Ungamthethelela kanjani umuntu okuphathe kabi
Ukuthethelela akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukhohlwa. Kepha kusho ukuqhubekela phambili.
Ukuthethelela abanye kungaba nzima, ikakhulukazi lapho silinyazwe, senqatshwa noma sicasulwe umuntu esimethembayo. Esontweni lapho ngike ngakhonza khona phambilini, ngikhumbula ilunga, uSophia, owangitshela ngempi yakhe yokuthethelela.
Lapho uSophia esemncane, uyise washiya umndeni. Babhekana nobunzima obuningi futhi intukuthelo yakhe kuye yakhula. Ekugcineni, uSophia washada futhi waba nezingane, kodwa akakabe esakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe zokushiywa futhi uye wacasukela ubaba wakhe kakhulu.
USophia uqhubeke wachaza ukuthi wabhalisa kanjani ohlelweni lokufunda lweBhayibheli lwamasonto ayisithupha olususelwa kwimikhuba, ama-hang-ups nokulimala. Uhlelo labuyisa izinkinga zakhe ezingalungiswa nobaba wakhe. Ngesinye sezikhathi, umgqugquzeli waphawula ukuthi ukuthethelela kukhulula abantu esindweni esakhiwe abanye.
Utshele iqembu ukuthi akekho umuntu okufanele aboshwe njengobuhlungu obudalwe abanye. USophia wazibuza, "Ngingabuqeda kanjani lobuhlungu obabubangelwa ubaba?" Uyise wayengasaphili, kepha inkumbulo yezenzo zakhe ivimbele uSomnandi ukuthi angaqhubeki phambili.
Umcabango wokuthethelela ubaba wakhe wabekela inselelo uSipho. Kuyosho ukuthi wayedinga ukwamukela lokho ayekwenzile kuye nomndeni wakhe, futhi aphile. Kwesinye sezinhlelo zekilasi, umgqugquzeli wasikisela ukuthi kubhalelwe umuntu obalimele incwadi. USophia wanquma ukukwenza; kwase kuyisikhathi sokuba amyeke ahambe.
Ubhale ngakho konke ukuzwa kobuhlungu nolaka olwabangelwa ubaba wakhe. Wabelana ngokuthi ukwenqaba kwakhe nokushiya kwakhe kuyithinta kanjani impilo yakhe. Ugcine ngokubhala ukuthi manje wayesezimisele ukumthethelela aqhubeke.
Ngemuva kokuqeda incwadi, wayifunda ngokuzwakalayo esihlalweni esingenalutho esimele ubaba wakhe. Lokhu bekuyisiqalo senqubo yakhe yokwelapha. Ngesikhathi sesifundo sokugcina, uSophia wahlanganyela neqembu ukuthi ukubhala le ncwadi kungenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu engake ngazenza. Wazizwa ekhululekile ebuhlungwini futhi elungele ukuqhubeka.
Lapho sithethelela abanye, lokhu akusho ukuthi sikhohlwa abakwenzile, noma ngabe kwezinye izimo abantu bekukwenza. Lokhu kusho ukuthi asisekudingisi ngokomoya nangokomoya ngezenzo zabo. Impilo imfushane kakhulu; kumele sifunde ukuthethelela. Uma kungenjalo ngamandla ethu, singakwazi ngosizo lukaNkulunkulu.