4 MALANGIZO OTHANDIZA KUTI MUZIKHALA NDI CHIKONDI
Lero ndilankhula za chikondi ndi chisangalalo ndipo, makamaka, za chisangalalo chanu cha tsiku ndi tsiku. Chimwemwe kwa inu sichiyenera kukhala gwero la chisangalalo cha wina aliyense. Komabe, pali njira zomwe aliyense angakwaniritsire mawonekedwe ake achimwemwe, omwe amaperekedwa ndi Guardian Angel. Kuti musangalale kwambiri tsiku lililonse, ndikukupatsani Malamulo 4 omwe angakuthandizeni kukulitsa chikondi ndi chisangalalo m'moyo wanu wopambana.
Kodi chimwemwe "tsiku lililonse" chimatanthauza chiyani?
Ndikutanthauza kuti ife - anthu - sitimakhutira ndi moyo wathu wapano. Timakongoletsa zakale ndi mphindi zachisangalalo zomwe sizolondola nthawi zonse (timayiwala - chifukwa timazikonda - kuti tidakumana ndi zovuta) ndipo timaganizira zamtsogolo zomwe "zimakhala" zosangalatsa komanso ngakhale - bwanji osawona chithunzi chachikulu? - atavala korona. Koma ngakhale tikulira maliro akale ndikulota zamtsogolo zongoganizira, nthawi, nthawi yathu, imadutsa ndikuwonongeka. Tikadzuka (chifukwa moyo umatiwona tikudzuka, sichoncho?) Timakhala osasangalala kwambiri!
Sindikunena kuti simuyenera kulemekeza abusa anu omwe akukonzekera zamtsogolo, ndikunena kuti chikondi ndi chisangalalo, chisangalalo chowona komanso chokhalitsa, chikuyamba apa ndi tsopano!
Ndi chisangalalo chamtunduwu chomwe Guardian Angel wanu amakupatsani kuti muphunzire; "Lima" lero.
Malamulo okulitsa chikondi ndi chisangalalo
Komabe, mungafunse: momwe mungakhalire achimwemwe? Ndi zophweka? Inde. Nditha kutsimikizira ndipo nditsimikizira posachedwa.
Zinthu zinayi zofunika izi zomwe nditha kuzitcha "Malamulo 4" a Guardian Angel ndiye mizati inayi ya moyo wopambana. Kulitsani chikondi ndi chisangalalo:
Lamulo loyamba: kukulitsa zokondweretsa zochepa za moyo
Kuchokera pa chisangalalo chomwe chimachokera pakudya muli ndi njala, kumwa mowa muli ndi ludzu, kugona pogona mutatopa ndi chisangalalo chochokera pakuwona bwenzi, kukumbatirana ndi kholo, kuwona dzuwa likuswa mitambo kapena kumva mvula ikuzizira tsiku lotentha la chilimwe. onsewo ndi mitundu yazosangalatsa zazing'ono pamoyo.
Lamulo lachiwiri: phunzirani momwe mungadzikondere nokha
Lekani kudziimba mlandu, kudziimba mlandu ndikudziwona nokha; phunzirani kuti ndinu - kwa inu nokha - chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri chomwe chilipo ndipo sichidzakhalakonso.
Muyeneranso kumvetsetsa kuti ndinu mdani wanu woyipitsitsa pamene muli pamaso pagalasi la Chikondi ndi Chimwemwe.
Lamulo lachitatu: khalani ndi mphindi iliyonse yosangalatsa monga momwe mungathere
Gwiritsani ntchito mphindi yomwe mukumva chisangalalo. Ingoganizirani kuti izikhala kwamuyaya ndikulowetsa, chifukwa chilichonse chili ndi mathero. Komabe, dziwitseni nokha kuti ululu, monganso chisangalalo, umatha. Adzatopetsa kuti akuperekezeni ndipo adzachoka kupita kumalo ena; monga chilichonse chomwe chimachita
Lamulo 4: palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi
Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chilichonse chomwe chikubwera kwa inu, (chisangalalo kapena chisoni) chimatero chifukwa mwachikoka kuti mudzakhale ndi moyo kwamuyaya. Kumbukirani kuti chilichonse ndichanthawi, chosakhalitsa komanso chosakhalitsa kuti muthe kuyandikira muyaya waumulungu.
Kukhazikitsa malamulo anayi awa ngati mfundo za moyo kumatanthauza kuwapanga mizati inayi ya kachisi. Mkati mwa izi, mutha kuchita "miyambo yotsatira" iyi. Ndizosavuta koma zothandiza ndipo zidzakupangitsani kuti musangalale tsiku lililonse. Kulitsani Chikondi ndi Chimwemwe ndipo Guardian Angel wanu amakhala akukuwonani nthawi zonse.