Njira zisanu za m'Baibulo zokondera omwe simukugwirizana nawo

Kulikonse komwe tingatembenuze masiku ano, pamakhala mwayi wokhumudwitsidwa. Zikuwoneka kuti usiku wathunthu dziko lathu lasintha ndikukhala manambala kuposa kale. Nthawi yomweyo, dziko lathu lakhala ndale kwambiri. Pokhapokha mutakhala mukukhala nokha, popanda kuyanjana ndi ena pa intaneti kapena mwa munthu, mumakakamizidwa kuti mupeze anthu omwe simukugwirizana nawo - ndipo nthawi zambiri nkhani yotsutsana ndi chinthu chomwe chimayambitsa kukwiya kwamphamvu.

Monga akhristu, sitinayitanitsidwe kuti tikambirane mutu uliwonse ndi kufalitsa maudindo athu ngati tili pa TV Timayitanidwa kuti tikonde ena ndikupanga mtendere. "Yesetsani kukhala mwamtendere ndi aliyense komanso kuti mukhale oyera; Popanda chiyero palibe adzaona Ambuye ”(Ahebri 12:14).

Koma tingachite bwanji ndi munthu yemwe sitimagwirizana naye kotheratu?

Titha kuyang'ana m'Malemba monga chitsogozo. Mu 1 Akorinto 13 timawerenga kuti chikondi ndi chiyani,

“Chikondi chikhala chilezere. Samachita nsanje, sadzitamandira, sanyada. Samanyoza ena, sadzifunafuna, sapsa mtima msanga, samasungira zolakwa. Chikondi sichikondwerera ndi zoipa koma chimakondwera mchowonadi. Imateteza, imakhulupirira, imayembekezera nthawi zonse, ipirira ”.

Komabe, kuwerenga china chake ndikuchiyika ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana. Pansipa pali njira zisanu zomwe titha kutuluka mwa kukonda omwe sitigwirizana nawo.

1. Mverani
"Abale ndi alongo anga okondedwa, zindikirani izi: aliyense ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kumvera, wodekha polankhula komanso wosafulumira kukwiya" (Yakobe 1:19)

Sitinganene kuti tikusonyeza chikondi pokhapokha titangomvera zomwe mnzake akunena. Ngakhale anthu ambiri akuganiza kuti akumvera, samvera ndi malingaliro oyenera kapena mtima.

Choyamba, tiyenera kumvera kuti timvetsetse, osati kukambirana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti tisamangolola kuti wina azilankhula, komanso kutiletsa kuti tisamangoganiza kapena kuganiza zomwe tidzanene pambuyo pake. Wina wina akatsimikizira malingaliro omwe amamukonda, tiyenera kumvetsera ndi malingaliro, mtima ndi mzimu. Cholinga chathu pakumvera sikuyenera kukhala kupeza mfundo zokambirana, koma m'malo mwake tiyenera kuyang'ana zinthu zomwe tikufanana.

"Yankhani musanamvere - izi ndi zopusa ndi zamanyazi" (Miy. 18:13).

Chinanso chomwe tiyenera kukumbukira mukamamvetsera ndikuti cholinga chathu chikuyenera kukhalanso kumvetsetsa mtima wa munthu kuposa malingaliro ake. Maudindo amphamvu pamitu nthawi zambiri amathandizira osati kokha pazikhulupiriro koma ndi zomwe adakumana nazo kale. Tikamamvetsera pazomwe munthu akunena, titha kupeza komwe akuchokera ndipo chifukwa chake timamvetsetsa bwino. Wina akamva kuti akumvetsetsa, nthawi zambiri amadzimvanso wokondedwa.

“Chikondano chiyenera kukhala chowona mtima. Ndimadana ndi zoyipa; gwiritsitsani chabwino. Khalani odzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake mu chikondi. Lemekezanani wina ndi mnzake koposa inu ”(Aroma 12: 9-10).

2. Khalani odzicepetsa
"Musachite chilichonse ndi mtima wadyera ndi kudzikonda, koma modzichepetsa onjezerani ena kuposa inu" (Afilipo 2: 3).

