Ungazisiza kanjani izingane zakho zihlukanise okuhle nokubi?
Kusho ukuthini ngomzali ukukhulisa unembeza wokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwengane? THE izingane abafuni ukuthi bakhethe noma benze isinqumo. Bakwenze kwacaca ukuthi kukhona okuhle nokubi, futhi izikhathi eziningi bayazi ukuthi banephutha, yingakho befihla.
Masinyane bayamisa kancane ukuze basebenzise i- 'ukuzimela ukwenza isinqumbo. Kepha eceleni kwalokhu okudlule kuyadingeka ukwengeza ukwethembeka, into eyisisekelo ekuthuthukiseni amandla okwenza izinqumo. Kuyisiqinisekiso sokwenza ngokuvumelana ne- ukwazi. Yilapho ukuzibophezela kwezemfundo njengomzali kungena khona. Siphila emphakathini onobubi kudlangile futhi kungalesi sizathu ukuthi, ezikhathini eziningi, singathanda ukwenza ukukhetha esikhundleni sezingane zethu, ngoba sizithatha njengezintekenteke, ezingakwazi. Empeleni, kufanele sifunde ukwakha onembeza kunokuba sibashintshe. Umsebenzi wethu creare imibandela yokuthi onembeza bezingane zethu bafundiswe, zakheke.
Ucwaningo lwe bene kuyingxenye yethu kepha sihlala sima kokuhle okuzimele, silinganisa ukukhetha nalokho esikuthandayo, ngoba lokhu siwela ebugovu. Intsha kanye nabantu abasha abasolwa ngokungazi lutho empeleni balwa nencazelo yokuziphatha kwabo. Ngeshwa bahlala bethola imiyalezo futhi bephefumula isiko elinquma ukuthi a vuoto zokuziphatha. Kubo kufana nokuthi konke kunenani elifanayo. Kulesi simo esinenkinga enkulu, i-ukungabikho ukuba ngumzali kanye nokuphazamiseka kwesimo sangaphandle, lapho izingane zethu zizwela khona kakhulu, kunquma isikhala sokuziphatha abangena kuzo. Ngenxa yalokho, ukwenza ngonembeza namuhla kungasho ukuphishekela okuhle komuntu siqu.
Lo mbono wokuzithoba wokuhle awuhambisani nokulunga kwangempela. Unembeza owenza lokhu akamazi umuntu. Ukwazi kuyinto isikhala ingcwele lapho uNkulunkulu akhuluma khona nomuntu, yindawo lapho elalela khona izwi likaNkulunkulu scegliere kuyisisekelo sokwenza ngokuvumelana nonembeza futhi kungenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu. Izingane kufanele zinikezwe izingane imithetho lokho kubenza bakwazi ukukhetha. Kumele bakwazi ukubona ukuthi kwezinye izimo benze iphutha, kumele baqonde ukuthi ukwazi kutholakala verità futhi uyakwamukela njengesipho. Kufanele sisize izingane ukuthi zibone ukuthi isenzo silandela umbandela ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungakho-ke ukufundisa unembeza kusho aiutare indodana ukubona umbandela wokulingisa.
Ukusebenza ngonembeza kusho ukuhamba nokuthatha isinqumo ngokukhululekile ukwenza ngokuvumelana nalolu hlaka lwamagugu, le yi Ngiyahamba okuzo kwenziwa. Okubalulekile ukuthi ingane inyakaze futhi inqume ngaphandle kokubheka ubudala bayo, ngaphakathi kwalolu hlaka eyiyo yesiqinisekiso kokuhle. Uhlaka lwamagugu okufanele lunikezwe izingane yiyona iphrojekthi yezemfundo lapho abazali babizelwa ukusebenza.