Momwe kukhala ndi mwana wodwala Down Down kunasinthira moyo wa rocker

Woyimba nyimbo waku rock waku Northern Ireland Cormac Neeson akuti kukhala ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi Down syndrome kwasintha moyo wake "wachimwemwe komanso wabwino".

Mu 2014 Neeson anali ndikukwaniritsa loto la rock 'n' roll m'njira zambiri. Gulu lake, The Answer, linali litagulitsa zikwi mazana ambiri ndipo lidayenda padziko lonse lapansi monga The Rolling Stones, The Who ndi AC / DC.

Koma dziko la woimbayo lidasokonekera pomwe mkazi wake, Louise, adabereka mwana wosakhwima m'masabata 27 okha.

"Inali nthawi yamdima komanso yovuta kwambiri," akutero Neeson.

Mwana wawo wamwamuna, Dabhog, adabadwa ndi kulemera kwa 0,8 kg ndipo adasamalidwa kwambiri. Anakhala m'chipatala ku Belfast kwa miyezi inayi yotsatira.

"Kwa nthawi yayitali sitimakhala otsimikiza tsiku lililonse ngati apanga," akuwonjezera motero Neeson.

Patatha milungu iwiri, adakumana ndi mbiri yoti Dabhog ali ndi Down syndrome, chibadwa chomwe chimakhudza luso la kuphunzira la munthu.

"Chinali chinthu chinanso chomwe chimangowonjezera kulimba mtima kwambiri."

Dabhog anachitidwa opaleshoni ya mtima ali ndi zaka 1
Nthawi imeneyo Yankho lidatulutsa chimbale.

“Ndiyenera kutuluka pachofungatira kwa mphindi 20 kapena 30 ndikufunsa mafunso kuti ndilengeze nyimbo.

"Ndinkachita ngati kuti ndili pamalo omwe ndimamasuka kutulutsa nyimbo za rock'n'roll kuti ndizisangalala nazo. Unali mutu wathunthu womenya ndi mutu wanga, ”akutero Neeson.

Dabhog adapulumuka ndipo adatulutsidwa mchipatala, ngakhale adachita opaleshoni ali ndi zaka chimodzi kuti akonze dzenje mumtima mwake.

Zokumana nazo zidakhudza kwambiri masomphenya a moyo wa Neeson komanso nyimbo zake.

"Nthawi zonse fumbi litakhazikika ndipo Dabhog anali kunyumba ndipo thanzi lake limayamba kusintha ndipo moyo udakhazikika pang'ono ndidazindikira kuti mwanzeru sindinali pamalo pomwe nditha kulemba nyimbo zomwe tidagwiritsa ntchito zaka 10 zapitazi ndikulemba, ”akutero.

Anapita ku Nashville komwe adagwira ntchito ndi olemba nyimbo aku America komanso oyimba kuti apange chimbale chatsopano. "Zotsatira zake zidalidi nyimbo zomwe zinali zotsogola, zamphamvu komanso zowona mtima kuti zitha kukhala gawo limodzi la ntchito yaumwini.

"Ndi dziko lakutali ndi zinthu zomwe ndidagwiritsa ntchito pantchito yanga mpaka pano."

Mutu wa nyimbo yodziyimira payokha ya Neeson, Nthenga Yoyera, umachokera pazomwe zidachitika mayi wake ali ndi pakati
Imodzi mwa nyimbozi, Wing Wing, ndi msonkho kwa Dabhog.

"Ndi mwayi wabwino kulankhula za Down syndrome ndikukhazikitsa matenda a Down syndrome, komanso kukondwerera mwana wanga wamwamuna momwe alili," akutero a Neeson.

Akuti akufuna kuthana ndi nyimbo yomwe ikulera mwana yemwe ali ndi vuto la kuphunzira ili ndi zovuta zina, koma "ndiyapadera m'njira yayikulu komanso yamphamvu."

