Kodi Baibo imati chiyani pankhani yothetsa banja ndi kukwatiwanso?

Ukwati ndiwo maziko oyambitsidwa ndi Mulungu mbuku la Genesis, chaputala 2. Ndi pangano loyera lomwe likuyimira ubale pakati pa Khristu ndi Mkwatibwi wake kapena Thupi la Khristu.

Zikhulupiriro zambiri zachikristu zozikidwa pa Baibulo zimaphunzitsira kuti chisudzulo chiyenera kungoonedwa ngati chinthu chomaliza pokhapokha kuyesayesa kwati kwathetsa mgwirizano. Monga momwe Baibo imatiphunzitsira kulowa mbanja mosamala komanso molemekeza, kusudzulana kuyenera kupewedwa konse. Kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza malumbiro akwati kumabweretsa ulemu ndi ulemu kwa Mulungu.

Maudindo osiyanasiyana pamavuto
Tsoka ilo, chisudzulo ndi ukwati watsopano ndizofala zenizeni m'thupi la Khristu masiku ano. Mwambiri, akhristu amakonda kugwera mu umodzi mwa maudindo anayi pankhaniyi:

Palibe chisudzulo - palibe ukwati watsopano: ukwati ndi mgwirizano wamgwirizano, wopangidwira moyo, chifukwa chake suyenera kusweka mwanjira iliyonse; ukwati watsopano umaphwanyanso pangano motero saloledwa.
Chisudzulo - koma osakwatiranso: chisudzulo, ngakhale sicholinga cha Mulungu, nthawi zina ndiye njira yokhayo pamene zina zonse zalephera. Wosudzulidwa ayenera kukhalabe wosakwatirana moyo wake wonse.
Chisudzulo - koma kukwatiwanso pena pokha pachitika zina: chisudzulo, ngakhale sicholinga cha Mulungu, nthawi zina sichitha. Ngati zifukwa zakulekana zili za Bayibulo, wolekedwayo angathe kukwatiwanso, koma kokha kwa wokhulupirira.
Chisudzulo - Kukwatiranso: Kusudzulana, ngakhale sichiri cholinga cha Mulungu, sichimo losakhululukidwa. Mosasamala kanthu za mikhalidwe, anthu onse osudzulidwa omwe alapa ayenera kukhululukidwa ndikuloledwa kukwatiwanso.
Kodi Baibo imati chiyani?
Phunziro lotsatira liyesa kuyankha ena mwa mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kwambiri pankhani yothetsa banja ndi ukwati watsopano pakati pa akhristu malinga ndi zomwe zili m'Baibulo. Tikufuna kuthokoza Mbusa Ben Reid wa True Oak Fsoci ndi M'busa Danny Hodges wa Kalvari ku Chapel ku St. Petersburg, omwe ziphunzitso zawo zidalimbikitsa ndikutanthauzira kwamalembo awa okhudzana ndi kusudzulana ndi ukwati watsopano.

Q1 - Ndine Mkhristu, koma mnzanga alibe. Kodi ndiyenera kusudzula wokondedwa wanga wosakhulupirira ndikuyesa kupeza wokhulupirira kuti akwatire? Ayi. Ngati mnzanu wosakhulupirira akufuna kukwatiwa ndi inu, tsimikizani ukwati wanu. Wokondedwa wanu wosapulumutsidwa afunikira umboni wanu wachikhristu ndipo akhoza kugonjetsedwa kwa Khristu chifukwa cha umulungu wanu.
1 Akorinto 7: 12-13
Kwa ena ndinena izi (Ine, osati Ambuye): ngati m'bale ali ndi mkazi wosakhulupirira ndipo ali wofunitsitsa kukhala naye, asamusiye. Ndipo ngati mkazi ali ndi mwamuna yemwe si wokhulupirira ndipo akufuna kukhala naye, asamusiye. (NIV)
1 Petulo 3: 1-2 Le
akazi nawonso gonjerani amuna anu kuti ngati aliyense wa iwo sakhulupirira mawu, agonjetsedwe popanda mawu ndi zomwe akazi awo akawona pakuyera ndi ulemu wa moyo wanu. (NIV)
Q2 - Ndine Mkristu, koma mnzanga, yemwe si wokhulupirira, adandisiya ndikuyika chisudzulo. Kodi nditani? Ngati ndi kotheka, yesani kubwezeretsa ukwatiwo. Ngati kuyanjananso sikutheka, simukakamizidwa kuti mukhalebe muukwatiwu.
1 Akorinto 7: 15-16
Koma ngati wosakhulupirirayo achoka, achite. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wokhulupirira samangidwa muzochitika zotere; Mulungu adatiyitana kuti tizikhala mwamtendere. Kodi udziwa bwanji mkazi, ngati muapulumutsa amuna anu? Kapena, mukudziwa bwanji, amuna, ngati ungapulumutse mkazi wako? (NIV)

