Kudzipereka kwa tsikuli: pemphero loletsa kusagwirizana

"Mnzanga amakonda nthawi zonse." - Miyambo 17:17

Tsoka ilo, pazisankho zandale, tawona kugwa kwa achikulire pakati pa abwenzi ndi abale omwe akuwona kuti ndizovuta, mwinanso zosatheka, kutsutsana pazandale ndikukhalabe abwenzi. Ndili ndi abale anga omwe amakhala patali chifukwa ndine Mkhristu. Inunso mumatero. Tonse tili ndi ufulu pazikhulupiriro zathu, koma siziyenera kuthetsa ubale wathu, ubale wathu, kapena ubale wathu. Mabwenzi ayenera kukhala malo otetezeka osagwirizana. Ngati muli ndi abwenzi ambiri, mudzakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana. Mutha kuphunzira kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake.

Mgulu laling'ono la maanja athu timayamba kusinthana kopitilira muyeso, koma nthawi zonse timadziwa kuti kumapeto kwa gululi tizipemphera, tidzakhala ndi keke ndi khofi limodzi ndikusiya monga abwenzi. Pambuyo pakukambirana kwamadzulo koopsa, munthu m'modzi adapemphera kuti ayamikire kuti timalemekezana mokwanira kuti titha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwathu momasuka, komabe timasungabe ubale wathu. Timakhalabe abwenzi mwa Khristu, ngakhale timasemphana zinthu zina zauzimu. Sitigwirizana chifukwa tikufuna kuti winayo avomereze kuti tikunena zowona. Nthawi zina timakhala ofunitsitsa kukhala olondola kuposa "chowonadi chathu" pothandiza munthu winayo. Mchimwene wanga anali kuyesa kugawana Yesu ndi abwenzi awiri azikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana, ndipo adasemphana. Ndidafunsa mwana wa mchimwene wanga ngati zomwe amamuchitira zinali zachifundo chifukwa cha chitetezo cha mnzake kapena kufunitsitsa kuti akhale wolondola. Akadakhala chipulumutso chawo, amayenera kulankhula mwachidwi za momwe amakondera Yesu komanso momwe amamukondera. Ngati amangofuna kunena zoona, ayenera kuti adangoganiza kwambiri za momwe chikhulupiriro chawo chinali cholakwika ndikuwachititsa misala. Anavomereza kuti zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri kuwasonyeza chikondi cha Yesu kuposa kuyesa kupambana mkangano. Anzathu ndi abale athu adziwa chikondi cha Yesu kudzera mu chikondi chomwe timawawonetsa.

Pempherani ndi ine: Ambuye, Satana akuyesera ndi mphamvu zake zonse kuti agawanitse nyumba yanu ndi anthu anu. Tikupemphera kwa Ambuye ndi mphamvu zathu zonse kuti tisalole izi kuchitika. Tikumbukire kuti nyumba yogawanika siyingatithandizire kukhala amtendere mu ubale wathu, maubwenzi ndi mabanja, osapindika kapena kusokoneza Choonadi. Ndipo Ambuye, ngati kudzakhala kuti pali ena omwe amasankha kuti asakhalenso anzathu kapena ubale wathu, yang'anani motsutsana ndi mtima wowawa ndikutikumbutsa kupempherera kufewetsa mitima yawo. M'dzina la Yesu, timapemphera. Amen.