Kodi Baibo imati chiyani pankhani yogonana osakwatirana

"Thawirani dama" - zomwe Baibulo limanena pa chiwerewere

Wolemba Betty Miller

Thawani dama. Tchimo lililonse lomwe munthu amachita limakhala lopanda thupi; koma iye amene achita chigololo amachimwira thupi lake. Chani? Kodi simudziwa kuti thupi lanu ndiye Kachisi wa Mzimu Woyera amene ali mwa inu, kuti muli ndi Mulungu, ndipo simuli wanu? Chifukwa mumadzigulira nokha ndi mtengo: chifukwa chake lemekezani Mulungu m'thupi lanu ndi m'mzimu wanu, zomwe ndi za Mulungu 1Akorinto 6: 18-20

Tsopano pazinthu zomwe mudandilembera: ndibwino kuti mwamuna samakhudza mkazi. Komabe, kupewa dama, mwamuna aliyense akhale ndi mkazi wake ndipo mkazi aliyense akhale ndi mwamuna wake. 1 Abakkolinso 7: 1-2

Kodi Baibo imati chiyani pankhani ya dama

Kumasulira kwa mawu oti "dama" kumatanthauza kugonana kosaloledwa kuphatikiza chigololo. M'Baibulo, tanthauzo lachigiriki la "dama" limatanthauza kuchita zachiwerewere. Kodi kugonana kosaloledwa kumatanthauza chiyani? Ndi malamulo ati omwe timatsatira? Miyezo kapena malamulo adziko lapansi nthawi zambiri sagwirizana ndi Mawu a Mulungu.Okhazikitsa maziko a United States adakhazikitsa malamulo ambiri omwe poyambilira adakhazikitsidwa pamiyezo yachikhristu ndi malamulo a m'Baibulo. Komabe, popita nthawi United States yasunthika kuchoka pamiyezo iyi ndipo miyezo yathu yamakhalidwe ikudabwitsa dziko lapansi pakadali pano. Komabe, chiwerewere sichimapezeka ku United States kokha, ndi mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi. Magulu m'mbiri yonse komanso padziko lonse lapansi adalandira miyezo yakugonana yomwe imatchedwa machimo m'Baibulo.

Zotsatira zakugonana pamiyoyo yathu

Dama silimangololedwa mdziko lathu, limalimbikitsidwa. Tchimo lachiwerewere limachitikanso pakati pa akhristu, popeza maanja ambiri "amakhala limodzi" ndikugonana asanakwatirane. Baibulo limatiuza kuti tithawe tchimo ili. Tidalangiza akhristu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzathu kuti agawane nyumba imodzi ndipo adatiuza kuti sakugonana, chifukwa sizinali zolakwika. Baibulo limanena mawu awa pa 1 Atesalonika 5: 22-23: “Pewani mawonekedwe alionse oipa. Ndipo Mulungu yemweyo wamtendere akukuyeretsani kwathunthu; ndipo ndikupemphera kwa Mulungu kuti mzimu wanu wonse, moyo wanu ndi thupi lanu zisungidwe zopanda chilema pa kudza kwake kwa Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu ”.

Miyoyo yathu monga akhristu ndi umboni wa moyo wa ena ndipo sitingathe kuphwanya malamulo a Mulungu popanda kuletsa ena kubwera kwa Yesu. Tiyenera kukhala mioyo yathu yoyera pamaso pa dziko lochimwa ndi loipa. Sitiyenera kutsatira miyezo yawo koma kutsatira miyezo ya Mulungu ya m'Baibulo. Palibe banja lomwe limayenera kukhala limodzi popanda ukwati.

Ambiri amati amakhala limodzi asanakwatirane kuti awone ngati ali oyenerera, popeza safuna kusudzulana. Zitha kuwoneka ngati chifukwa chomveka chochitira tchimo la dama, koma kwa Mulungu ndi tchimolo. Ziwerengero zikuwonetsa, komabe, kuti omwe amakhala limodzi asanakwatirane atha kusudzulana kuposa omwe satero. Kukhala pamodzi kumawonetsa kusadalira kwathunthu Mulungu ndikulephera kudzipereka posankha wokwatirana naye. Akhristu omwe akukhala munthawi imeneyi ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu ndipo akuyenera kulapa ndikufunafuna Mulungu kuti adziwe ngati munthuyu ndioyenera iwo. Ngati ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu kuti akhale pamodzi, ayenera kukwatirana. Kupanda kutero, moyo wawo uyenera kusintha.