Q3 - Ndi zifukwa ziti za m'Baibulo kapena zifukwa zothetsera banja? Baibulo limafotokoza kuti "kusakhulupirika muukwati" ndi chifukwa chokha cha m'Malemba chomwe chimatsimikizira kuti Mulungu amaloleza kusudzulana ndi ukwati watsopano. Pali kutanthauzira kosiyanasiyana pakati pa ziphunzitso zachikhristu pofotokoza tanthauzo lenileni la "kusakhulupirika muukwati". Liwu Lachi Greek loti kusakhulupirika muukwati wopezeka pa Mateyo 5:32 ndi 19: 9 limamasulira mtundu uliwonse wa zachiwerewere kuphatikizapo chigololo, uhule, chigololo, zolaula komanso kugonana pachiwerewere. Popeza kugonana ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la pangano laukwati, kuswa mgwirizano womwewo kumawoneka ngati chifukwa chovomerezeka cha Bayibulo chothetsa banja.
Mateyu 5:32
Koma ndinena kwa inu, kuti ngati iye amene asiya mkazi wake, kosakhulupirika, akwatira iye wachigololo, ndi iye amene akwatira mkazi wosudzulidwa, achita chigololo. (NIV)
Mateyu 19: 9
Ndikukuuzani kuti aliyense wosiya mkazi wake, kupatula kusakhulupirika kwaukwati, ndikakwatira mkazi wina, wachita chigololo. (NIV)
Q4 - Ndidasudzula mkazi wanga pazifukwa zomwe sizili ndi Bayibulo. Palibe amene anakwatiranso. Ndichite chiyani kuti ndisonyeze kulapa ndi kumvera ku Mawu a Mulungu? Ngati ndi kotheka, yesetsani kuyanjananso ndikuyanjananso ndi mnzanu wakale.
1 Akorinto 7: 10-11
Ndilamula okwatirana (osati ine, koma Ambuye): mkazi sayenera kupatukana ndi mwamunayo. Koma ngati atero, ayenera kukhala osakwatirana kapena kuyanjananso ndi mwamuna wake. Ndipo mwamuna sayenera kusudzula mkazi wake. (NIV)
Q5 - Ndidasudzula mkazi wanga pazifukwa zomwe sizili ndi Bayibulo. Kuyanjananso sikungatheke chifukwa m'modzi wa ife akwatiranso. Ndichite chiyani kuti ndisonyeze kulapa ndi kumvera ku Mawu a Mulungu? Ngakhale chisudzulo chiri chachikulu m'malingaliro a Mulungu (Malaki 2:16), siuchimo wosakhululukidwa. Ngati muulula machimo anu kwa Mulungu ndikupempha kuti akukhululukireni, mwakhululukidwa (1 Yohane 1: 9) ndipo mutha kupitiliza ndi moyo wanu. Ngati mutha kuulula machimo anu kwa wokondedwa wanu wakale ndikupempha kuti akukhululukireni osamupweteketsa, muyenera kuyesetsa kutero. Kuyambira pano mpofunika kuyesetsa kulemekeza Mau a Mulungu okhudzana ndi ukwati. Chifukwa chake ngati chikumbumtima chanu chikukulolani kukwatiranso, muyenera kuchita mosamala ndi mwaulemu nthawi ikakwana. Ingokwatani wokhulupirira mnzanu m'modzi. Ngati chikumbumtima chanu chikukuuzani kuti musakwatire, ndiye kuti musakwatire.

