Momwe mungathandizire ena kudutsa pachikhulupiriro

Nthawi zina njira yabwino yolangizira okayikira ndikulankhula kuchokera pamalo omwe akumana nawo.

Lisa Marie, ali ndi zaka XNUMX, ali mtsikana, adayamba kukayikira Mulungu.Akulira ku banja lokhulupirika la Katolika kutchalitchi komanso kusukulu yasekondale ya Katolika, Lisa Marie adapeza zokayikira izi. "Sindinali wotsimikiza kuti zonse zomwe ndimaphunzira za Mulungu zinali zenizeni," akufotokoza. Chifukwa chake, ndidapempha Mulungu kuti andipatse chikhulupiriro chofanana ndi kanjere ka mpiru. Ndinkapemphera kuti Mulungu andipatse chikhulupiriro chomwe ndilibe. "

Lisa Marie, adati, Zotsatira zake zidasintha kwambiri. Anayamba kumva kupezeka kwa Mulungu monga momwe anali asanachitirepo. Moyo wake wopemphera udayamba kukhala ndi tanthauzo latsopano komanso lolunjika. Tsopano akwatirana komanso amayi a Josh, 13, ndi Eliana, 7, Lisa Marie amadalira luso lawo ndipo amakayikira akakambirana ndi ena za chikhulupiriro. "Ndikumva bwino kwambiri kuti zonse muyenera kuchita ngati mukufuna chikhulupiriro ndikupempha - khalani omasuka. Mulungu apumula, ”akutero.

Ambiri aife tingaone kuti sitingathe kulangiza wina za chikhulupiriro chawo. Ndi mutu wovuta kupewa: iwo amene amakayikira angafune kuvomereza mafunso awo. Anthu omwe ali ndi chikhulupiriro cholimba amatha kuopa kudzikuza mwauzimu polankhula ndi munthu amene akuvutika.

Maureen, mayi wa ana asanu, wawona kuti njira yabwino kwambiri yolangizira okayikira ndikulankhula kuchokera pamalo omwe akumana nawo. Pamene bwenzi lalikulu la Maureen lalikulu bizinesi yaying'ono yomwe inali yopambana kale ikukumana ndi banki, mnzakeyo adamva kuwawa chifukwa cha mafayilo ndi msonkho womwe am'panga paukwati wake.

Mnzangayo anandiimbira misozi ndikunena kuti akuona ngati Mulungu wamusiya, sakumva kupezeka kwake konse. Ngakhale kubanki sikunali vuto la mnzanga, anali ndi manyazi kwambiri, ”akutero Maureen. Maureen adadzuka ndikuyamba kulankhula ndi mnzake. "Ndidayesa kumutsimikizira kuti ndizabwinobwino kukhala ndi" zonena zowuma "m'miyoyo yathu yachikhulupiriro pomwe timalephera kuwona Mulungu ndikudalira zida zathu m'malo momukhulupirira pazinthu zonse," akutero. "Ndikhulupirira kuti Mulungu amatilola nthawi izi chifukwa, pamene tikugwiritsa ntchito kudzera mwa iwo, timapemphera kudzera mwa iwo, chikhulupiriro chathu chimalimba mbali inayo."

Nthawi zina kulangiza anzathu omwe amakayikira kungakhale kosavuta kuposa kungowuza ana athu mafunso awo okhulupilira. Ana angaope kukhumudwitsa makolo ndi kubisa zokayikira zawo, ngakhale atapita kutchalitchi ndi banja kapena kutenga nawo mbali m'maphunziro a chipembedzo.

Choopsa apa ndikuti ana atha kuzolowera kulumikizana ndi chipembedzo ndikudziyerekeza ndikukhulupirira. M'malo moika pachiwopsezo kulowa pansi ndikufunsa makolo za chikhulupiriro, ana awa amasankha kuyendetsa gulu la chipembedzo ndipo nthawi zambiri amachoka ku tchalitchi akadzakula.

“Mwana wanga wamwamuna wamkulu ali ndi zaka 14, sindinkayembekezera kuti angakayikire. Ndimaganiza kuti amakayikira, bwanji palibe amene sanachite izi? Francis, bambo wa ana anayi. "Nditamufunsa zomwe amakhulupirira, zomwe sakhulupirira komanso zomwe akufuna kukhulupirira koma zomwe sakhulupirira. Ndidamumvera kwenikweni ndikuyesetsa kumuteteza kuti asafotokozere zokayikira zake. Ndinagawana nawonso zokumana nazo za mphindi zakukayikira komanso chikhulupiriro cholimba. "

Francis adati mwana wake amasangalala kumva kulimbana kwa Francis ndi chikhulupiriro. Francis adati sanayese kuuza mwana wake chifukwa chake ayenera kukhulupirira zinazake, koma m'malo mwake adamuyamika chifukwa chotsegulira mafunso ake.

Anatinso kuti amayang'ananso pa chikhulupiriro chokha osati zomwe mwana wake anachita kapena sanakonde pa zomwe zingachitike kuti apite ku misa. chikhulupiriro chinakula, chinali chotseguka kwambiri kumvetsera, chifukwa ndinalankhulanso ndi iye za nthawi zomwe ndimakhala wosokonezeka kwambiri komanso wopanda chikhulupiriro.