Monga akhristu, cholinga cha ubale uliwonse ndichopanga Ambuye kukondedwa ndi kudziwika bwino m'miyoyo yathu. Kukhala pamodzi ndi kochititsa manyazi komanso kudzikonda chifukwa maphwandowo sasamala zomwe ena angaganize kapena momwe angakhudzire mabanja awo ndi ena. Amakhala kuti akondweretse zilakolako zawo zadyera. Moyo wamtunduwu ndi wowononga ndipo makamaka kwa ana omwe makolo awo amakhala chitsanzo choyipa pamaso pawo. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti ana athu amasokonezeka posiyanitsa chabwino ndi choipa makolo akamanyoza kupatulika kwa banja pokhala limodzi kunja kwa banja. Kodi kukhalira limodzi kungapangitse bwanji ana kukonda ndi kulemekeza pamene makolo awo aphwanya malamulo a Mulungu pamaso pawo chifukwa cha chiwerewere?

Masiku ano ndizofunikira kuphunzitsa achinyamata kuti azipewa kugonana ndikukhalabe namwali ngakhale asanakwatirane. Mavuto ambiri m'mabanja masiku ano amayamba chifukwa choti siamwali akakwatirana. Achinyamata amabweretsa zowawa ndi matupi odwala mu mabanja awo chifukwa cha zachiwerewere zomwe zidachitika kale. Matenda opatsirana pogonana (matenda opatsirana pogonana) afala kwambiri mwakuti kuchuluka kwa manambala kumadabwitsa. Pali milandu yatsopano 12 miliyoni yamatenda opatsirana pogonana ku United States chaka chilichonse ndipo 67% ya izi zimachitika pakati pa anthu osakwana zaka 25. M'malo mwake, chaka chilichonse mwana mmodzi mwa achinyamata asanu ndi mmodzi amakhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Pakati pa 100.000 ndi 150.000 azimayi amakhala osabala chaka chilichonse chifukwa cha matenda opatsirana pogonana¹. Ena amapirira zaka zopweteka chifukwa ena mwa matendawa ndi osachiritsika. Ndi mtengo wamatsenga bwanji kulipirira machimo ogonana.

Tchimo lachiwerewere silimangotanthauziridwa ngati kugonana kosaloledwa pakati pa omwe sanakwatirane, komanso ambulera ya machimo ena ogonana. Baibulo limanenanso za tchimo la kugonana kwa pachibale monga dama mu 1 Akorinto 5: 1: “Zimamveka kuti pali dama pakati panu, ndipo dama loterolo silinakhazikitsidwe pakati pa anthu a mitundu ina, kuti mukhale ndi abambo aakazi . "

Baibulo limatchulanso mahule ngati achiwerewere pa Chivumbulutso 21: 8 kuti: "Koma amantha, osakhulupirira ndi onyansa, ndi ambanda, achiwerewere, ndi openduza, opembedza mafano, ndi onse amabodza, adzalandira gawo lawo m'nyanja yoyaka. ndi moto ndi sulfure: ndi chiyani imfa yachiwiri. “Mahule onse ndi achinyengo ndiwo adama. Mabanja omwe "amakhala limodzi" malinga ndi baibulo, akuchita tchimo lomwelo lochitidwa ndi mahule. Ma single omwe "amapanga chikondi" amagwera m'gulu lomweli. Chifukwa choti anthu avomereza moyo wamtunduwu sizimakhala bwino. Baibulo liyenera kukhala muyezo wathu wa chabwino ndi choipa. Tiyenera kusintha miyezo yathu ngati sitikufuna kuti mkwiyo wa Mulungu utigwere. Mulungu amadana ndi tchimo koma amakonda wochimwayo. Ngati wina atembenuka mtima ndikumuitana Yesu lero, ziwathandiza kuti atuluke mu ubale wina uliwonse woipa ndikumuchiritsa mabala onse akale ngakhalenso kuchiritsa matenda aliwonse omwe adakhala nawo.

Mulungu anatipatsa malamulo a m’Baibulo kuti zinthu zitiyendere bwino. Sanapangidwe kuti atikane chilichonse chabwino, koma amapatsidwa kwa ife kuti tithe kusangalala ndi kugonana koyenera nthawi yoyenera. Ngati timvera mawu a m'Baibulo ndikuti "tithawa dama" ndikulemekeza Mulungu mthupi lathu, Ambuye adzatidalitsa kuposa zomwe tingakhulupirire.

Yehova ndi wolungama munjira zake zonse ndipo ndi woyera muntchito zake zonse. Ambuye ali pafupi ndi onse amene amamupempha, kwa onse amene amamupempha m'choonadi. Adzakwaniritsa zokhumba za iwo akumuwopa Iye; momwemonso adzamva kulira kwawo, nadzawapulumutsa. Ambuye amasunga onse amene amamukonda, koma adzawononga onse oipa. Pakamwa panga padzatamanda Ambuye, ndipo nyama zonse zidzatamanda dzina lake loyera kwamuyaya. Masalmo 145: 17-21