Umkhuleko oyisimangaliso wokukhathazeka
Ngabe udinga isimangaliso sokukusiza unqede ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka? Imikhuleko enamandla enamandla esebenzela ukuphulukiswa isuka enkambisweni yokukhathazeka nasekukhathazekeni okuyondla yona yimithandazo yokholo. Uma uthandaza ukholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu nezingelosi zakhe bangazenza izimangaliso futhi ubameme ukuba bazenze empilweni yakho, ungaphola.
Isibonelo sendlela yokuthandaza ukunqoba ukukhathazeka
“Nkulunkulu othandekayo, ngikhathazekile kakhulu ngokuthi kwenzekani empilweni yami - nokuthi yini enginovalo engenzeka kimi ngokuzayo - ukuthi ngisebenzisa isikhathi esiningi namandla akhathazayo. Umzimba wami uphethwe [ukushiwo kwezimpawu ezinjengokuqwasha, ikhanda, ukuqaqamba kwesisu, ukuphefumula, ukushaya kwenhliziyo okusheshayo, njll.) Umqondo wami uhlushwa [ukushiwo kwezimpawu ezinjengokwesaba, ukuphazamiseka, ukukhohlakala nokukhohlwa). Umoya wami uphethwe [kukhulunywa ngezimpawu ezinjengokudikibala, ukwesaba, ukungabaza kanye nokuphelelwa yithemba). Angisafuni kuphila kanjena. Ngiyacela, uthumele isimangaliso engisidingayo ukuze ngithole ukuthula emzimbeni, engqondweni nasemoyeni onginike wona!
Baba wami owazi konke ezulwini, ngicela unginike ukuhlakanipha kokubona ukukhathazeka kwami ngombono ofanele ukuze bangangeqisi. Ngingihlala ngikhumbuza iqiniso lokuthi umkhulu kakhulu kunanoma yisiphi isimo esingikhathazayo, ngakho-ke ngingakuphathisa noma yiziphi izimo empilweni yami esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngakho. Ngiyacela unginike ukholo engiludingayo ukuze ngikukholwe futhi ngikwethembe nganoma yini engikhathazayo.
Kusukela ngalolu suku kuqhubeke, ngisize ngihlakulele umkhuba wokuguqula izinkathazo zami zibe yimikhuleko. Njalo lapho umcabango okhathazayo ungena emqondweni wami, cela ingelosi yami engigada ukuthi ungixwayise ngesidingo sokuthandazela lowo mcabango kunokuba ukhathazeke ngakho. Lapho ngisebenza kakhulu lapho ngithandaza esikhundleni sokukhathazeka, kulapho ngithola khona ukuthula okuthandayo ukunginika. Ngikhethe ukuyeka ukuthatha kabi kakhulu ngekusasa lami futhi ngiqale ukulindela okuhle, ngoba usemsebenzini empilweni yami nothando lwakho olukhulu namandla.
Ngikholwa ukuthi uzongisiza ukuphatha noma yisiphi isimo esikhathaza mina. Ngisize ngihlukanise phakathi kwalokho engikwazi ukukulawula nengingakwazi - futhi ungisize ngithathe izinyathelo eziwusizo kulokho engikwazi, futhi uzethembe ukuthi uzolawula engingakwazi. Ngenkathi uSanta uFrancis wase-Assisi ethandazela, “ngenze ngibe yithuluzi lokuthula” ebuhlotsheni bami nabanye abantu kuzo zonke izimo engihlangabezana nazo.
Ngisize ngikwazi ukuguqula okulindelwe kimi ukuze ngingangifaki ingcindezi ngokungadingekile, ngikhathazeka ngezinto ongafuni ngizikhathaze ngazo - njengokuzama ukuphelelisa, ukwethula abanye ngesithombe esingakhombisi ukuthi ngingubani ngempela, noma ngifuna ukukholisa abanye ukuthi babe yilokho engingathanda ukuba bakwenze noma benze engingathanda ukuba bakwenze. Njengoba ngidedela okulindelwe okungenangqondo futhi ngamukele indlela impilo yami eyiyo ngempela, uzonginika inkululeko engiyidingayo ukuze ngiphumule futhi ngikwethembe ngezindlela ezijulile.
Nkulunkulu ngicela ungisize ngithole isisombululo sayo yonke inkinga yangempela engihlangabezana nayo futhi ngiyeke ukukhathazeka ngo "Yini uma?" izinkinga ezingaze zenzeke esikhathini esizayo sami. Ngiyacela unginike umbono wekusasa elinokuthula lethemba nenjabulo ongihlelele yona. Ngibheke phambili kulelo kusasa, ngoba liyeza kuwe, Baba wami onothando. Ngiyabonga! Ameni. "