Upangiri wothandiza komanso womvera pabanja pa Chikhristu
Ukwati umaganiziridwa kuti ndi mgwirizano wachisangalalo komanso wopatulika m'moyo wachikhristu, koma kwa ena umatha kukhala ntchito yovuta komanso yosangalatsa. Mwina mwakhala muukwati wopanda chisangalalo, kungopirira unansi wopweteka komanso wovuta.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti, kumanga banja labwino ndikusamalira banja kumafuna ntchito. Komabe, zopindulitsa pa ntchitoyi ndizothandiza kwambiri komanso ndizosawerengeka. Musanataye mtima, lingalirani za upangiri wachikwati wachikhristu womwe ungakubweretsere chiyembekezo ndi chikhulupiriro pazovuta zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zosatheka.
Momwe mungapangire ukwati wanu wachikhristu
Ngakhale kukonda ndi kukhazikika muukwati kumafuna kuyesetsa mwadala, sikuti ndizovuta ngati mutayamba ndi mfundo zofunika. Loyamba ndi kumanga banja lanu pamaziko olimba: chikhulupiriro chanu mwa Yesu Khristu. Chachiwiri ndi kukhalabe odzipereka osasunthika pakupanga banja lanu. Mfundo ziwiri izi zitha kulimbikitsidwa kwambiri pakuchita zinthu zisanu zosavuta.
Kupemphera limodzi: khalani ndi nthawi yopemphera ndi mnzanu tsiku lililonse. Pemphero sikuti limangobweretsa inu pafupi ndi wina ndi mnzake, koma limalimbitsa ubale wanu ndi Ambuye.
Kuwerenga Baibulo Limodzi: Sungani nthawi yowerenga Baibulo ndipo khalani ndi zopembedzera pamodzi. Momwe mungapempherere limodzi, kugawana Mawu a Mulungu kudzakupindulitsani kwambiri banja lanu. Mukamalolera kuti Ambuye ndi Mawu ake asinthe kuchokera mkati, mudzayamba kukondana wina ndi mzake ndi kudzipereka kwanu kwa Khristu.
Pangani zisankho zofunikira limodzi: kuvomera kupanga zisankho zofunika, monga kusamalira ndalama, limodzi. Simungabisire zinsinsi kwa ife ngati mungadzipange kupanga zigawo zonse zofunika pamodzi. Iyi ndi njira imodzi yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsira kukhulupirirana ndi kulemekezana monga banja.
Muzipita ku tchalitchi limodzi: Pezani mpingo womwe inu ndi mnzanu mungapembedze, mutumikire, ndikupanga abwenzi achikhristu. Baibo imati mu Ahebri 10: 24-25 kuti njira imodzi yabwino yolimbikitsira chikondi ndi kulimbikitsa ntchito zabwino ndi kukhalabe okhulupilika kwa thupi la Yesu. Kukhala nawo m'tchalitchi kumaperekanso banja lanu chida chothandizira chachikondwerero cha abwenzi ndi aphungu kuti akuthandizeni munthawi zovuta m'moyo.
Dyetsani chikondi chanu: pitani kunja ndikukakulitsani chikondi chanu. Okwatirana nthawi zambiri samayang'anira gawo ili, makamaka akayamba kubereka. Kusungabe chibwenzi kumafunikira kukonzekera, koma ndikofunikira kuti banja likondane. Osasiye kuchita ndi kunena zinthu zachikondi zomwe mudachita mutayamba kukondana koyamba. Hug ,psopsona ndikuti ndimakukondani nthawi zambiri. Mverani mnzanu, gwiranani manja ndikuyenda pagombe dzuwa likalowa. Gwira manja anu. Khalani okomerana mtima ndi kusamalirana wina ndi mnzake. Sonyezani ulemu, sanani pamodzi ndipo onani kuti mnzanu akakuchitirani zabwino. Kumbukirani kusirira ndikondwerera chipambano cha wina ndi mnzake m'moyo.
Ngati nonse mungachite zinthu zisanu zokha izi, sikuti banja lanu limangokhala lokhalitsa, zidzachitira umboni molimba mtima dongosolo la Mulungu laukwati wachikhristu.
Chifukwa Mulungu adapanga banja lachikhristu
Njira yomaliza yomanga banja lolimba chachikhristu ndi Baibulo. Ngati tiphunzira zomwe Baibo imakamba za cikwati, posakhalitsa tidzazindikira kuti cikwati anali lingaliro la Mulungu kuyambira paciyambi. M'malo mwake, anali oyamba kukhazikitsidwa ndi Mulungu mu Genesis, chaputala 2.
Pamtima pa chikonzero cha Mulungu paukwati ndi zinthu ziwiri: mgwirizano ndi kuyanjana. Kuchokera pamenepo cholinga chimakhala fanizo labwino la ubale wapadera ndi wopangidwa ndi Mulungu pangano pakati pa Yesu Kristu ndi Mkwatibwi wake (mpingo), kapena thupi la Kristu.
Zitha kudabwitsidwa kuti muphunzire, koma Mulungu sanakonzekere ukwati kuti ungakusangalatseni. Cholinga chachikulu cha Mulungu muukwati ndikuti maanja akule limodzi mu chiyero.
Nanga bwanji za chisudzulo ndi ukwati watsopano?
Mipingo yambiri yozikidwa pa Baibulo imaphunzitsira kuti chisudzulo chiyenera kungoonedwa ngati chinthu chomaliza pokhapokha kuyesa kuyanjanitsa kwatha. Monga momwe Baibo imatiphunzitsira kulowa mbanja mosamala komanso molemekeza, kusudzulana kuyenera kupewedwa konse. Kafukufukuyu amayesa kuyankha mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kwambiri zokhuza banja ndi ukwati watsopano.