Q6 - Sindinkafuna chisudzulo, koma mnzanga wakale anazikakamiza. Kuyanjananso sikungatheke chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe zikuchepetsa. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti sindingakwatirenso mtsogolo? Nthawi zambiri, onse awiri ndi omwe amachititsa kuti banja lithe. Komabe, munthawi imeneyi, mwamalemba amadziwika kuti ndi 'wosalakwa' mnzake. Muli aufulu kukwatiwanso, koma muyenera kuchita mosamala ndi mwaulemu nthawi ikakwana, ndikukwatirana ndi wokhulupirira mnzanu yekha. Pankhaniyi mfundo zomwe zaphunzitsidwa pa 1 Akorinto 7:15, Mateyo 5: 31-32 ndi 19: 9 zimagwiranso ntchito.
Q7 - Ndinasudzula wokondedwa wanga pazifukwa zosakhala za m'Baibulo komanso / kapena ndinakwatiranso ndisanakhale Mkristu. Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa ine? Mukakhala mkhristu, machimo anu akale amachotsedwa ndipo mumayamba kuyambiranso. Mosasamala za mbiri yanu yakwati, musanapulumutsidwe, landirani chikhululukiro cha Mulungu ndikudziyeretsa. Kuchokera pano, muyenera kuyesetsa kulemekeza Mawu a Mulungu okhudzana ndi ukwati.
2 Akorinto 5: 17-18
Chifukwa chake, ngati wina ali mwa Khristu, ndiye cholengedwa chatsopano; Zakale zapita, zatsopano zafika! Zonsezi zimachokera kwa Mulungu, amene anatiyanjanitsa kwa iye kudzera mwa Kristu ndikutipatsa utumiki wakuyanjanitsa. (NIV)
D8 - Mkazi wanga wachita chigololo (kapena mtundu wina wa chiwerewere). Malinga ndi Mateyo 5:32, ndili ndi chifukwa chosudzulana. Kodi ndiyenera kusudzulidwa chifukwa ndingathe? Njira imodzi yokuganizira funsoli ndikuganiza za njira zonse zomwe ife, ngati otsatira a Khristu, timachita chigololo cha uzimu motsutsana ndi Mulungu, kudzera muuchimo, kusiya, kupembedza mafano komanso kusakonda. Koma Mulungu satitaya. Nthawi zonse mtima wake umakhala wokhululuka ndi kuyanjananso naye tikabwerera m'mbuyo ndikulapa machimo athu. Titha kuonjezera mulingo womwewo wa chisomo kwa wokondedwa wathu akakhala osakhulupirika, koma atafika pamalo olapa. Kusakhulupirika kwa muukwati kumakhala kovuta kwambiri komanso zopweteka. Kudalira kumatenga nthawi kuti timange. Patsani Mulungu nthawi yochulukirapo yogwira ntchito muukwati wosweka ndi kugwira ntchito mu mtima wa mnzanu aliyense musanapitirize ndi chisudzulo. Kukhululuka, kuyanjanitsa komanso kubwezeretsa ukwati kumalemekeza Mulungu ndi kuchitira umboni za chisomo chake chodabwitsa.
Akolose 3: 12-14
Popeza Mulungu adakusankhani ngati anthu oyera omwe amawakonda, muyenera kuvala chifundo, kukoma mtima, kudzichepetsa, kutsekemera ndi kudekha. Muyenera kuganizira mlandu wina ndi mnzake komanso mukhululukire amene wakukhumudwitsani. Kumbukirani, Ambuye amakhululukirani, choncho muyenera kukhululuka ena. Ndipo chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe muyenera kuvala ndi chikondi. Chikondi ndi chomwe chimatigwirizanitsa tonse munchigwirizano changwiro. (NLT)

Zindikirani
Mayankho awa amangopangidwa ngati kalozera wowunika ndi kuphunzira. Sangoperekedwe ngati njira ina mmalo mwa upangiri wa m'Baibulo komanso waumulungu. Ngati mukukayikira kwambiri kapena mafunso ndipo mukukumana ndi chisudzulo kapena mukuganiza zatsopano, tikukulimbikitsani kuti mufunsire kwa abusa anu kapena aphungu anu achikristu. Kuphatikiza apo, ndikotsimikiza kuti ambiri sangagwirizane ndi malingaliro omwe afotokozedwa paphunziroli motero owerenga ayenera kudzifufuza pawokha, kufunafuna chitsogozo cha Mzimu Woyera ndikutsatira chikumbumtima chawo pankhaniyi.