Kodi ndi tchimo lachivundi pomwe sindithandiza anthu opanda nyumba omwe ndimawaona mumsewu?

Kodi kusayanjana ndi osauka omwe ndi ochimwa?

ANTHU AMAVUTA KWAMBIRI: Kodi ndimachimo ochimwa pamene sindithandiza anthu opanda nyumba omwe ndimawawona mumsewu?



Q. Kodi ndi tchimo lachivundi pomwe sindithandiza anthu opanda nyumba omwe ndimawaona mumsewu? Ndimagwira ntchito mumzinda womwe ndimawona anthu ambiri osowa pokhala. Posachedwa ndidakumana ndi munthu wopanda nyumba yemwe ndidamuwona kangapo ndipo ndidakhala ndi chidwi chomugulira chakudya. Ndinaganiza zochita, koma pamapeto sindinatero ndipo ndidaganiza zopita kwawo. Kodi chinali tchimo lachivundi? —Gabriel, Sydney, Australia

A. Mpingo wa Katolika umaphunzitsa kuti zinthu zitatu ndizofunikira kuti tchimo likhale lakufa.

Choyamba, chinthu chomwe tikuganizira chiyenera kukhala chosavomerezeka (chotchedwa nkhani yayikulu). Kachiwiri, tiyenera kudziwa kuti ndikosavomerezeka (kutchedwa kudziwa kwathunthu). Ndipo chachitatu, tiyenera kukhala aufulu tikamasankha, ndiye kuti, tisamasankhe kuchita koma osachitabe (kutchedwa kuvomereza kwathunthu). (Onani Katekisima wa Mpingo wa Katolika 1857).

Mu mzinda ngati Sydney (kapena mzinda wina uliwonse ku United States kapena ku Europe), anthu osowa pokhala ali ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana zothandizira anthu kuti azitha kuwathandiza. Amuna ndi akazi omwe timawaona m'makona amisewu yathu samadalira phindu lathu limodzi kuti athe kupeza ndalama. Akadatero, udindo wathu pakukhala bwino ukadakhala wokulirapo. Zili choncho, kusankha kosadyetsa munthu wosauka sikungakwaniritse zovuta zauchimo.

Ndikunena kusankha, chifukwa zikuwoneka kuti ndi zomwe zafotokozedwa pamwambapa, osati kuyang'anira. (Gabriel akuti "adaganiza" kubwerera kwawo.)

Tsopano zosankha zitha kusunthidwa ndi zinthu zambiri. Mutha kukhala ndi mantha chifukwa cha chitetezo chanu kapena kusakhala ndi ndalama m'thumba lanu kapena kuchedwa kukagonekedwa ndi dokotala. Kapenanso mukaona osowa pokhala, mungakumbukire ukonde wachitetezo cha mdera lanu ndikuganiza kuti thandizo lanu silofunikira. Muzochitika izi, payenera kuti palibe tchimo.

Koma nthawi zina sitichita kalikonse, osati chifukwa cha mantha, kuchokera pakusowa kwa ndalama, kuchokera povutikira, ndi zina zotere, koma chifukwa cha kupanda chidwi.

Ndikugwiritsa ntchito "kusasamala" pano ndikutanthauza chosaganizira chosayenera. Chifukwa chake sindikutanthauza, monga momwe wina anganene, kwa iwo omwe, atafunsidwa ngati amakonda mtundu wa bulawuti, "sindili nawo chidwi", poganiza kuti alibe malingaliro.

Pano ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu osonyeza kukayikira kunena kuti "musakhale ndi chidwi" kapena "musadere nkhawa" kapena "musawunikire" china chake chofunikira.

Kusaganizira kotereku, ndikuganiza, nthawi zonse kumakhala kulakwa pang'ono - ndikulakwitsa pang'ono ndikakhala kuti sindimayanja zovuta zazing'ono, ndikulakwitsa kwambiri ngati sindimvera nawo chidwi zinthu zazikulu.

Kukhala bwino kwa osauka nthawi zonse kumakhala nkhani yayikulu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake malembo opatulika amaumiriza kuti kusayang'anira anthu osauka ndikulakwitsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, lingalirani za fanizo la Lazaro ndi munthu wachuma (Luka 16: 19-31). Tikudziwa kuti wachuma uja akuwona munthu wosowa pakhomo pake, chifukwa akudziwa dzina lake; kuchokera ku Hade amapempha Abrahamu kuti "atumize Lazaro" kuti aviike chala chake m'madzi ozizira kuti atonthoze lilime.

Vuto ndilakuti alibe chidwi ndi Lazaro, samvera chilichonse wopemphayo ndipo samachita chilichonse kuti amuthandize. Chifukwa chakulangidwa ndi munthu wachuma uja, tiyenera kuganiza kuti sanayesetse kudzutsa chisoni, kuti asinthe - monga momwe anthu abwino amachitira - kuthana ndi chofooka chake chamakhalidwe.

Kodi kupanda chidwi kwa munthu wachuma ndi wochimwali? Malemba akuganiza chomwecho. Nkhani yabwino imati akamwalira, amapita ku "Hade" komwe "amazunzidwa".

Munthu akhoza kutsutsa kuti zinthu zakale ku Palestina ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi lero; kuti kunalibe malo azaumoyo, makhitchini a msuzi, pobisalira anthu osowa pokhala komanso thandizo loyamba pomwe osauka amalandila chithandizo chamankhwala; ndipo palibe amene ali ngati Lazaro pakhomo lathu!

Ndikuvomereza kwambiri: mwina palibe Lazaro atagona pakhomo lathu lakutsogolo.

Koma dziko lonse lero laphimbidwa m'malo ngati Palestina wakale - malo omwe osauka amayenera kuti azisonkhanitsa mkate wawo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo masiku ena alibe mkate, ndipo pothawirapo pafupi kwambiri kapena mzere wamasangweti ndi ku kontinenti Kutali. Monga munthu wachuma uja, tikudziwa kuti aliko, chifukwa timawaona tsiku lililonse, pa nkhani. Timavutika. Tikudziwa kuti titha kuthandiza, osachepera pang'ono.

Chifukwa chake anthu onse amakumana ndi njira zina zoyenera kuchita: samvera makutu ku kusamva komwe timamva ndikuyenda mtsogolo ndi moyo wathu, kapena kuchita zina.

Kodi tiyenera kuchita chiyani? Maalembo, Chikhalidwe ndi Katolika pa Katolika kakusintha pamenepa: tiyenera kuchita zonse zomwe tingathe kuthandiza omwe akufunika, makamaka iwo amene ali ndi vuto lalikulu.

Kwa ena a ife, $ 10 mu basiketi yosonkhetsa sabata ndi zomwe titha kuchita. Kwa ena, $ 10 m'basiketi imaphimba anthu osalakwa.

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