Kuthetsa kukhumudwa munjira yachikhristu



Malangizo ena kuthana nawo osataya chidaliro.

Kukhumudwa ndi matenda ndipo kukhala mkhristu sikutanthauza kuti simudzadwalanso. Chikhulupiriro chimapulumutsa, koma sichichiritsa; osati nthawi zonse, mulimonse. Chikhulupiriro si mankhwala, kupatula panacea kapena potion wamatsenga. Komabe, limapereka, kwa iwo omwe akufuna kuvomereza, mwayi wokumana ndi mavuto anu mosiyanasiyana ndikuzindikira njira ya chiyembekezo, yomwe ndiyofunikira chifukwa kukhumudwa kumapangitsa chiyembekezo. Apa timapereka malangizo kuti tigonjetse nthawi yovuta ija ya Fr. Jean-François Catalan, wasayansi yamaganizo ndi Yesuit.

Kodi ndizabwinobwino kukaikira chikhulupiriro chanu komanso ngakhale kungochisiya mukakhala ndi nkhawa?

Oyera ambiri opambana adadutsa pamithunzi yamdima, "usiku wamdima" uja, monga amawatcha San Giovanni della Croce. Nawonso anavutika ndi kutaya mtima, chisoni, kutopa ndi moyo, nthawi zina mpaka kukhumudwa. A St. Alphonsus a Ligouri adakhala moyo wake wonse mumdima pomwe amatonthoza miyoyo ("Ndivutika ndi gehena", anganene), monga a Curé of Ars. Kwa Woyera Teresa wa Mwana Yesu, "khoma linampatula iye kumwamba". Sanadziwenso ngati Mulungu kapena kumwamba kulibe. Komabe, adakumana ndi nkhaniyi kudzera mchikondi. Nthawi zawo zamdima sizinawalepheretse kuthana ndi chikhulupiriro. Ndipo anapatulidwa ndendende chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro.

Mukakhala ndi nkhawa, mutha kudzipereka kwa Mulungu.Nthawi imeneyi, malingaliro akudwala; kung'amba kumatsegulidwa khoma, ngakhale kuvutika ndi kusungulumwa sizitha. Ndi zotsatira za kulimbana kosatha. Komanso ndi chisomo chomwe tapatsidwa kwa ife. Pali maulendo awiri. Kumbali imodzi, mumachita zomwe mungathe, ngakhale zikuwoneka zochepa komanso zosakwanira, koma mumachita - kutenga mankhwala anu, kuonana ndi dokotala kapena othandizira, kuyesera kukonzanso ubale - womwe nthawi zina ungakhale wovuta kwambiri, chifukwa abwenzi akhoza kuti apite, kapena iwo omwe ali pafupi nafe afooka. Komabe, mutha kudalira chisomo cha Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni kuti musataye mtima.



Munatchula oyera, koma bwanji za anthu wamba?

Inde, chitsanzo cha oyera chingaoneke kutali kwambiri ndi zomwe takumana nazo. Nthawi zambiri timakhala mumdima wakuda kuposa usiku. Koma, monga oyera mtima, zokumana nazo zathu zimatiwonetsa kuti moyo wachikhristu aliyense, m'njira inayake kapena ina, nkhondo: kulimbana ndi kutaya mtima, motsutsana ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe timadzibweretsera tokha, kudzikonda kwathu, kutaya mtima kwathu. Ili ndiye nkhondo yomwe timakhala nayo tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo imakhudza aliyense.

Aliyense wa ife amakhala ndi nkhondo yathu kuti ayang'ane ndi mphamvu zowononga zomwe zimatsutsana ndi moyo weniweni, ngakhale zimachokera ku zinthu zachilengedwe (matenda, matenda, kachilombo, khansa, ndi zina), zamaganizidwe amtundu uliwonse (njira yamtundu uliwonse wa neurotic, kusamvana zamunthu, zokhumudwitsa, etc.) kapena zauzimu. Dziwani kuti kukhala mu mkhalidwe wopsinjika kukhoza kukhala ndi zoyambitsa mwakuthupi kapena zamaganizidwe, komanso zingakhale zauzimu mwachilengedwe. Mu moyo wa munthu pali mayesero, pali kukana, pali chimo. Sitingakhale chete asanafike zochita za satana, wotsutsana naye, yemwe amayesa kuti "kutikhumudwitsa m'njira kuti atilepheretse kuyandikira kwa Mulungu. Amatha kutenga mwayi pazovuta zathu, zisautso, kukhumudwa. Cholinga chake ndi kulefula komanso kukhumudwa.

