Zinthu 12 zoti muchite mukadzudzulidwa

Tonse tidzatsutsidwa posachedwa. Nthawi zina moyenera, nthawi zina mopanda chilungamo. Nthawi zina kutidzudzula kwa ena kumakhala kwankhanza komanso kosayenera. Nthawi zina tingawafune. Kodi timatani tikamatsutsidwa? Sindinachite bwino nthawi zonse ndipo ndikuphunzirabe, koma Nazi zina zomwe ndimayesetsa kuziganizira ena akandinena.

Fulumira kumvetsera. (Yakobo 1:19)

Izi zitha kukhala zovuta kuchita chifukwa malingaliro athu amabwera ndipo malingaliro athu amayamba kulingalira za njira zotsutsira winayo. Kukhala wokonzeka kumva kumatanthauza kuti timayesetsa kumvetsera ndikuganizira zomwe wina akunena. Sitimangochotsa. Ngakhale zikuwoneka zopanda chilungamo kapena zosayenera.

Musachedwe kulankhula (Yakobo 1:19).

Osamudula mawu kapena kuyankha mwachangu kwambiri. Asiyeni amalize. Ngati mumalankhula mwachangu kwambiri mwina mumangolankhula mopupuluma kapena mokwiya.

Musachedwe kukwiya.

Chifukwa? Chifukwa Yakobo 1: 19-20 akuti mkwiyo wa munthu suchita chilungamo cha Mulungu.Mkwiyo sungapangitse wina kuchita choyenera. Kumbukirani, Mulungu sachedwa kukwiya, kuleza mtima ndi kuleza mtima ndi iwo amene amukhumudwitsa. Ndi mochuluka bwanji momwe tiyenera kukhalira.

Osabwezera.

“Pamene [Yesu] anachitidwa chipongwe, sanabwezere; pamene adamva zowawa, sanawopseza, komatu anapitirizabe kudalira Iye amene aweruza molungama ”(1 Petro 2:23). Kuyankhula zakuimbidwa mlandu wopanda chilungamo: Yesu anali, komabe adapitilizabe kudalira Ambuye ndipo sanabwezere chipongwe.

Yankhani mwaulemu.

“Mayankhidwe okoma abweza mkwiyo” (Miyambo 15: 1). Komanso khalani achifundo kwa iwo amene akukhumudwitsani, monganso Mulungu amatichitira chifundo tikamukhumudwitsa.

Osadziteteza mwachangu.

Chitetezo chitha kubwera chifukwa chonyada komanso chosatheka.

Ganizirani zomwe zingakhale zowona pakutsutsa, ngakhale zitapanda kupatsidwa.

Ngakhale ataperekedwa ndi cholinga chakupweteketsa kapena kunyoza, pangakhalebe chinthu china choyenera kuchiganizira. Mulungu amatha kulankhula nanu kudzera mwa munthuyu.

Kumbukirani Mtanda.

Wina adati anthu sanganene chilichonse chokhudza ife chomwe Mtandawo sunanene komanso zina, ndiko kuti, ndife ochimwa omwe tiyenera kulandira chilango chamuyaya. Chifukwa chake, zowonadi zake, chilichonse chomwe aliyense anganene chokhudza ife ndichochepera kuposa chomwe Mtanda unanena za ife. Bwererani kwa Mulungu amene amakulandirani mosagwirizana ndi Khristu ngakhale mutakhala ndi machimo ambiri komanso zolephera zambiri. Titha kukhumudwa titawona madera auchimo kapena olephera, koma Yesu adalipira iwo pamtanda ndipo Mulungu amasangalala nafe chifukwa cha Khristu.

Ganizirani kuti muli ndi malo akhungu

Sitingathe kudziwona tokha molondola nthawi zonse. Mwina munthuyu akuwona zina za inu zomwe simukuziwona.

Pemphererani kutsutsidwa

Pemphani Mulungu kuti akupatseni nzeru: “Ine ndidzakulangiza ndi kuphunzitsa iwe za njira ukayendayo; Ndidzakulangiza ndi diso langa lakuyang'ana iwe ”(Masalmo 32: 8).

Funsani ena kuti anene maganizo awo

Wotsutsa wanu akhoza kukhala wolondola kapena wopanda kwathunthu m'bokosilo. Ngati ili ndi gawo lauchimo kapena lofooka m'moyo wanu, ena awonanso.

Talingalirani gwero.

Osachita izi mwachangu kwambiri, koma lingalirani zomwe munthu winayo angakukakamizeni, luso lawo kapena nzeru zake, ndi zina zambiri. Akhoza kukudzudzulani chifukwa chakupweteketsani kapena mwina sangadziwe zomwe akunena.