Ubudlelwano bebanga elide, ukuthi ungabuphatha kanjani?
Kunabantu abaningi abahlala lapho namuhla ubudlelwane a distanza nomlingani wakho. Kulesi sikhathi, kunzima kakhulu ukuzilawula, ngeshwa ubhadane lukhona kwanda amabanga nokuzihlukanisa ngenxa ye- ukwenqatshelwa yokufuduswa. Ukuphila ubudlelwano bebanga elide kunzima, kepha akunakwenzeka.
Kuyabonakala ukuthi ubudlelwano bebanga elide kunzima ukubunakekela ngoba abuhlali buphinki nezimbali ngaso sonke isikhathi kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele bushiywe ngaphandle. Lolu hlobo lobudlelwano ludinga ukukhuthazeka emandleni ezithandani zokusebenza empilweni yansuku zonke. Esinye sezimiso eziyisisekelo lapho ubudlelwano bebanga elide busekelwe khona yiyona i-fiducia. Ngokungekho kwalokhu, sizithola sinomona, sisola njalo. Bese kuba khona ifayela le- ikhalori, ukubonakaliswa kothando ngokomzimba. Uma ungakhulumisani ngisho nangokwangana kwethenda, zincane kakhulu izinsalela zobudlelwano.
Enye into kungumbono owodwa umbono ovamile, empeleni, ngemuva kwesikhashana, ubudlelwane buvame ukuziqinisa ngomqondo wokwakha okuthile ndawonye. Kuleli qophelo kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi ngabe bobabili abalingani babona umbono ofanayo ngenkathi behlukene. Bese kuba khona ifayela le- ubunzima okwandisa ukuqonda. Imele isithelo sokuqonda okuvuthwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ubunzima bondliwa ubuhle obufana nokuba qotho, ukuzethemba, ukusondelana.
Ubudlelwano bebanga elide: ukuzitholela wena ngomthandazo
Vumela uNkulunkulu angene ebudlelwaneni bakho ngoba uyisisekelo ongakhela phezu kwakho ubudlelwano bakho. Yenza i-aphoyintimenti Okungabonakali nsuku zonke ku preghiera. Noma ngabe niyabonana noma cha, noma nisondele noma nikude, nindawonye esandleni sikaNkulunkulu, inhliziyo kaKristu iyindlela emfushane kakhulu esuka enhlizweni eyodwa kuya phezulu. L'UMthendeleko yindawo lapho umphakathi ohlangana khona uvuselelwa, uhlanzwa futhi uqiniswe. UNkulunkulu wethu unguNkulunkulu omuhle obesazi njalo, okwaziyo okuhle kwethu. Ukhuluma nezinhliziyo zethu, masimlalele. Kodwa futhi ukhuluma ngamasakramente nangezwi likaNkulunkulu.Sibeka uhambo lwethu ezwini.
Imizwa ezikhathini ezinzima bazoqala ukuntengantenga futhi uvalo luzothatha izintambo. Kuphela parola kaNkulunkulu uzohlala emile ukuze asiqondise njengendlu yesibani ebusuku. Masikhumbule ukuthi uma uthando sakhelwe esisekelweni esiqinile sizoqinisa futhi silungiselele bobabili izinselelo ezinkulu kakhulu.