Kodi Kukhumudwa Kungakhale Tchimo?

Ayi, sichoncho; ndi matenda. Mutha kukhala ndi moyo matenda anu poyenda modzichepetsa. Mukakhala m'munsi mwa phompho, simunatchulidwepo ndipo mukumva kuwawa chifukwa kulibe malo oti mutembenukire, mumazindikira kuti simunali wamphamvuyonse komanso kuti simungadzipulumutse. Komabe, ngakhale munthawi yamdima kwambiri, mumamasulidwa: muli omasuka kuti mukhale ndi nkhawa kapena mkwiyo. Moyo wonse wa uzimu umayimira kutembenuka, koma kutembenuka kumeneku, sikungopanganso kusintha kwa mawonekedwe, momwe timasinthira malingaliro athu ndikuyang'ana kwa Mulungu, kubwerera kwa Iye. Kutembenuka uku ndi zotsatira za kutembenuka mtima. kusankha ndi nkhondo. Wopsinjika mtima sachotsedwa pamenepa.

Kodi matendawa akhoza kukhala njira yopita kuchiyero?

Zachidziwikire. Tachula zitsanzo za oyera angapo pamwambapa. Palinso anthu odwala onse obisika omwe sadzakhala ovomerezeka koma omwe adakhala matenda awo mchilungamo. Mawu a Fr. Louis Beirnaert, psychoanalyst wachipembedzo, ali woyenera kwambiri pano: "M'moyo wopanda chisoni komanso wolakwika, kupezeka kobisika kwa malingaliro azachipembedzo (Chikhulupiriro, Chiyembekezo, Charity) kumawonekera. Tikudziwa ma neurot ena omwe adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo zamaganizidwe kapena atopa kwambiri, koma chikhulupiriro chawo chosavuta, chomwe chimachirikiza dzanja laumulungu chomwe satha kuwona mumdima wa usiku, chikuwala kwambiri monga ukulu wa Vincent de Paul! ”Izi zikugwiranso ntchito kwa aliyense amene ali ndi nkhawa.

Kodi izi ndi zomwe Khristu adakumana nazo ku Getsemane?

Mwanjira ina, inde. Yesu adakhudzika kwambiri ndi kutaya mtima, kukhumudwa, kusiyidwa ndi chisoni m'moyo wake wonse: "Moyo wanga uli wachisoni, kufikira imfa" (Mateyu 26:38). Izi ndi malingaliro omwe munthu aliyense wokhumudwa amakhala nawo. Adapempha ngakhale Atate kuti "chikho ichi chindipitirire" (Mateyu 26:39). Zinali zovuta kwambiri komanso zopweteka kwambiri kwa iye! Mpaka nthawi ya "kutembenuka", pomwe kuvomerezedwa kudapezekanso: "koma osati monga ndikufuna, koma momwe mungachitire" (Mateyo 26:39).

Maganizo ake akuti adasiyidwa adakwaniritsidwa panthawi yomwe adati, "Mulungu wanga, Mulungu wanga, mwandisiyiranji ine?" Koma Mwanayo adanenanso kuti "Mulungu wanga ..." Ichi ndiye chochititsa chidwi chomaliza chachiwirichi: Yesu akhulupirira Atate wake panthawi yomwe zikuwoneka kuti Atate wake amusiya. Chikhulupiriro champhamvu, chinafuula mumdima wausiku! Nthawi zina ndi momwe tiyenera kukhala. Ndi chisomo chake. Ndikupempha "Ambuye, bwerani mudzatithandizire!"