Kodi ndizinthu zamanyazi kuponderezana ndikugwa mchikondi?

Funso lalikulu kwa achichepere achikristu ndi loti kupsinjika wina ndi chimo. Tauzidwa nthawi zambiri kuti kusilira ndiuchimo koma kuphwanya thupi kuli kofanana ndi kusilira kapena ndi chinthu china?

Kukhazikika kulimbana ndi chilako
Kutengera malingaliro anu, kusilira sikungakhale kosiyana ndi kuponderezedwa. Komabe, amatha kukhala osiyana kwambiri. Zonse ndi zomwe kupwanya kwanu kumaphatikiza.

Baibulo limafotokoza momveka bwino kuti kusilira ndi chimo. Tikudziwa machenjezo okhudzana ndi chigololo. Tikudziwa lamulo lachiwerewere. Mu Mateyo 5: 27-28, "Mudamva kuti kudanenedwa: Usachite chigololo"; koma ndikukuuza kuti onse amene amayang'ana mkazi akamusilira achita kale chigololo mumtima mwake. " timaphunzira kuti kuyang'ana munthu ndi kukhumbira ndi mtundu wa chigololo. Ndiye mukuyang'ana bwanji kufafaniza kwanu? Kodi ndichinthu chomwe mumalakalaka?

Komabe, sikuti misala yonse imakhudzana ndi kukhumbira. Zovuta zina zimayambitsa ubale. Tikakhumba, timaganizira kwambiri zosangalatsa zathu. Akuwongolera zogonana. Komabe, tikamaganiza za maubale mu njira ya Bayibulo, timawongoleredwa kumayanjano athanzi. Kufuna kudziwa wina bwino, kukhala pachibwenzi, siuchimo ngati sitilola chilolezo kuyanjana.

Pwanya ngati zododometsa
Kukonda sindiko chokhacho choopsa ndi misempha. Nthawi zambiri titha kutenga nawo gawo pazokhumudwitsa zathu mpaka kufika pomwe zimayambira. Ganizirani momwe mungafikire kuti musangalatse woponderezedwa. Kodi mukusintha kuti musangalatse kufinya? Kodi mukukaniza chikhulupiriro chanu kuti zikuyenda bwino ndi anzanu kapena anzanu? Kodi mukugwiritsa ntchito anthu kuti akwaniritse? Zikagundika zikakhala zosokoneza kapena zovulaza zimakhala zamachimo.

Mulungu akufuna ife tikondane. Adatipanga motere. Komabe, kusintha chilichonse chokhudza inu si njira yakukondera, ndipo kusintha zonse sikutanthauza kuti mukhale ngati anzanu. Tiyenera kupeza ena omwe amatikonda monga momwe ifenso tili. Tiyenera kupita ndi anthu omwe amamvetsetsa chikhulupiliro chathu ndikuchilandira, ngakhale kutithandiza kukula mchikondi chathu kwa Mulungu.Pamene maunna amatipangitsa kuchoka kumbali zofunikira za Mulungu, izi zimatipangitsa kuti tichimwe.

Tikayika Mulungu, ndiye kuti tikulakwa. Malamulowa ndiwodziwikiratu kuti timapewa kupembedza mafano ndipo mafano amabwera osiyanasiyana, ngakhale anthu. Nthawi zambiri zopusitsa zathu zimayamba kutenga malingaliro athu ndi zokhumba zathu. Timachita zambiri kuti tikondweretse kuponderezana kwathu kwa Mulungu wathu .. Zimakhala zosavuta kutengeka ndi zikhumbozi, koma Mulungu akamadula kapena kuchepetsedwa, ndiye kuti tikuphwanya malamulo ake. Iye ndiye Mulungu woyamba.

Zipongwe zomwe zimasinthana kukhala maubale
Pali nthawi zina pomwe kukangana kumatha kuyambitsa zibwenzi. Mwachidziwikire timapita ndi anthu omwe timawakonda ndipo timafuna. Pomwe china chake chabwino chingayambe ndikuphwanya, tiyenera kutsimikizira kupewa misampha yonse yomwe imatipangitsa kuti tichimwe. Ngakhale mikangano yathu ikatha mu maubale, tiyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti maubalewo amakhalabe athanzi.

Kukhumudwitsidwa kukasinthana kukhala chibwenzi, nthawi zambiri pamakhala mantha ena omwe angamusiye. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti tili pachiyanjano kuposa kuponderezana, kapena timakhala osangalala kwambiri kuti wopondayo amatidetsa nkhawa, ndiye kuti timadzipewa tokha ndi Mulungu. Mantha si maziko a ubale uliwonse. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti Mulungu amakhala ndi ife nthawi zonse ndipo Mulungu amatikonda nthawi zonse. Chikondi chimenecho chikukula. Muzifuna ubale wabwino ndi ife.