Ubaba ongenazitho, ukhulisa amadodakazi angu-2 eyedwa ngesibindi nangokukholwa okukhulu.

Ukuba umzali kuwumsebenzi onzima kunayo yonke emhlabeni kodwa futhi ovuza kakhulu. Izingane ziyisandiso sempilo yethu, ukuziqhenya kwethu, isimangaliso sethu. Kukangaki sizibuza umbuzo ofanayo: Ngizoba ngumama oqotho, ngizoba muhle ubaba?

Ukuba ubaba omuhle kusho ukuba ubaba othanda futhi onakekela izingane zakhe, ozinikele enhlalakahleni yazo kanye nemfundo yazo. Ukhona ekuphileni kwezingane zakhe, ezilalela, ezisekela futhi aziqondise lapho kudingeka.

Futhi, bafundise ukubaluleka kwenhlonipho, ukwethembeka, umthwalo wemfanelo, nomusa. Ubaba omuhle futhi uyisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakhe, ezigqugquzelwa ubuqotho bakhe, amandla akhe angaphakathi nekhono lakhe lokubhekana nezinselele zempilo ngesibindi nangesithunzi.

Futhi lesi yisihloko kanye nendaba esizokutshela yona namuhla. Indaba kababa owavikela futhi ethanda amadodakazi akhe, naphezu kwezithiyo nobunzima.

Ubaba omuhle kakhulu emhlabeni

I-Paraguay. Pablo Acuna uyindoda eneminyaka engama-60. Ukuphila naye kwakunonya. Wazalwa engenazo izitho zomzimba, washiywa umkakhe futhi waphoqeleka ukuba akhulise amadodakazi angu-2 yedwa. Uyindodakazi encane ngempela, elida,ukuxoxa indaba yakhe Iphephandaba laseParaguay iCronica. Umama wabo wabalahla lapho intombazane inezinyanga ezi-4 kuphela ubudala futhi bahlala noyise kanye nogogo wabo ozala uyise kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Nakuba umndeni wabo uphansi kakhulu, amantombazane ahlala ezungezwe uthando nokusekelwa.

Okwa-Elida namuhla Uneminyaka engu-26 ubudala, uyise wayengumzali ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni, ngakho njengoba ugogo wakhe eneminyaka engu-90 usebuyile ukuzohlala nabo. Ngalesi senzo, intombazane ibifuna ukubonga umzali wayo ngokuyikhulisa futhi manje sekuyithuba layo lokuyinakekela futhi ibuyisele uthando olungaka.

U-Elida nomndeni wakhe bebelokhu behlala endaweni eyodwa indlu ngokuqasha, kodwa uPablo ubelokhu efisa ukukwazi ukuyithenga. Umnikazi wayo wamcela izigidi ezingu-95 futhi uPablo walondoloza ezingu-87 ngokuzidela okuningi. Manje u-Elida ufuna ukumsiza ukuba afeze iphupho lakhe.