Neeson akuti adalembanso nyimboyi kuti athandize makolo atsopano a ana omwe ali ndi Down syndrome.

"Ndimabwerera kuchipatala nthawi iliyonse yomwe timauzidwa kuti Dabhog ali ndi Down syndrome ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ndikamva nyimbo iyi ndiye kuti nditha kutonthozedwa nayo.

“Ngati mwana wanu ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome sizomwe mwana wanu amafotokoza. Mwana wanu ndi wapadera komanso wodabwitsa ngati mwana wina aliyense. Sindinakumanepo ndi munthu wonga mwana wanga, Dabhog.

"Chisangalalo chomwe amabweretsa m'moyo wathu ndichinthu chomwe sindinachiwonere pomwe tinkangokhala ndi nkhawa tsiku lililonse zaumoyo wake ndikumutulutsa mchipatala."

Neeson ali ndi chromosome 21 wolemba mphini padzanja lake. Mtundu wofala kwambiri wa Down syndrome ndi trisomy 21, pomwe pali mitundu itatu ya chromosome mmalo mwa iwiri
Mutu wa chimbale, Nthenga Yoyera, umanena za zomwe zidachitika Louise ali ndi pakati ndi Dabhog.

Pafupifupi milungu itatu adauzidwa kuti ndi ectopic pregnancy, pomwe dzira limayikidwa kunja kwa chiberekero, nthawi zambiri mumachubu ya mazira. Dzira silingakhale khanda motero mimba iyenera kuthetsedwa chifukwa cha chiopsezo cha mayiyo.

Atatenga Louise kuti akamuchite opaleshoni, madotolo adazindikira kuti sikumakhala ndi ectopic pregnancy, koma adati ayenera kudikirira milungu iwiri asanathe kuwunika kugunda kwa mtima ndikutsimikizira ngati mwanayo akadali moyo. .

Usiku usanachitike scan, Neeson adayenda yekha m'mapiri pafupi ndi kwawo kwa Newcastle, County Down.

“Kafukufuku wambiri wamoyo wapita. Ndidayankhula mokweza kuti: "Ndikufuna chizindikiro". Pamenepo ndinayimitsidwa ndikufa. "

Anawona nthenga yoyera m'mitengo. "Ku Ireland, nthenga yoyera imayimira moyo," akutero Neeson.

Tsiku lotsatira sikaniyo idawulula "kugunda" kwakukulu.

Neeson band The Answer yatulutsa ma studio XNUMX
Dabhog tsopano ali ndi zaka zisanu ndipo adayamba sukulu mu Seputembala, pomwe Neeson akuti adapeza abwenzi ndipo adapambana ziphaso kuti akhale Wophunzira wa Sabata.

"Kungodziwa kuti mwana wathu akukula mwanjira imeneyi komanso kulumikizana kwambiri komanso kukhala munthu wotsimikizira za moyo wake komanso kuti atibweretse chisangalalo m'moyo wathu ndichabwino kwambiri kwa ife ndipo tili othokoza chimenecho, ”akutero Neeson.

Dabhog tsopano ali ndi mchimwene wake wachichepere, ndipo Neeson wakhala kazembe wa bungwe lothandiza anthu olumala la Mencap ku Northern Ireland. Dabhog adapita ku Mencap Center ku Belfast kuti akaphunzire mwaluso komanso athandizidwe mwachangu.

"Mkazi wanga asanatenge mimba ya Dabhog, ndikuganiza kuti zomwe ndimangoganizira kwambiri pamoyo wanga zidali ndekha ndipo ndikuganiza sizikhala zodzikonda mukakhala ndi mwana," akutero.

Pokumbukira za 2014, akuwonjezera kuti: “Pali nthawi zina pamoyo wanu zomwe simukudziwa kuthana ndi zopinga izi, koma mumadziwa.

"Nthawi iliyonse mukatuluka kutsidya lina pamakhala lingaliro lopambana ndipo ndipomwe tili pano."