Momwe mungayesere chikumbumtima
Tivomerezane: ambiri a ife Akatolika sitimakabvomera nthawi zambiri monga timafunira, kapena mwina nthawi zambiri momwe timafunira. Sikuti Sacramenti la Confidence nthawi zambiri limangoperekedwa kwa ola limodzi Loweruka masana. Choonadi chachisoni ndichoti ambiri aife timanena za kuulula chifukwa sitimva okonzeka kulandira sakramenti.
Lingaliro lokhumudwitsa ilo loti ndife okonzekeratu lingakhale chinthu chabwino ngati lingatithandizire kuyesa kupanga chivomerezo chabwino. Chimodzi mwazinthu zopanga kuvomereza kwabwinoko ndikutenga mphindi zochepa kuti muyeze chikumbumtima musanalowe muvomerezo. Ndi kuyeserera pang'ono - mwinanso mphindi khumi kuti mupeze chikumbumtima chanu mokwanira - mutha kupanga kuulula kwanu kotsatira kubala zipatso zambiri mwinanso kuyamba kufuna kuulula kawirikawiri.
Yambani ndikupemphera kwa Mzimu Woyera
Musanalowe m'mtima wowunikira chikumbumtima, nthawi zonse ndi malingaliro abwino kupempha Mzimu Woyera, yemwe akutitsogolera pa zinthu izi. Pemphero lofulumira ngati Bwerani, Mzimu Woyera kapena motalikirapo ngati Pemphero la Mphatso za Mzimu Woyera ndi njira yabwino yopempha Mzimu Woyera kuti atsegule mitima yathu ndikutikumbutsa za machimo athu kuti tikwaniritse zonse , vomerezani kwathunthu ndikulapa.
Kulapa kumakhala kokwanira ngati tauza wansembe machimo athu onse; Zimakhala zokwanira ngati tikuphatikiza kuchuluka kwa nthawi zomwe tachimwa tonse komanso momwe tidachimwira, ndipo ndikulapa ngati timamva kuwawa kwenikweni chifukwa cha machimo athu onse. Cholinga choyesa chikumbumtima ndi kutithandiza kukumbukira machimo onse ndi pafupipafupi momwe tidachitiramo chiyambire kuulula kwathu kotsiriza komanso kudzutsanso zowawa mwa ife chifukwa chakhumudwitsa Mulungu ndi machimo athu.
Unikani malamulo khumiwo
Kuunika kwa chikumbumtima chilichonse kuyenera kuphatikizaponso lingaliro lina pa Lamulo Khumi lililonse. Ngakhale poyang'ana koyamba, zingaoneke ngati kuti ena mwa malamulowa akugwira ntchito, lililonse laalamuloli lili ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Kukambirana bwino kwamalamulo Khumiwo kumatithandiza kuwona kuti, mwachitsanzo, kuwona zinthu zopanda ulemu pa intaneti ndikuphwanya Lamulo Lachisanu ndi chimodzi kapena kukwiya kwambiri ndi munthu yemwe amaphwanya Lamulo Lachisanu.
Misonkhano ya a Bishops ku United States ili ndi mayeso achidule okhudzana ndi chikumbumtima omwe amapereka mafunso kukuwunikirani kuwunika kwa lamulo lililonse.
Unikani malingaliro a Mpingo
Malamulo Khumi ndi mfundo zoyambirira za moyo wamakhalidwe abwino, koma monga akhristu, timayitanidwa kuti tichite zambiri. Malamulo asanu, kapena malamulo, a Mpingo wa Katolika amaimira zochepa zomwe tiyenera kuchita kuti tikulitse chikondi chathu kwa Mulungu ndi mnansi. Ngakhale machimo ochimwira Malamulo Khumi amakonda kukhala ochimwa (m'mawu a Confiteor omwe timanena kumayambiliro a Misa, "mu zomwe ndidachita"), kumachimwira zomwe zimatsutsana ndi zomwe tchalitchichi chimachita kukhala zochotsa machimo ( "Mu zomwe sindinathe kuchita").
Lingalirani za machimo asanu ndi awiriwa
Kuganizira za machimo asanu ndi awiri oyipawo - kunyada, kulakalaka (kudziwikanso kuti ndi avarice kapena umbombo), kusilira, mkwiyo, kususuka, kaduka ndi ulesi - ndiyo njira ina yabwino yofikira pam mfundo zachikhalidwe zomwe zilipo mu Malamulo Khumi. Mukamalingalira za machimo asanu ndi awiriwo oyipa, lingalirani za kuvunda kumene kuchimwa komwe kungakhale nako pa moyo wanu - mwachitsanzo, kususuka kapena umbombo zingakulepheretseni kukhala owolowa manja monga momwe mungakhalire kwa ena ocheperapo mwayi kuposa inu.
Ganizirani malo anu pamoyo
Munthu aliyense ali ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana malinga ndi malo ake pamoyo. Mwana ali ndi udindo wocheperako kuposa wamkulu; osakwatira ndi okwatirana ali ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana komanso zovuta zosiyanasiyana pamakhalidwe.
Mukalingalira momwe mumakhalira m'moyo, mumayamba kuwona zonse zamachimo osachimwa ndi machimo amisala omwe amachokera munthawi yanu. Misonkhano ya Bishops ya United States imapereka kuyesa kwapadera kwa chikumbumtima kwa ana, akulu achinyamata, osakwatira komanso okwatira.
Sinkhasinkhani za Khalidwe
Ngati muli ndi nthawi, njira yabwino yokwaniritsira kupenda chikumbumtima ndi kusinkhasinkha za zisanu ndi zitatu. The Beatitudes ikuyimira pachidule cha moyo wachikhristu; kuganiza za njira zomwe sititha aliyense wa iwo kungatithandizenso kuwona bwino machimo amenewo omwe amatilepheretsa kukonda Mulungu ndi anzathu.
Zimatha ndi machitidwe osokoneza
Mukamaliza kuunikira chikumbumtima ndikulemba m'maganizo (kapena kusindikiza) machimo anu, ndibwino kuti muchite chikumbumtima musanapite ku Chivomerezo. Pomwe mukuchita ngati kukhudzika ngati gawo limodzi la chivomerezo chomwecho, kupanga chimodzi pasadakhale ndi njira yabwino yodzutsira zowawa zamachimo anu ndikukwaniritsa kuulula kwathunthu, kwathunthu komanso kuwulula.
Osakhumudwa
Zitha kuwoneka ngati kuti pali zambiri zofunika kuchita kuti muunike bwino kwambiri kuti mudziwe ngati mukudziwa. Ngakhale ndibwino kudutsa njira zonsezi pafupipafupi, nthawi zina simukhala ndi nthawi yochita zonsezi musanalape. Zili bwino ngati, titi, mumaganizira za Malamulo Khumi musanachitike kuulula kwanu ndi malingaliro a Mpingo chisanachitike. Osadumpha chivomerezo chifukwa simunamalize masitepe onse apa; ndikwabwino kutenga nawo gawo mu sakaramenti kuposa kupita kukalapa.
Mukamayeserera chikumbumtima, chonsecho kapena pang'ono, komabe, mudzaona kuti Kuvomereza kumakhala kosavuta. Muyamba kuyang'ana kwambiri za machimo omwe mumagwera nthawi zambiri ndipo mutha kufunsa owulula anu kuti anene malingaliro amomwe mungapewere machimo amenewo. Ndipo ichi, ndichachidziwikire, gawo lalikulu la Sacrament of Confession: kuyanjanitsidwa ndi Mulungu ndikulandila chisomo chofunikira kukhala moyo wachikhristu mokwanira.