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Yiba nokholo. Ungesabi futhi ungalilahli ithemba. Akuwona wonke amadoda afana nalowo owakuphatha kabi. Abaningi ngabantu abalungile, abanothando ngabantu asebekhulile, abakulungele ukusiza abanye. Mhlawumbe usuvele udumele kancane ngempilo yokuthi ngesikhathi esithile kufanele ushiye ikhaya lakho waphila iminyaka bese uyohlala ekhaya elijwayelekile. Izingane zakho ezimatasa zikuphathise abanye. Ubusele wedwa, ulahlekelwe nawumkakho engasekho kule mpilo.
Ungakhathazeki, yiba nokukholwa. Ngeshwa impilo ngeshwa inzima futhi emva kokuhlupheka okuningi uphathwa kabi. Yini engingakutshela yona, gogo wami, njengendoda namhlanje ngizizwa ngikhungathekile, ngicishe ngithukuthele. Kepha ubheke phambili, noma ngabe impilo yakho ihlala usuku olulodwa, bheka phambili.
Phambi kwakho kunabantu abaningi abakuthanda. Kukhona amavolontiya asemasha, abazukulu bakho, abangane, abasebenza kahle kwezenhlalo abenza umsebenzi wabo kahle nangothando. Kunezingane zakho ezingakushiyanga kepha zikufake kule ndawo ukuze ungaphuthelwa lutho, ukuphathwa, ukukugcina uphakathi kwakho.
Ungadumazeki, ungalahli ithemba ngomuntu obekwe ezintanjeni zokuphila ukhiphele intukuthelo yakhe nawe. Impela umkhulu othandekayo uyamthethelela. Wena owazi impilo futhi osifundisa amanani weqiniso kuyo yonke impilo yakho yokuzidela thethelela lo muntu futhi usinike imfundiso eqhubekayo engagunyazwa ngumdala kuphela, osekhulile, kepha onolwazi lokuphila nokubekezela.
Futhi kuthiwani ngami. Ukwanga, umkhuleko, ukuphuluswa kude. Impilo ayikubeki ezintanjeni, impilo ayikakujezisi. Ube nokuhlangenwe nakho okukodwa kuphela, yize kukubi, kepha isiqephu esisodwa kuphela nokuhlangenwe nakho okukodwa ongangeza kwezinye izinkulungwane esezenziwe. Awusizo ngalutho. Uyinhliziyo, ungumphefumulo, oshaya ingunaphakade futhi noma ngabe umzimba wakho unamahloni futhi uyagula siyawuhlonipha. Umzimba wakho unikeze impilo, unikeze umsebenzi, wadala izizukulwane, umzimba wakho namuhla usesimweni esibi usishiya nemfundiso ingunaphakade.
Kukhona okushayile namhlanje. Uhlangane nomuntu ongafanele namhlanje. Ngingakuqinisekisa namhlanje ukuthi kunabanye abantu abayinkulungwane abakulungele ukukuphathaphatha, bakulungele ukukunikeza imoto, bakulungele ukubona inani lakho elikhulu njengomuntu osekhulile, okulungele ukukulwela, ukuvikelwa kwakho, nokulungele ukukunakekela.
Silokhu. Singamadoda sikulungele ukuba seduze kwakho. Ukuqabula.
EKUPHELENI KWALE LONTO NGIFUNA UKWENZA IZIMBONO EZIMBILI:
FIRST
Bantwana abathandekayo, ninokuzibophezela okuningi kakhulu. Kepha ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ukunakekela i-genotore esesekhulile ukuzibophezela kwezinga lesibili? Ngakho-ke uma ungeke ukwazi ukugcina abazali asebekhulile ekhaya, ubabeke ezindaweni zokugcina izingane kodwa sihamba nsuku zonke ukuze simnikeze i-caress njengoba lapho, ngemuva kosuku lomsebenzi omningi, babuyela ekhaya futhi basinika i-caress kithina esasisebasha.
NGESIBILI
Wena oshaya umuntu osekhulile, ngizwe “uzifake esibukweni bese uzishaya. Ngale ndlela ubukeka ungcono ”.
I-TERZO
Wena owenza ibhizinisi kusukela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku, uthole imali, dala umsebenzi kanye nebhizinisi, thola umzuzu wokunikeza umuntu osekhulile, ingane, umsebenzi wokupha ngomusa. Mhlawumbe ekugcineni kosuku phakathi kwezinhlamvu ezahlukene ozenzayo uzobona, kusihlwa, lapho ubeka ikhanda lakho phezu komcamelo, ukuthi into engcono kakhulu oyenzile ukuthi wenzele abanye okuhle.
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