Uma uhlukanisile futhi ushada futhi, uhlala ebufebeni na?
Ucwaningo lwe-Bible Divorce and Remarry luchaza izimo lapho izithandani zingaqeda umshado wazo ngokwehlukana. Ucwaningo luchaza lokho uNkulunkulu akubheka njengesehlukaniso esiseBhayibhelini. Isehlukaniso esiseBhayibhelini sinelungelo lokuphinda sishade nesibusiso sikaNkulunkulu. Ngamafuphi, isehlukaniso esiseBhayibhelini yisehlukaniso esenzeka ngenxa yokuthi umlingani owonile wenze isono socansi nomuntu ongashadile naye (ukulala nesilwane, ubungqingili, ubungqingili, noma ukulala nesihlobo) noma ngoba umlingani ongeyena umKristu uthole isehlukaniso. Noma ngubani ohlukanisile ngokwebhayibheli unelungelo lokuphinda ashade nesibusiso sikaNkulunkulu.
Ungaphinga kanjani
UMathewu 5:32 uqopha isimemezelo sokuqala ngesahlukaniso nokuphinga esenziwa nguJesu emavangelini.
. . . kodwa mina ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe, ngaphandle kwesizotha, imbangela ukuba aphinge; futhi noma ubani oshada nowesifazane ohlukanisile uyaphinga. (NASB) Mathewu 5:32
Indlela elula yokuqonda okushiwo yile ndima ukususa ibinzana elingukhiye "ngaphandle kwesizathu sokuntuleka kobumsulwa". Nali ivesi elifanayo nomusho ususiwe.
. . . kepha mina ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe. . . kumenza aphinge; futhi noma ubani oshada nowesifazane ohlukanisile uyaphinga. (NASB) Kuhlelwe uMathewu 5:32
Amagama esiGreki athi "uyaphinga" futhi "uyaphinga" avela kumagama empande i-moicheuo ne-gameo. Igama lokuqala, elithi moicheuo, lisesikhathini sesimo sokuzenzela, okusho ukuthi isenzo sesehlukaniso senzekile futhi uJesu uthatha ukuthi unkosikazi uphinde washada. Ngenxa yalokho, owayengunkosikazi nendoda eshada naye bayaphinga. Imininingwane eyengeziwe itholakala kuMathewu 19: 9; UMarko 10: 11-12 noLuka 16:18. KuMark 10: 11-12, uJesu usebenzisa umzekeliso wowesifazane ohlukanisa nomyeni wakhe.
Futhi ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe, ngaphandle kokuziphatha okubi, ashade nomunye owesifazane, uyaphinga. UMathewu 19: 9 (NASB)
Wathi kubo: “Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe, aganwe ngomunye, uyaphinga kuye; futhi uma yena ngokwakhe ehlukanisa nomyeni wakhe futhi eshada nenye indoda, uyaphinga “. UMarku 10: 11-12 (NASB)
Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe, aganwe ngomunye, uyaphinga; noganwa ngolahliweyo uyaphinga. NgokukaLuka 16:18 (NASB)
Ukunxenxa omunye umuntu ukuba aphinge
Igama lesibili, i-gameo, lisesikhathini se-aorist okusho ukuthi lona wesifazane waphinga ngesikhathi esithile lapho eshada nenye indoda. Qaphela ukuthi noma imuphi umlingani ohlukanisile oshadayo uyaphinga futhi abangele oshade naye ukuthi aphinge, ngaphandle uma isehlukaniso "singenxa yokungenamahloni." Ukungabi namahloni nakho kuhunyushwa njengokuziphatha okubi noma i-porneia.
Lezi zindatshana ziveza ukuthi owesilisa noma owesifazane ongashadi ngakho-ke akanacala lokuphinga. Uma omunye wabalingani abahlukanisile eshada, bazoba yisiphingi noma isiphingi ngokusho kwabaseRoma 7: 3.
Ngakho-ke, kuthi lapho indoda yakhe isekhona ahlangane nenye indoda, abizwe ngokuthi uyisiphingi; kepha uma indoda isifile, ukhululekile emthethweni, ukuze ingabi yisiphingi, nakuba ihlanganiswe nenye indoda. KwabaseRoma 7: 3 (NASB)
Kungani ebizwa ngokuthi yisiphingi noma ubizwa ngokuthi yisiphingi? Impendulo ngukuthi benze isono sokuphinga.
