneminyaka engu-10 uyamamatheka futhi, okubonakala sengathi akunakwenzeka ngemuva kwengozi eyashiya ubuso bakhe baphuka uhhafu. Ngo-2013, yena nomndeni wakhe babephumula epulazini labo laseMinnesota ngobusuku behlobo lapho ubaba wakhe eyosebenza kugandaganda. U-Amber-Rose, owayeneminyaka engu-7 ngaleso sikhathi, waya kuye wabingelela amakati akhe.
Ithala likagandaganda elingamakhilogremu adinga ukulungiswa labekwa odongeni lwesibaya. Uyise ka-Amber-Rose uxwayise ukuthi angasondeli, kepha intombazane yacabanga ukuthi kungaba mnandi ukuyiwela. "Engangikuzwa kuphela ukukhala komyeni wami," kusho uJen Kordiak, umama ka-Amber-Rose namhlanje. “Ngigijime ngaya khona wayevele emubamba. Ubuso bakhe babuphakathi ngokuphelele. Ngokuyisisekelo, ingxenye engenhla ngaphansi kwamehlo yalengiswa. Uvele ubone amehlo akhe kanye nalomgodi omkhulu.
Lapho ithayi elikhulu liqothuka futhi liwela i-Amber-Rose, indophi yensimbi yasika ubuso bayo, ukusika amathambo, izicubu nemisipha. Akukho lutho olwalubambe umhlathi ongenhla ezisekelweni zamehlo: ngeso lengqondo isimo sePac-Man, kusho uKordiak. Ngemuva kokuzama ukunqanda ukopha, uKordiak walanda indodakazi yakhe wagijimela eveni lomndeni. Lapho ehla ngomgwaqo osemakhaya eyohlangana ne-ambulensi, umyeni wakhe wabamba ubuso buka-Amber-Rose. “Ngithe nje, sizokwenza, sizoyigcina. Ngeke ngilahlekelwe yingane yami, ”kukhumbula uKordiak. Indiza enophephela emhlane yathatha umfana oneminyaka engu-7 ngendiza wayisa esibhedlela. Walahlekelwa ligazi eliningi kangangokuba umzimba wakhe washaqeka. "Into engiyizwile ukuthi akekho umuntu owake walimala kangaka," kusho uKordiak.
Ukujikeleza kwamehlo kwesokunene kuka-Amber-Rose kwahlakazeka ngokuphelele, kwasala nje kungekho lutho. Amathambo abumba ikhala lakhe ayengasekho. Umhlathi ongaphezulu, umhlathi, ubanjiwe ngokuphelele. Wayenomhlathi ohlukanisiwe noshunqiwe nomhlathi ophansi ongakwesobunxele. Ingxenye yesifuba sesokunene yayingasekho. Walimala ekhanda ekuweni okunobudlova.
Odokotela babengenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi uzosinda yini, kepha intombazane yakwazi ukusinda. Ngenkathi u-Amber-Rose evuka ekhefeni elinomdlandla, umndeni wakhe wawungacabangi ukuthi kukhona azokukhumbula. Kepha wabatshela ukuthi uyakwazi lokho okwenzekayo. “Uthe, 'Mama, ngivuke emzimbeni wami ngabona ubaba enganga. Ungiphuca ithayi, ”kukhumbula uKordiak. “Uthe ubone amakhulukhulu emithandazweni ekhanyayo evela kuwo wonke umhlaba emthandazela ukuthi aphile. Wayejabule epharadesi. "" Uthi ubengasibona futhi akhombise ngobuhlungu nokuzisola kwethu ... futhi wakhetha ukubuyela kulomhlaba. "
Silulame isikhathi eside. U-Amber-Rose wayedinga ithubhu le-tracheostomy ukuze aphefumule. Odokotela abahlukahlukene bazamile ukusebenzisa amapuleti wensimbi ukulungisa ubuso, kepha abanye bangenwa yibo futhi babangela izinkinga ezinkulu, kusho umama wakhe. Abantu babheka le ntombazanyana encane eneso layo lokunene lalingaphansi kwamasentimitha amabili kuneso lesobunxele. NgoDisemba 2015, lo mndeni waqala ukwelashwa eMayo Clinic eRochester, eMinnesota. Odokotela abahlinzayo basebenzise imodeli ye-3D yekhanda lakhe ukuhlela ukwakhiwa kabusha kobuso buka-Amber-Rose, okubandakanya ukuhlinzwa amahora angama-18 ngoJulayi. "Ukulimala okuyinkimbinkimbi," kusho uDkt Uldis Bite, udokotela ohlinzayo opulasitiki nowakha kabusha ohola iqembu esiza i-Amber-Rose. "Uke wasebenza kaningi ngaphambi kokufika lapha, okunye obekungasebenzi njengoba abantu bekubenza babe nethemba."