Kudzichepetsa kumawonetsedwa ndi kufunitsitsa kuzindikira kuti sitikhala olondola nthawi zonse kapena kuti pakhoza kukhala njira yabwinoko. Tingaphunzire kuchokera kwa ena pokhapokha ngati tili ndi ulemu wokwanira kwa iwo kuti agwirizane ndi zomwe akunena. Mwanjira ina, tiyenera kuona ena kukhala "otanthauzo koposa ife eni". Momwemonso, tiyenera kukhala ofunitsitsa kuvomera tikalakwitsa. Miyambo 9: 7-10 amati:

“Wodzudzula wonyoza apsa; Aliyense wonyoza woipayo amadzazidwa. Osamadzudzula onyoza kapena adzakuda inu; dzudzula anzeru ndipo adzakukonda. Aphunzitseni anzeru, ndipo adzakhala anzeru; phunzitsani olungama ndipo adzawonjezera kuphunzira kwawo. Kuopa Wamuyaya ndi chiyambi cha nzeru, ndipo kudziwa kwa Woyera ndikumvetsetsa ".

Tikamawerenga malembawa, malingaliro athu amatha kutembenukira kwa oseka ndi anthu oyipa omwe timawadziwa, chifukwa chake amawamasulira ngati malangizo a momwe tiyenera kuwachitira. Ngakhale iyi ndi mfundo yoyenera, tiyeneranso kuyang'ana pagalasi. Kodi ndiwe wonyoza ... kapena ndiwe munthu wanzeru? Njira yodziwira yankho ndi yankho lomwe mumachita mukamatsutsidwa. Kodi mumamvetsera ndikuyesera kuphunzira kuchokera ku izi kapena mumadziteteza nokha, okonzeka kulandira mawu achipongwe kapena obwezera? Mayankho otere sawonetsa nzeru. Sali chikondi ndipo sakhazikitsa mtendere.

3. Kulira ndi mtima wosweka
"Ambuye ali pafupi ndi mtima wosweka, napulumutsa iwo ophwanyika mumzimu" (Masalimo 34:18).

Pali nthawi zina pamene timayenera kupezeka ndi iwo omwe atipweteka, ngakhale sitimamvetsetsa kuwawa kwawo. Izi zitha kutipangitsa kukhala osasangalala, makamaka ngati zowawazo zikuwoneka kuti zikuchokera ku malingaliro osiyana ndi athu. Koma ngati tikufuna kukhala ngati Khristu mchikondi chathu, mitima yathu iyenera kusweka ndi yawo.

Baibo ili ndi zodandaula za Mulungu (buku la Yobu, Masalmo ambiri). Titha kuwonetsa chikondi kwa iwo omwe sitigwirizana nawo ngati tikhala ndi iwo nthawi yapadera, ngakhale timasiyana, ndikulira nawo.

"Musalole mawu osalimbikitsa kuti atuluke pakamwa panu, koma zokhazo zomwe zingathandize pomanga ena malinga ndi zosowa zawo, zomwe zitha kupindulitsa iwo akumvera" (Aefeso 4:29).

Kukhala ndi mtima wosweka kumatithandiza kuwamvetsa mavuto awo. Kumvetsetsa zomwe akukumana nazo kungapangitse kuti azimumvera chisoni. Kuchokera pamenepa, tili ndi mwayi wokonda mwa kuwalimbikitsa ndi mawu achiyembekezo.

4. Pempherani
“Kondanani nawo adani anu, ndi kupempherera iwo akuzunza inu, kuti mukhale mwana wa Atate wanu wa kumwamba. Amawalitsira dzuwa lake kuz choyipa ndi zabwino ndikuvumbitsira mvula pa olungama ndi osalungama. Ngati mumakonda amene amakukondani, kodi mudzalandira mphoto yotani? Kodi okhometsa msonkho nawonso sachita? Ndipo ngati mumangopatsa moni anthu anu, mumachita chiyani koposa enawo? Ngakhale achikunja satero? Chifukwa chake khalani angwiro, monga Atate wanu wa kumwamba ali wangwiro. ”(Mateyo 5: 44-48).

