Igayidi esebhayibhelini yokuthandazela umshado wakho

Umshado uyisikhungo esimiswe uNkulunkulu; eyaqala ukusebenza ekuqaleni kwendalo (Gen. 2: 22-24) lapho uNkulunkulu edala umsizi ka-Adam ukuthi abe ngumkakhe (u-Eva). Emshadweni, laba ababili kumele babe munye futhi indoda nenkosikazi kumele bakhule ndawonye ebudlelwaneni babo neNkosi. Asishiywa sodwa emshadweni; kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi sibheke kuNkulunkulu, sikhonze uNkulunkulu nabalingani bethu, futhi sibonise uthando lukaNkulunkulu ngomunye nomunye umhlatshelo. Lapho senza izifungo zomshado, sizibeka phambi kukaNkulunkulu.Ngakho-ke iTestamente Elidala neLisha licacile ukuthi isehlukaniso akumele sithathwe kalula, futhi ngenkathi kunezimo ezithile lapho isehlukaniso singaphansi kuvunyelwe ngokweBhayibheli, akukho lapho kuyalwa khona.

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Kungakho kufanele sithandazele umshado wethu ngokusebenzisa izimo eziguqukayo, ukuzibophezela kwethu ukuthanda abalingani bethu ngezikhathi ezinhle nezimbi njengoba nje uNkulunkulu asithanda. Sidinga ukuthandazela umshado wethu lapho izinto zihamba kahle, lapho izikhathi zinzima, lapho sizizwa sinesizungu, lapho senza imigomo futhi sijabule ngekusasa, nalapho sizizwa singenandaba futhi singaneme. Ngokuyisisekelo, kuzo zonke izinto ezithinta umshado wethu (nempilo yethu) kufanele sithandaze. Futhi uma sithandaza, siqala ukudedela enye yengcindezi esizibekele yona kanye nabalingani bethu; UNkulunkulu usibizile ukuthi siphonse izinkathazo zethu kuye futhi simtshele amathemba ethu. Uthembekile futhi usondelene futhi ngeke neze asilahle noma asikhathele. Umkhuleko ubuyisela izingqondo nezinhliziyo zethu kuKristu.

[Noma kunjalo, uma uzithola usesimweni esibandakanya ukungathembeki okungafuneki, ukuhlukunyezwa, noma ukulahlwa, le nto okufanele uyicabangele nomfundisi wakho, umeluleki wakho nabangane abaseduze kuKristu. Kwabanye, imvume yehlukaniso esebhayibhelini iyadingeka ezimweni ezinjalo nakwabanye, kungaba khona amathemba wokubuyisana nokuvuselelwa kabusha. Kepha ngaphezu kwakho konke, funa uNkulunkulu ngomkhuleko ngalesi sinqumo; Ngeke kukudukise.]

5 izizathu zokuthi kungani kufanele sithandaze

Umkhuleko usenza silalele.
Umkhuleko uletha ukuthula ezinhlizweni nasezingqondweni zethu.
Umkhuleko uyasihlazisa.
Umkhuleko wenza ukholo lwethu lukhule.
Umkhuleko wenza ubuhlobo bethu noZimu bukhule.

Ngezansi, uzothola imikhuleko yomshado oqinile, imithandazo yokubuyiselwa, umkhuleko womyeni wakho, nemikhuleko yomkakho, phakathi kwabanye.

5 imithandazo elula ngomshado oqinile

1. Umkhuleko wobunye emshadweni The
Baba oseZulwini, siza phambi kwakho ukuzokubonga ngakho konke okwenzile noqhubeka ukukwenza empilweni yethu nasemshadweni wethu. Namuhla siza phambi kwakho, Nkulunkulu, sicela isibopho esiqinile sobunye esivumelwaneni sethu somshado. Baba, sicela ukuthi usinike ithuba lokuba sibe yimbumba yobumbano kuwe, singavumeli lutho lume phakathi kwethu. Sisize, Baba, sikhombe futhi sisebenze kukho konke ongakuthandi ukuze sikwazi ukufinyelela emazingeni aphezulu wobunye emshadweni wethu - ngokomoya, ngokwenyama nangokwengqondo. Siyajabula futhi sijabule ukubona isandla sakho sisebenza njengoba senza konke okusemandleni ethu ukuthola ubuso bakho nsuku zonke. Siyakuthanda futhi siyabonga ngazo zonke lezi zinto. Egameni likaJesu siyathandaza. Amen! "Yenzani konke okusemandleni ukuze nizigcine nimunye noMoya, nikuhlanganise ngokuthula." (Kwabase-Efesu 4: 3 NLT)

