USan Gerardo Maiella usindisa omunye umama nengane
Umndeni ulandisa indaba yokuphulukiswa kwengane edilini lika "mama ongcwele".
Umndeni wakwaRichardson uthi ukuphulukiswa kukaBrooks Gloede omncane kunxenxwe nguSan Gerardo Majella kanye nensalela yakhe. Manje uBrooks usengumntwana ophilile.
NgoNovemba 12, 2018, eCedar Rapids, e-Iowa, uDiana Richardson wathola isithombe se-ultrasound esivela kunkosikazi wendodana yakhe uChad, uLindsay, owabuza: “Imikhuleko yengane. Kufanele sibuyele kwenye i-ultrasound emavikini amane. Ingane inama-cysts ebuchosheni, okungahle kusho ukuthi i-trisomy 18, nezinyawo ziphenduliwe, okusho ukuthi izigaxa emilenzeni ngemuva nje kokubeletha, kanye nenkinga ngentambo yenkaba: ayifakwa kwi-placenta. Ilengiswa nje ngentambo. Ngikhathazekile kancane, ngakho-ke uthando nemikhuleko ngathi nangengane 'G' ngicela. "
"Lezi zindaba bezingeke zibe buhlungu kakhulu," uRichardson ukhumbuze IRejista. Wabona ukuthi i-trisomy 18 ukungajwayelekile kwe-chromosomal okuthinta izitho, futhi zingu-10% kuphela wezingane ezizalwe nazo eziphila kuze kube lusuku lwazo lokuzalwa lokuqala.
Ngokushesha welula "umngane wami ongumfundisi othandekayo, uBaba uCarlos Martins, futhi wabuza ukuthi yimuphi ongcwele esingathandaza ngaye," ekhumbula. Weluleke uSan Gerardo Majella, usanta ongumvikeli womama besikhathi esizayo, idili lakhe lango-Okthoba 16.
“Ngenkathi uDiana engitshela ngocingo lomshana wakhe ngocingo, isithombe esicacile seSan Gerardo Majella sagcwala emqondweni wami. Wayecacile, enesibindi futhi enesibindi ”, uFather Martins, we-the Abangane beSiphambano kanye nomqondisi we-Treasure yeSonto, ukhumbuze abakwaRegistry. “Ngezwa ukuthi wayethi, 'Ngizokulungisa lokhu. Ngithumele kuleyongane. Ngathi, "Diana, kukhona umuntu engimaziyo ozosiza umzukulu wakho."
URichardson uthole umkhuleko kaSt Gerard, wawushintsha wafaka igama likaLindsay njengengxenye yenhloso, wabe eseshicilela amakhophi amaningi ukuze asatshalaliswe: "Besidinga ibutho elizokhulekela le ngane."
Waya esontweni lokudumisa isifunda sakhe eyothandaza phambi kweSakramente elibusisiwe wayocela iNkosi isimangaliso. Lapho ephuma, umngane wabasebenzi besonto wangena futhi uRichardson wamnika ikhadi lomkhuleko. Umngani wamomotheka wathi kuRichardson, “Nginalo igama lakhe. Ngithandaza nsuku zonke. Umngani uchaze ukuthi unina ubethandaza kanjani kuye nsuku zonke ngenkathi ekhulelwe nalapho ingane ifika wayibiza ngoGeralyn.
“Okwesibili ngahlala lapho ngathuka kancane ukuthi uyamazi lo ngcwele nokuthi waqanjwa ngaleli ngcwele,” kuchaza uRichardson ngendaba kaGeralyn. "Ngaqonda masisha ukuthi uNkulunkulu wayesanda kuqinisekisa ngokungangabazeki ukuthi uSt. Gerard wayengusanta okungangifanele ngicele kuye".
Igama lomndeni (isiNtaliyane)
Yize iSan Gerardo Majella ingusanta obalulekile wokuncengela ezimweni zokukhulelwa nokubeletha, omama nezingane kanye nemibhangqwana eshadile efuna ukukhulelwa, akaziwa eMelika njengoba ese-Italy yangakubo, njengoba idili lakhe ilona usuku olufanayo noSt. Margaret Mary Alacoque, futhi aluveli ekhalendeni lezinkonzo e-United States. Kodwa yena neholidi lakhe bagubha kahle emasontweni aqanjwe ngaye, kubandakanya iNational Shrine yaseSt. Gerard eNewark, eNew Jersey.
Labo abafuna ukuncengelwa nguye bayaqonda ukuthi kungani abantu besikhathi sakhe sekhulu le-1755 babembiza ngokuthi "Wonder-Worker". Umsebenzi oyisimangaliso walo mzalwane ongumLedemptorist, owashona ngo-29 eMaterdomini, e-Italy, eneminyaka engama-XNUMX, wawudume kakhulu kangangokuba umsunguli we-oda, uSanta Alphonsus Ligouri, waqala imbangela yokugcotshwa kwakhe.
Sekuyiminyaka engaphezu kwamakhulu amabili, abesifazane abakhulelwe, labo abafuna ukuba omama nalabo ababathandazelayo baphendukele eSt. Gerard ukuze bancenge futhi basize. Imithandazo eminingi ephenduliwe ixhunyaniswe nokuncenga kwakhe. Ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-1800, abokufika abavela ezigodini nasemadolobhaneni aseduze kwaseNaples, lapho kwakuhlala khona nosanta, bathatha ukuzinikela kwabo eMelika, ngisho nasethempelini laseNewark.
