Thethelela abanye, hhayi ngoba bekufanele ukuthethelelwa, kodwa ngoba ufanele ukuthula

“Sidinga ukuthuthukisa futhi silondoloze amandla okuthethelela. Lowo ongenamandla okuthethelela awunawo amandla okuthanda. Kukhona okuhle kokubi kakhulu kithi nokubi okuhle kithina. Lapho sithola lokhu, sithambekele ekuzondeni izitha zethu ”. - UMartin Luther King Jr.

Umbhalo weVangeli: (MT 18: 21-35)

UPhetro waya kuJesu wambuza:
"Nkosi, uma umfowethu engona.
kangaki kufanele ngilixolele?
Kuze kube kasikhombisa? "
UJesu waphendula: “Angikutsheli amahlandla ayisikhombisa kodwa amahlandla angamashumi ayisikhombisa nesikhombisa.
Kungakho umbuso wezulu ungafaniswa nenkosi
ngubani onqume ukulungisa ama-akhawunti nezinceku zakhe.
Lapho eqala ukubalwa kwezimali,
walethwa phambi kwakhe owayemkweleta imali enkulu.
Njengoba yayingenayo indlela yokuyikhokhela, inkosi yayo yayala ukuthi athengiswe, yena nomkakhe, nezingane zakhe nayo yonke impahla yakhe.
ukushintshana ngesikweletu.
Inceku yawela kuyo, yamkhonza yathi:
"Ungibekezelele ngizokubuyisela ngokugcwele".
Umnikazi waleyo nceku wahawukela
wamyeka wahamba wamthethelela imalimboleko.
Lapho leyo nceku ihambile, yathola omunye wabangane bayo
owayemkweleta imali encane kakhulu.
Uyibambe waqala ukuyiqeda, ebuza:
"Khokha imali oyikweletayo".
Ewa emadolweni, uzakwabo amncenga:
"Ungibekezelele, ngizokubuyisela."
Kepha wenqaba.
Esikhundleni salokho, wamfaka ejele
aze abuyisele isikweletu.
Manje, lapho izisebenzi ezikanye naye zibona okwakwenzekile,
bakhathazeka kakhulu baya enkosini yabo
futhi wabika yonke le ndaba.
Inkosi yakhe imbize yathi kuye: “Nceku embi!
Ngikuthethelele sonke isikweletu sakho ngoba ungincengile.
Ubungeke uzwele uzakwethu wensizakalo,
Ngakuhawukela kanjani?
Inkosi yakhe yathukuthela yamnikela kubahlukumezi
kuze kube yilapho kufanele akhokhe sonke isikweletu.
Uyakuba-njalo noBaba osezulwini, a
ngaphandle kokuthi yilowo nalowo kini athethelele umfowenu ngokusuka enhliziyweni. "

Ukuthethelela, uma kungokoqobo, kufanele kuthinte konke okusikhathazayo. Kokuthile okufanele sikucele, sikunikeze, kwamukele futhi sikunikeze futhi. Nawa amanye amaphuzu okufanele ucabangele:

Ungasibona ngokweqiniso isono sakho, uzwe izinhlungu ngenxa yalesosono bese uthi "ngiyaxolisa" ngesinye?

Lapho uxolelwa, lokhu kukwenzani kuwe? Ingabe unomphumela wokwenza ube nesihe ngokwengeziwe kwabanye?

Ungakwazi yini ukunikela ngezinga elifanayo lokuthethelela nesihe onethemba lokuthola kuNkulunkulu nakwabanye?

Uma ungakwazi ukuphendula u- "Yebo" kuyo yonke le mibuzo, le ndaba yabhalelwa wena. Kwabhalelwa wena ukukusiza ukhule ngokwengeziwe ezifundisweni zesihe nokuthethelela. Le yimibuzo okunzima ukuyiphendula kodwa yimibuzo ebalulekile okufanele siyiphendule uma sizokhululwa emithwalweni yolaka nentukuthelo. Intukuthelo nentukuthelo isisindo esisindayo kithina futhi uNkulunkulu ufuna ukubaqeda