Kupempherera iwo omwe sitikugwirizana nawo - kuphatikiza iwo omwe atinyoza kapena omwe ali kutali ndi malingaliro athu, akuwoneka kuti akukhala padziko lapansi lina - ndizomwe timalamulidwa kuti tichite. Tikamapempherera adani athu, Mulungu amatha kuwasintha, koma amatha kutisintha. Izi sizitanthauza kuti malingaliro athu asintha, koma zikutanthauza kuti mwina tidzakhala mwamtendere kwambiri pazochitikazo.

Tikamapemphererana ena moona mtima, mwina sizingatheke kuti muzu waukali ukule m'mitima yathu kwa iwo. M'malo mokonzekera kuyankha mwachipongwe ndi mdani wathu, titha kulowa mu ubale wathu ndi Mulungu kuti tiyankhe kwa iwo ndi chikondi komanso nzeru.

“Kuyankha modekha kumabweza mkwiyo, koma mawu opweteka amayambitsa mkwiyo. Lilime la anzeru limakongoletsa chidziwitso, koma m'kamwa mwa amisala livumbulutsa misala ”(Miyambo 15: 1-2).

5. Sangalalani mchowonadi
"Pamenepo mudzazindikira chowonadi ndipo chowonadi chidzakumasulani" (Yohane 8:32).

Kodi tingatani ngati wina aliyense akuyesera kuti asonyeze chikondi ndikupanga mtendere ndi iwo omwe sitigwirizana nawo samachita koma kutsutsana? Sitingathe kuwongolera momwe munthu wina akutiyankha, titha kungolamulira momwe timawachitira. Izi zitha kukhala zowopsa tikakhala ndi munthu wosapulumutsidwa. Tikufuna kuti adziwe Mulungu, koma simungatsutse wina aliyense za chipulumutso. Zomwe tingachite ndikuyika chikhulupiriro chathu mwa Mulungu. Tikakondwera mchowonadi cha Mulungu, ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, tikuonetsa osati chikhulupiliro chokha koma chikondi.

Chotsani kuwawidwa konsekonse, mkwiyo, kupsa mtima, mkangano ndi miseche, limodzi ndi zoyipa zonse. Khalani okomerana mtima komanso okomerana mtima wina ndi mnzake, okhululukirana wina ndi mnzake, monganso Mulungu anakukhululukirani inu mwa Khristu. ”(Aef. 4: 31-32).

Tikamapempherera iwo omwe sitikugwirizana nawo, tisapemphere kuti abwere kudzaona njira yathu, koma kuti adziwe chowonadi cha Mulungu: kuti Yesu ndiye njira, chowonadi ndi kuunika (Yohane 14: 6). Chiyembekezo chathu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndikuwona munthu amene amatitsutsa kumwamba, omasulidwa ku mayesero ndi machimo adziko lapansi. Tikakhala ndi chiyembekezo chamuyaya kwa iwo omwe sitikugwirizana nawo, titha kukhala otsimikiza kuti tikupanga otsatira a Kristu, osati monga wolankhulira nkhani ya tsikulo.

Kusankha ndi kwanu
Ngakhale titakumana ndi zovuta za tsikulo, nthawi zonse timakhala ndi wina yemwe amatitsutsa kapena amene amakhulupirira zinthu zomwe zimatipatsa mwayi. M'malo mokwiya, kukhumudwitsa kapena kuteteza monyanyira malingaliro athu, titha kusankha mwadala kuleza mtima, chikondi ndi kukomera mtima. Tikachita izi, tikuchita zambiri kuti tisinthe dziko lapansi kuposa kutumiza meme yayiwalika pa Facebook posachedwa.

Chifukwa chake, monga anthu osankhidwa a Mulungu, oyera mtima ndi okondedwa, bvalani chifundo, kukoma mtima, kudzichepetsa, kutsekemera ndi chipiriro. Khalani ogwirizana ndikhululukirana wina ndi mnzake ngati wina wa inu ali ndi chifukwa chokana mnzake. Mukhululukire monga Ambuye wakhululukirani. Ndipo pazabwino zonse izi ikani chikondi, chomwe chimawaphatikiza iwo mu umodzi wamphumphu "(Akolose 3: 12-14).