Malangizo othandiza achikhristu pamene wokondedwa wanu wamwalira
Kodi mumati chiyani kwa munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri mukaphunzira kuti amangokhala ndi masiku ochepa kuti akhale ndi moyo? Kodi mukupitilizabe kupemphela kuti muchiritsidwe ndikupewa mutu wa imfa? Kupatula apo, simukufuna kuti wokondedwa wanu asiye kumenyera moyo ndipo mukudziwa kuti Mulungu akhoza kuchiritsa.
Kodi mumatchula mawu oti "D"? Bwanji ngati sakufuna kukambirana za izi? Ndinkalimbana ndi malingaliro onsewa pamene ndimayang'ana bambo anga okondedwa akuyamba kuchepa.
Adotolo adandiuza ine ndi amayi anga kuti bambo anga atsala ndi tsiku limodzi kapena awiri okha kuti akhale ndi moyo. Amawoneka wokalamba kwambiri mpaka atagona m'chipatala. Anali atakhala chete kwa masiku awiri. Chizindikiro chokha cha moyo chomwe adapereka chinali kugwedezeka kwakanthawi.
Ndinkakonda bambo wokalambayo ndipo sindikufuna kumutaya. Koma ndinadziwa kuti tiyenera kumamuuza zomwe taphunzira. Inakwana nthawi yoti mulankhule za imfa ndi zamuyaya. Unali mutu wa malingaliro athu onse.
Nkhani zovutazi
Ndidawadziwitsa bambo anga zomwe adokotala atiuza, kuti palibe chomwe angachite. Amayimirira pamtsinje wolowera kumoyo wamuyaya. Abambo anga anali ndi nkhawa kuti inshuwaransi yake sikukwaniritsa zonse zofunika kuchipatala. Adali ndi nkhawa amayi anga. Ndinamutsimikizira kuti zonse zili bwino ndipo timawakonda Amayi ndipo tidzamsamalira. Misozi ili m'maso mwanga, ndinamuuza kuti vuto langali lomwe tingasoweke.
Abambo anga anali atamenya nkhondo yabwino ya chikhulupiriro, ndipo tsopano anali kubwerera kwawo kuti akakhale ndi Mpulumutsi wawo. Ndidati, "Abambo, mudandiphunzitsa kwambiri, koma tsopano mutha kundiwonetsa momwe nditha kufa." Kenako anafinya dzanja langa mwamphamvu ndipo modabwitsa anayamba kumwetulira. Chisangalalo chake chasefukira. Sindinadziwe kuti zofunikira zake zimayamba kugwa mwachangu. Mphindikati bambo anga anali atapita. Ndinaona chikukhazikitsidwa kumwamba.
Mawu osasangalatsa koma ofunikira
Tsopano ndikuwona kuti ndizosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "D". Ndikuganiza kuti mbola idachotsedwa kwa ine. Ndalankhula ndi abwenzi omwe akufuna kuti abwerere nthawi ndikulankhula mosiyana ndi omwe adawataya.
Nthawi zambiri sitikufuna kukumana ndi imfa. Ndizovuta ndipo ngakhale Yesu analira. Komabe, tikamavomereza ndikuzindikira kuti imfa yayandikira ndipo ndiyotheka, timatha kufotokozera zakukhosi kwathu. Titha kulankhula za kumwamba ndikukhala paubwenzi wapamtima ndi wokondedwa. Titha kupezanso mawu oyenera kunena.
Nthawi yonena zabwino ndiyofunika. Umu ndi momwe timalolera ndikupereka wokondedwa m'manja mwa Mulungu.Ndi njira imodzi mwamphamvu kwambiri yosonyeza chikhulupiriro chathu. Mulungu amatithandiza kupeza mtendere ndi zenizeni zotaika zathu m'malo momva zowawa zake. Mawu olekanitsa amathandizira kubweretsa kutsekedwa ndi kuchiritsidwa.
Ndipo ndizosangalatsa bwanji pamene Akhristu azindikira kuti tili ndi mawu ofunikira awa ndi chiyembekezo kuti atitonthoze: "Mpaka pomwe tidzakumanenso".
Mawu oti mulankhule
Nawa mfundo zina zothandiza kukumbukira ngati wokondedwa watsala pang'ono kumwalira:
Odwala ambiri amadziwa akamwalira. Namwino wa Massachusetts a Maggie Callanan adati, "Omwe ali mchipindamo osalankhula za izi, zimakhala ngati mvuu yapinki tutu yomwe aliyense akuyenda osanyalanyaza. Munthu amene wamwalirayo amayamba kuda nkhawa ngati palibe amene akumvetsetsa izi. Izi zokha zimangowonjezera kupsinjika: akuyenera kuganizira zosowa za ena mmalo molankhula ndi zawo.
Pangani maulendo anu abwino, koma khalani achangu momwe mungathere pazosowa za wokondedwa wanu. Mungafune kuwaimbira nyimbo yomwe mumakonda, kuwawerenga kuchokera m'malemba, kapena kumangocheza pazinthu zomwe mukudziwa kuti amazikonda. Osangonyalanyaza kunena zabwino. Izi zitha kukhala chisoni chachikulu.
Nthawi zina wabwino ukhoza kuyambitsa kupumula. Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukhala akuyembekezera chilolezo chanu kuti afe. Komabe, kupuma komaliza kumatha kukhala maola kapena masiku angapo pambuyo pake. Nthawi zambiri kumangonena zabwino zitha kubwerezedwa kangapo.
Pezani mwayi wofotokoza chikondi chanu komanso kumukhululukirani ngati pangafunike kutero. Muuzeni wokondedwa wanu kuti mumusowa kwambiri. Ngati ndi kotheka, ayang'aneni m'maso, agwire dzanja, khalani pafupi, ndipo ngakhale akunong'oneza m'khutu. Ngakhale kuti munthu wakufa angaoneke ngati wosalabadira, nthawi zambiri amatha kumva inu.