USan Gerardo wathandwa ngumndeni wakwaRichardson.
Ubaba uMartins waboleka amaRichardsons insali kaSt. Gerard. Wayeyithole ku-oda le-Redemptorist.
"Ungomunye wabangcwele babo, futhi umphathi wabo wesikhundla - uBenedicto D'Orazio - wakhipha ithempeli ngo-1924. Ekugcineni yaba yingxenye yombukiso waseVatican engiwuqondisa manje," kusho uFata Martins.
"Ngibuzwile ubukhona bakhe ngokushesha," kuchaza uRichardson. Ngemuva kokuyisa lo mfanekiso ethempelini lakhe lesonto ukuze amncenge kakhulu, wamyisa kuLindsay wamtshela ukuthi angalibali ingelosi yaseSt. "
URichardson uqhubeke nokusabalalisa amakhadi omkhuleko kaSt.Gerard emndenini, kubangani, kumakholwa, kubapristi, nakumngane oseduze esigodlweni. Wathandaza, etshela uNkulunkulu ukuthi indodana yakhe nomalokazana wakhe “babengabazali abangamaKristu abalungile nabanothando abafisa ukuletha omunye umphefumulo oyigugu kulo mhlaba. Bazomthanda iNkosi, njengoba ubungathanda athandwe, futhi bazomfundisa ukukuthanda “.
Isipho sikaKhisimusi sakuqala
Ngaphambi kweSakramente elibusisiwe, uRichardson ukhumbule ugqozi olungazelelwe nolungachazeki lokuthi umndeni uzoba nenjabulo enkulu ngoKhisimusi futhi inhliziyo yakhe yavele yagcwala ithemba. Njengoba echaza, “Insalela yayinoLindsay ngaleso sikhathi. Mhlawumbe ukuphulukiswa kwenzeka esiswini sakhe ngawo lowo mzuzu. Isihe sikaNkulunkulu sathululwa kuleyompilo entsha futhi eyigugu nasemndenini wakhe “.
Amakhulu abantu ayethandazela ingane njengoba i-ultrasound elandelayo kaLindsay isondela kuDisemba 11.
ULindsay uchaze imizwa yakhe ebhukwini ngesikhathi kudokotela wakhe: “Mina nomyeni wami sibe nokuthula okukhulu selokhu saqala ukuzwa lezi zindaba. Sazizwa sizolile ngenxa yemithandazo esasiyitholile kanye nenani labantu esaziyo ukuthi babesithandazela. Besazi, noma ngabe yini umphumela, ukuthi le ngane izothandwa ”.
Imiphumela emangazayo: zonke izimpawu ze-trisomy 18 bezingasekho. Futhi inkaba yayisakheke ngokuphelele yafakwa ku-placenta.
"Ngangibona i-ultrasound ibukeka yehlukile," kusho uLindsay. “Kwakungafani nalokho engangikubonile phambilini. Izinyawo zazibukeka ziphelele. Wayengenawo amabala ebuchosheni bakhe. Ngibe sengikhala, noma ngabe uchwepheshe akakwazanga ukungitshela ngaleso sikhathi, kodwa ngangazi ukuthi kuphelele emehlweni ethu “.
ULindsay ubuze udokotela wakhe: "Ngabe kuyisimangaliso yini?" Wavele wamamatheka, wakhumbula. Wabuza futhi. Konke azokwenza ukuthi akwenze, njengoba ebhekise kwaRegistry, "Ayikho incazelo yezokwelapha." Wabona ukuthi wayengeke achaze ngokwenzekile. Uphinde wathi: "Ukube besingacela imiphumela engcono kakhulu namuhla, ngicabanga ukuthi siyitholile."
ULindsay utshele iRejista: “Ngesikhathi udokotela ethi, 'Nginezindaba ezinhle kakhulu,' ngakhala izinyembezi zenjabulo, ukukhululeka kanye nokubonga okukhulu kulabo abathandazile futhi baqhubeka nokuthandazela umfana wethu omuhle.
"Dumisani uNkulunkulu wethu onesihe," kusho uRichardson. "Sajabula."
Ngenkathi uFata Martins eziswa ngemiphumela, uyakhumbula ukuthi “akazange amangale nakancane ukuthi kwenzeka ukuphulukiswa. Isifiso sikaSan Gerardo sokubandakanyeka sasicace bha futhi sikholisa “.
Usuku lokuzalwa olujabulisa kakhulu
Ngo-Ephreli 1, 2019, ngesikhathi kuzalwa uBrooks William Gloede, umndeni wasibona "isimangaliso ngamehlo ethu," kusho uRichardson. Namuhla, uBrooks uyingane enempilo enabafowethu ababili abadala nodadewabo omdala.
"ISt. UGerard ungcwele ngempela emndenini wethu, ”kusho uLindsay. “Sithandaza kuye nsuku zonke. Ngivame ukuthi kuBrooks: "Uzohambisa izintaba, mfana wami, ngoba unoSanta Gerard noJesu eduze kwakho"