Kumele ngenzeni? Ngiphingile
Ukuphinga kungaxolelwa, kepha lokho akulishintshi iqiniso lokuthi bekuyisono. Ukucwaswa kwesinye isikhathi kubangelwa amagama athi "ukuphinga", "isiphingi" kanye "nesiphingi". Kepha lokhu akusikho eBhayibhelini. UNkulunkulu akasicelanga ukuba sizigonqe ezonweni zethu ngemuva kokuvuma izono zethu kuYe futhi samukele intethelelo Yakhe. KwabaseRoma 3:23 kusikhumbuza ukuthi wonke umuntu wonile.
. . . ngoba bonke bonile futhi bayasilela enkazimulweni kaNkulunkulu. . KwabaseRoma 3:23 (NASB)
Zonke izono futhi eziningi ziye zafeba! Umphostoli uPawulu wahlukumeza, waphatha kabi, futhi wasongela amaKristu amaningi (Izenzo 8: 3; 9: 1, 4). Ku-1 Thimothewu 1:15 uPaul uzibiza ngokuthi (ama-protos) okuqala wezoni. Kodwa-ke, kwabaseFilipi 3:13 uthe wakushaya indiva okwedlule waqhubekela phambili ekhonza uKristu.
Bazalwane, angizibheki njengami njengamanje; kodwa kukhona into eyodwa engiyenzayo: ukukhohlwa okungasemuva nokunweba okungaphambili, ngiyazisunduzela emgomweni womvuzo wokubiza kukaNkulunkulu phezulu kuKristu Jesu (Filipi 3: 13-14 (NASB)
Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma sesivuma izono zethu (1 Johane 1: 9), siyathethelelwa. UPawulu ube esenxusa ukuba sikhohlwe futhi siqhubeke nokubonga uNkulunkulu ngentethelelo yakhe.
Ngiphingile. Ingabe kufanele ngiyikhansele?
Eminye imibhangqwana eye yafeba ngokushada lapho kwakungafanele yenziwe kanjalo yazibuza ukuthi ingabe kuyodingeka ihlukanise ukuze iqede ukuphinga lokho. Impendulo ithi cha, ngoba lokho kungaholela kwesinye isono. Ukwenza esinye isono akuhlehli isono esedlule. Uma lo mbhangqwana uthembekile, ngobuqotho ngokusuka ezinhliziyweni zawo wavuma isono sokuphinga, bathethelelwe. UNkulunkulu umkhohliwe (IHubo 103: 12; Isaya 38:17; Jeremiya 31:34; Mika 7:19). Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyakuzonda ukuhlukanisa (uMalaki 2:14).
Eminye imibhangqwana iyazibuza ukuthi ngabe kufanele ihlukanise oshade naye wamanje futhi ibuyele kowayeshade naye. Impendulo ithi futhi "cha" ngoba isehlukaniso siyisono, ngaphandle kwalapho oshade naye ekhona eye ocansini nomunye umuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphinda ushade kowakwakwakwenziwayo akunakwenzeka ngenxa kaDuteronomi 24: 1-4.
Umuntu uvuma isono sakhe kuNkulunkulu lapho eqamba isono futhi avume ukuthi wonile. Ukuze uthole imininingwane eyengeziwe, funda isihloko esithi “Ungasixolela Kanjani Isono Sokuphinga? - Ngabe isono sikhona unaphakade? ”Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ukuphinga kuhlala isikhathi esingakanani, funda:“ Lithini igama lesiGreki elisho 'ukuphinga' kuMathewu 19: 9? "
Isiphetho:
Isehlukaniso besingekho ohlelweni lukaNkulunkulu lwangempela.UNkulunkulu usivumela kuphela ngenxa yobulukhuni bezinhliziyo zethu (Mathewu 19: 8-9). Umphumela walesi sono ufana nanoma yisiphi esinye isono; kuhlale kunemiphumela engenakugwemeka. Kepha ungakhohlwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyasithethelela lesi sono lapho sivunywa. Uthethelele iNkosi uDavid eyabulala indoda yowesifazane uDavide aphinga naye. Asikho isono uNkulunkulu angasithetheleli, ngaphandle kwesono esingenakuthethelelwa. UNkulunkulu futhi akasithetheleli isono lapho ukuvuma kwethu kungathembekile futhi singaphenduki ngokweqiniso. Ukuphenduka kusho ukuthi sizibophezele ekungasiphindini isono.