Chikondi chokhazikika chimawononga moyo wanu "Chikondi ndi ufulu osati ndende"

Lero tikufuna kukambirana nanu'chikondi wokhala nazo kudzoza kuchokera ku mawu a Kadinala Matteo Zuppi. Chikondi chokhala ndi mphamvu chimawononga chifukwa chimaletsa ndi kulamulira chinacho, kulepheretsa wokondedwayo kukhala ndi ufulu ndi kudziimira. Chikondi ndi ufulu, kumverera komwe kumagwirizanitsa okondedwa koma kumapereka mpata wofotokozera ndikupanga mgwirizano wozama. Chikondi si ndende ya nsanje kapena kulamulira, kumene munthu amawopa ngakhale kupuma.

Masiku angapo pambuyo pa imfa ya Giulia, tikupeza kuti tikukambirananso kupha akazi ndi chikondi chomwe chilibe chochita ndi tanthauzo la mawu awa. Kufuna mwayi munthu samukonda. Chilichonse chomwe chimapanga chimodzi munthu wosasangalala, sichikhudzana ndi chikondi.

Zotsatira za chikondi cha mwini

Chikondi chokhazikika chingakhale chochuluka zovulaza ndi zowononga za ubale. Munthu akakhala ndi zinthu, amafunikira kwambiri kuyang'anira mnzako, wa kuchepetsa ufulu wake pa mbali iliyonse ya moyo wake. Khalidwe lamtundu uwu limapanga nthawi zonse mavuto ndi nkhawa. Munthu amene ali nazo akhoza kukhala wansanje ngakhale zinthu zing’onozing’ono, monga abwenzi a mnzako, zochita zake za tsiku ndi tsiku kapenanso achibale. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse kuwunika mayendedwe wa mnzako, yemwe panthawiyi Amazimitsa m'maganizo.

Chikola mawonekedwe opanda thanzi kumverera kungayambitsenso a kudzipatula pagulu, popeza kuti mwini chuma amatalikitsa mnzakeyo ku dziko lake, kuti zonse zikhale pansi pa ulamuliro. Kudzipatula kumeneku kungayambitse kutayika kwa maubwenzi ofunikira komanso a kusungulumwa ndi iwo amene agwidwa ndi zonsezi.

Chotsatira china cha ubale wosayenerawu ndimtima wonyenga zomwe munthu yemwe ali nazo amagwiritsa ntchito kwa mnzake, zomwe zimakhudza zisankho ndi zochita zake. Izi zimapeputsa ndikudziwononga wekhakudziwika ndi kudzidalira a chipani china, amene angaone ngati alibe ntchito.

Chomvetsa chisoni ndichakuti mwatsoka zonsezi zimatha maganizo aukali, zomwe zimakhala ndi zotsatira zowononga kwa munthu amene akuvutika nazo komanso zomwe nthawi zambiri zimathera kutenga moyo kwa amene ali ndi vuto lokhalo lokonda munthu wolakwika m’njira yoyenera.