2. Umkhuleko wokusondelana emshadweni
Baba oseZulwini, siyakucela namhlanje ukuba uqinise izibopho zokusondelana ngokomzimba nangokomoya emshadweni wethu. Siyajabula ngokuthi ubize ukusondelana nawe nokusondelana komunye nomunye indoda nowesifazane kuqala. Sicela usibonise noma yikuphi ukuziphatha esikwenzile okusivimbele ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni obusondele kakhulu bakho nabanye. Uma ukwethembana sekuqediwe, kungacishe kube nzima ukubuyela wedwa, kepha-ke, siyazi ukuthi noma yini ingenzeka ngawe, Nkulunkulu, Philisa izinhliziyo zethu, Baba, emanxebeni esikhathi esedlule futhi usisize sikuthembe wena nabanye futhi. . Siyakubonga njengamanje ngokwanda kokusondelana emshadweni wethu njengoba sizama ukukuhlonipha kanye nomunye ngesivumelwano somshado wethu. Egameni likaJesu siyathandaza. Amen! “Ngenxa yalesi sizathu indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina futhi ihlangane nomkayo, futhi laba ababili bayoba nyamanye. "(Kwabase-Efesu 5:31)

3. Umkhuleko wokwethembeka emshadweni
Baba Nkulunkulu, namhlanje siza phambi kwakho ukuzokucela ukuthi usisize senze konke ngokuthembeka okuphelele emshadweni wethu. Ngcwelise ngeqiniso lakho - izwi lakho liyiqiniso (Johane 17:17). Sisize singalokothi siqambe amanga komunye nomunye. Sisize ukuba sibe msulwa uma senza iphutha noma senza iphutha elingathinta imishado yethu - noma ngabe sizizwe simbi noma sinamahloni kangakanani. Sinikeze amandla okuba sobala ngokuphelele komunye nomunye, kungakhathalekile ukuthi sizizwa kanjani. Siyakubonga ngokuqonda kokwazi iqiniso lakho kanye nokuqiniseka kokubiza igama likaJesu. Uma kukhona noma yini ebesingakhulumi iqiniso ngalo esikhathini esedlule, sicela usisize ukuba sabelane ngakho futhi usinike ubuhlakani. ukusebenza kuso. Siyabonga ngokusisiza sithembeke njengoba sikhetha ukuzithoba emoyeni wakho. Egameni likaJesu siyathandaza. Amen. "Ungaqambelani amanga, ngoba nikhumule umuntu wakho omdala kanye nemikhuba yakhe futhi nigqoke umuntu omusha, ozivuselela olwazini ngomfanekiso woMdali wakhe." (KwabaseKolose 3: 9-10 NIV)

4. Umthandazo wokuxolelwa emshadweni
UBaba oseZulwini, njengoba silwela njalo ukwakha umshado oqinile, usisiza sixolelane ngezinto ezingasilimaza noma zisiphathe kabi. Sisize sihambe ngokuxolela futhi ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi usixolele. Sisize sibonise umusa wakho nomusa koshade naye noma kunini lapho beyidinga khona futhi singalethi ukulimala noma ukwehluleka okwedlule. Masibe yisibonelo sokuxolela hhayi kwabashade nabo kuphela kepha nakwabasizungezile ukuze siqhubeke nokukhombisa uthando lwakho kuwo wonke umuntu esihlangana naye. Sisize nathi ukuba sizithethelele uma silwa nokusolwa. Ngiyabonga ngamazwi akho eqiniso elinikeza impilo ukuthi singahlengwa ngegazi leWundlu. Egameni likaJesu siyathandaza. Amen! "Uma sizivuma izono zethu, uthembekile futhi ulungile futhi uzosixolela izono zethu asihlanze kukho konke ukungabi nabulungisa." (1 Johane 1: 9 NIV)

5. Umkhuleko wezempilo owenzela wena noshade naye
Baba Nkulunkulu, siyabonga ngempilo yaphezulu emizimbeni yethu, empilweni kamoya nasemshadweni. Siyathandaza ukuthi usazise nganoma yini esiyenzayo engahlobene ngqo nempilo enempilo; umzimba, umoya, umphefumulo. Siphe amandla okukuhlonipha ngemizimba yethu njengoba iyithempeli leNkosi. Siphe ubuhlakani bokuqhubeka nokwakha impilo enempilo yokomoya nomshado nawe esikhungweni. Sisize sihlale sikhumbula ukuzidela okwenzile okusinikeze isithembiso sokuphulukiswa nokuthula. Ufanele ukudunyiswa! Egameni likaJesu siyathandaza. Amen! “Kepha walinyazwa ngenxa yeziphambeko zethu, walinyazwa ngenxa yeziphambeko zethu; isijeziso sokuthula kwethu sasiphezu kwakhe; futhi ngemivimbo yayo siphilisiwe. "(Isaya 53: 4 KJV)