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Siyani chisamaliro cha zinthu zanu kwa ine ndipo zonse zikhala bata. Ndikukuuzani chowonadi kuti kuchita chilichonse mwanjira zoona, zolemera komanso zosiyidwa mwa ine zimabweretsa zomwe mumafuna ndikutsimikiza mikhalidwe. Kupereka kwa ine sizitanthauza kulimbana, kukhumudwa komanso kutaya mtima, kenako ndikutembenuzira mtima wokhumudwitsidwa kuti ndikutsatirani, ndikusintha kusinthaku kukhala pemphero. Kudzi kusiya kumatanthawuza kuti titseke pang'ono m'maso, kusinthanitsa malingaliro osautsa ndikudziyika ndekha kuti ine nditha kugwira ntchito, ndikuti: "usamalire". Kusiyidwa: kuda nkhawa, kukhumudwa komanso kufuna kuganizira zotsatira za chinthu.
Zili ngati chisokonezo chomwe ana amabweretsa, omwe amayembekezera amayi awo kuti azilingalira zosowa zawo ndipo akufuna kuganiza za iwo, akumulepheretsa kugwira ntchito ndi malingaliro awo ndi zoyipa zawo zopanda pake.
Tsekani maso anu ndikulola kuti anyamulidwe ndi chisomo changa, tsekani maso anu ndikulole kuti ndigwire ntchito, tsekani maso anu ndikuganiza zakanthawi, ndikupatutsa lingaliro lakutsogolo ngati kuyesedwa. Pumulani mwa ine ndikukhulupirira zabwino zanga ndipo ndikulumbirani mwa chikondi changa kuti, mundiuza, ndi malingaliro awa "mumasamalira", ndimaganizira za izi mokwanira, ndimakutonthozani, ndimakumasulani, ndikukutsogolerani. Ndipo ndikafunika kukutengani munjira yosiyana ndi yomwe mukufuna, ndimakuphunzitsani, ndikunyamula m'manja mwanga, ndimakupeza, ngati ana atagona m'manja a amayi, pagombe lina.
Zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani komanso kukukhumudwitsani kwambiri ndi lingaliro lanu, kufunsa kwanu ndi kufuna kwanu kuti mulipire zomwe zingakuvuteni.
Pali zinthu zambiri ziti zomwe ndimagwira pomwe mzimu, pa zosowa zake zauzimu ndi zofunika zake zakuthupi, ndikatembenukira kwa ine ndikunena kuti "samalirani", titseka maso ndikupumula!
Muli ndi zisangalalo zochepa mukamadzapanga kuti muzipange, muli ndi zochulukirapo mukamapemphera.
Mumapemphera ndi zowawa osati chifukwa ndimagwira ntchito, koma chifukwa ndimagwira monga mumakhulupirira ... Simukutembenukira kwa ine, koma mukufuna kuti ndikhale ndi malingaliro anu, simudwala omwe mumafunsa adotolo chithandizo, koma mukulangizeni.
Osachita izi, koma pempherani monga ndinakuphunzitsirani mu Pater: "dzina lanu liyeretsedwe", ndiye kuti, lilemekezedwe pa chosowa changa ichi, "Ufumu wanu udze", ndiye kuti, chilichonse chimathandizira ufumu wanu mwa ife ndi padziko lapansi, "be Kufuna kwanu kuchitidwe pansi pano monga kumwamba ”, ndiye kuti, dziikani nokha pazosowa izi momwe mungafunire pamoyo wathu wamuyaya komanso wosakhalitsa.
Ngati mumandiuza kuti "Kufuna kwanu kuchitidwe", zomwe zili zofanana ndi kunena kuti: "uzisamalira", ndimalowerera ndimalingaliro anga onse ndikuthana ndi zovuta zina zotsekedwa.
Kodi mukuzindikira kuti matendawa amalimbikira m'malo mowola? Musakhumudwe, tsekani maso anu ndikundiuza molimba mtima kuti: "Kufuna kwanu kuchitidwe!". Ndikukuuzani kuti ndikuganiza za izi ndikuti ndilowererapo monga dokotala komanso ndimachita chozizwitsa pakafunika. Kodi mukuwona kuti zinthu zikuipiraipira? Osakwiya, kutseka maso anu ndikubwereza: "samalani!". Ndikukuuzani kuti ndikuganiza za izi ndipo kuti palibe mankhwala omwe ndi amphamvu kuposa momwe ndimakondera chikondi changa. Ndimangoganiza za izi mukatseka maso anu
Simumagona, mukufuna kuyesa chilichonse, kupenda chilichonse, kuganiza za chilichonse ndipo mwakutero mumadzipatulira kwa magulu ankhondo a anthu kapena koipitsitsa kwa abambo, podalira momwe angachitire. Izi ndi zomwe zimalowa munjira yamawu ndi malingaliro anga. Ha, ndikulakalaka bwanji kuti kusiyidwa kwa inukukuthandizireni komanso momwe ndikumvera chisoni kukuonani mukusokonekera!
Satana amapangira izi: kuti akupunthwitseni kuti muthawe chochita changa ndikuponyereni zochita zaanthu: chifukwa chake khulupirirani kwa ine ndekha, khazikani mwa ine, mudzisiyire kwina konse. Ndimagwira zozizwitsa molingana ndi kusiyidwa kwathunthu mwa ine ndipo sindinakuganizireni. Ndikuwaza chuma chamtengo wapatali mukadzasauka kwathunthu. Ngati muli ndi zomwe muli nazo, ngakhale pang'ono, kapena ngati mukuzifuna, muli m'chilengedwe motero tsatirani njira zachilengedwe zomwe nthawi zambiri zimalepheretsa satana. Palibe wolingalira amene wachita zozizwitsa, ngakhale pakati pa oyera. Aliyense amene akudzipatula yekha mwa Mulungu amagwiritsa ntchito Mulungu.
Mukawona kuti zinthu zikuvuta, nenani ndi maso anu otsekeka: "Yesu, chisamalire!". Chitani izi pazosowa zanu zonse. Chitani izi aliyense ndipo mudzawona zozizwitsa zazikulu, zosalekeza komanso zopanda chete. Ndikulumbirirani chikondi changa!
(Priest Dolindo Ruotolo)