“Kodi n’zoona kuti mkazi wanga amandiona ali kumwamba?” Kodi okondedwa athu omwe anamwalira angatiwone kuchokera ku moyo wamtsogolo?

Munthu amene timamukonda akamwalira, timakhala opanda kanthu m’miyoyo yathu ndi mafunso chikwi, amene mwina sitingapeze mayankho ake. Chimene timadzifunsa kaŵirikaŵiri ndicho ngati wakufa wathu wokondedwa akutiyang’anira kumwamba.

Yankho la funsoli lili mu chikhulupiriro ndi chiyembekezo za kutha tsiku lina kumuwonanso munthu amene tamuphonyanso. Malinga ndi zikhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro, yankho lingasinthe.

Ena amanena kuti okondedwa athu amatinyoza kuchokera kumwamba titetezeni, tilimbikitseni ndi kutithandiza pamavuto athu. Amakhulupilira kuti amatha kuona zochita ndi malingaliro athu, ndikuti akhoza kukhala gwero la chilimbikitso kapena chitsogozo pa zosankha zathu za moyo. Amanenedwa kuti akhoza comunicare nafe kudzera mu zizindikiro, maloto kapena zodziwikiratu.

Ena m'malo mwake sakhulupirira okondedwa athu atiyang'ane ali kumwamba. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti munthu akafa amakhala ndi moyo kotheratu osiyana kuchokera padziko lapansi ndipo tilibe mwayi wowonera kapena kukhudza miyoyo yathu. Malinga ndi masomphenya amenewa, imfa imaimira mapeto otsimikizika za moyo ndipo palibe kupitiriza kwa chidziwitso kapena kukhalapo kupitirira pamenepa.

Moyo unaperekedwa kwa ife kuti tipulumutsidwe

Malingaliro pa mutuwu akhoza kusiyana kwambiri malinga ndi zomwe munthu wakumana nazo, zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo ndi chikhalidwe, komanso kutanthauzira kwamunthu. Tikamakamba za moyo wa pambuyo pa imfa, zonse zimakhalabe zophimbidwa ndi chinsinsi ndipo sichidziwika. Chikalata pa Mawu a Mulungu wa Second Vatican Council, akuti moyo wapatsidwa kwa ife «chifukwa cha chipulumutso chathu», ndiko kuti, kutiwonetsa zonse zomwe tikufunika kudziwa kuti tiziwongolera zathu vita kupezeka m’kufunafuna chimwemwe chamtsogolo osati kukhutiritsa zikhumbo zathu.

Choncho tiyeni tidzileke tokha kuti tisakhale ndi yankho, koma timalemekeza lingaliro kwa aliyense ndipo tiyeni tigwiritsire ntchito ngati tikufuna chinthu chomwe chimatipangitsa kumva bwino, ndikulingalira nkhope zomwetulira ndi zosalala za okondedwa omwe akuyang'ana ife kuchokera kumwamba.