Ngabe thina noma uNkulunkulu kufanele sikhethe umlingani wethu?
UZimu wenza u-Adamu bona angabi nayo le nkinga. Hhayi ngisho namadoda amaningi asebhayibhelini, phela abalingani babo ngokuvamile babekhethwa obaba. Kepha siphila ngekhulu lama-21 futhi izinto sezishintshile. Izingane zilenga emaphathini adakwe ubusuku bonke, zivuke, zilwe, zibe nezingane, zilwe, inenhlanhla zithole indlela yazo, futhi zihlale emnyama-ups wesithathu omnyama.
Kepha cishe ufuna okungcono, ngakho-ke ukuqala ngiphakamisa ukuthi uye emicimbini lapho ungathola khona inani elikhulu labangane ofanelekile, ngethemba labo abakholelwa kuNkulunkulu. Lokhu kungaba ngamakamu, imidanso yesikole noma yesikole, ipiknikha enkulu, amakilabhu ezikole, izinsizakalo zesonto (ikakhulukazi emasontweni ngaphandle kwelakho uma unalo) nokunye.
Enye indlela enhle yokuthola umuntu ongathandana naye futhi mhlawumbe umlingani kungaba ukunikela ngesikhathi sakho kuzimbangela ezifanele ezisenabantu abalingana nawe abasiza abanye. Endaweni ethile phakathi kwakho konke intokazi efuna ukuchitha ikusasa layo noMister Right nomunye umuntu uNkulunkulu angamamukela.
Zinike isikhathi sokuxoxa ulalele amantombazane. Buza imibuzo ezobaholela ekukhulumeni ngabo, amathemba abo, namaphupho abo. Futhi ungavolontiya ukukhuluma ngawe aze akubuze. Udinga ukubenza umuntu obaluleke kakhulu ezingxoxweni.
Lapho uthandaza kuNkulunkulu, mtshele ngabesifazane abasebasha okufanele ubazi, bese ucela usizo lwakhe ngokuthobeka ukuba unqume ukuthi yimuphi kubo (uma ekhona) ongaba umngane womshado.
Noma yini oyenzayo, ungahlali kuvulandi ulindele uNkulunkulu ukuthi akuthumelele umlingani. Uzolinda isikhathi eside futhi ukuphela kwento ezokuthumela yimvula neqhwa.
Umgomo obalulekile wokuthandana ungatholakala ku-1Samuel 16: 7 lapho uNkulunkulu eyala khona umprofethi uSamuyeli ukuthi angahluleli umuntu ngokubukeka kwakhe kwangaphandle noma ngokubukeka kwakhe, kodwa kunalokho ngesimo sakhe. Intombazane ebukekayo embuthanweni mhlawumbe ngeke ibe yinhle njengomlingani onjengethafa elifana noJane ongabuzwa njalo ngosuku.
Ekugcineni, lapho wena noNkulunkulu nithatha isinqumo sokuthi ngubani ozoba naye ekuhlanganyeleni, mphathe njengoba uJohnny Lingo aphatha umakoti wakhe. Ezweni elisesiqhingini lapho kwakuthengwa khona amakhosikazi, intengo evamile yokubuza yaying izinkomo ezine; ezinhlanu noma eziyisithupha uma lona wesifazane ebemuhle ngokukhethekile. Kepha uJohnny Lingo wakhokha izinkomo eziyisishiyagalombili kowesifazane omncane, owanqikanqika, onamahloni owayehamba namahlombe akhe elunyunyiwe nekhanda phansi. Wonke umuntu esigodini wamangala.
Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngemuva komshado, umlingani kaJohnny wayeseshintshe waba ngowesifazane omuhle, okulungele nokuzethemba. UJohnny wachaza: “Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane ucabangani ngaye. Ngangifuna unkosikazi wezinkomo eziyisishiyagalombili, kwathi uma sengimkhokhele, futhi ngamphatha ngaleyo ndlela, wabona ukuthi ubaluleke ukudlula bonke abantu besifazane eziqhingini. "