Kodi Ayuda Angakondwerera Khrisimasi?

Mwamuna wanga ndi ine taganizapo zambiri za Khrisimasi ndi Hanukkah chaka chino ndipo titha kukhala ndi malingaliro anu panjira yabwino yofikira Khrisimasi monga banja lachiyuda lomwe limakhala mgulu la akhristu.

Mwamuna wanga amachokera ku banja lachikhristu ndipo nthawi zonse timapita kunyumba kwa makolo ake kukakondwerera Khrisimasi. Ndimachokera ku banja lachiyuda, choncho timakonda kumakondwerera Hanukkah kunyumba. M'mbuyomu sizinkandivutitsa kuti ana amakhudzidwa ndi Khrisimasi chifukwa anali aang'ono kwambiri kuti asamvetse chithunzi chachikulu - makamaka zinali zokomera banja lawo ndikukondwerera tchuthi china. Tsopano wamkulu wanga ali ndi zaka 5 ndipo akuyamba kufunsa Santa Claus (Santa Claus amabweretsanso mphatso za Hanukkah? Yesu ndi ndani?) Wotsiriza wathu ali ndi zaka 3 ndipo sanakhalepo kwathunthu, koma timadzifunsa ngati chingakhale chanzeru kupitiliza kukondwerera Khrisimasi.

Takhala tikulongosola izi ngati zomwe agogo ndi agogo amachita ndipo tili okondwa kuwathandiza kukondwerera, koma kuti ndife banja lachiyuda. Maganizo anu ndi otani? Kodi banja lachiyuda liyenera kuchita bwanji ndi Khrisimasi, makamaka Khrisimasi ikakhala chotere nthawi ya tchuthi? (Osati kwambiri za Hanukkah.) Sindikufuna kuti ana anga azimve ngati atayika. Komanso, Khrisimasi nthawi zonse yakhala gawo lofunika pa zikondwerero za Khrisimasi za mwamuna wanga ndipo ndikuganiza kuti angamve chisoni ngati ana ake sanakule ndi kukumbukira Khrisimasi.

Yankho la rabbi
Ndinakulira pafupi ndi Akatolika Achijeremani mdera losakanizikana la New York City. Ndili mwana, ndinathandiza azakhali anga a "mayi" Edith ndi amalume awo a Willie kuti azikongoletsa mtengo wawo pa Khrisimasi Khrisimasi masanawa ndipo amayembekezeka kukachezera Khrisimasi m'mawa kunyumba kwawo. Mphatso yawo ya Khrisimasi nthawi zonse inali yofanana kwa ine: kulembetsa chaka chimodzi ku National Geographic. Abambo anga atakwatiranso (ndinali ndi zaka 15), ndinakhala Khrisimasi ndi banja la mayi anga ondipeza ku mizinda ina.

Pa Khrisimasi Khrisimasi, Amalume Eddie, omwe anali ndi bulu wake wokhala ndi chilengedwe komanso ndevu zophimbidwa ndi chipale chofewa, anali kusewera Santa Claus kuchitira saluti pampando pamwamba pa Hook-ndi-Ladder m'tauni mwawo akamayenda m'misewu ya Centerport NY. Ndinkadziwa, kumukonda ndipo ndinamusowa kwenikweni Santa Claus uyu.

Apongozi anu sakupemphani kuti inu ndi banja lanu mupite nawo ku tchalitchi cha Khrisimasi ndipo sanamiza zikhulupiriro zachikhristu chokhudza ana anu. Zikuwoneka kuti makolo a amuna anu amangofuna kugawana chikondi ndi chisangalalo chomwe amakhala nacho mabanja awo akakhala pamodzi kunyumba yawo pa Khrisimasi. Ichi ndi chinthu chabwino komanso dalitsidwe lalikulu loyenera kukumbatiridwa mosayenerana! Moyo sudzakupatsani nthawi yabwino ndi yophunzitsika imeneyi ndi ana anu.

Monga ayenera kuchita komanso monga momwe amachitira nthawi zonse, ana anu amafunsa mafunso ambiri okhudza Khrisimasi monga agogo ndi agogo anu. Mutha kuyesa china chonga ichi:

"Ndife Ayuda, agogo ndi agogo athu ndife Akhristu. Timakonda kupita kunyumba kwawo ndipo timakonda kugawana nawo Khrisimasi monga momwe amakondera kubwera kunyumba kwathu kudzagawana Isitala. Zipembedzo ndi zikhalidwe ndizosiyana. Tikakhala kunyumba kwawo, timakonda komanso kulemekeza zomwe amachita chifukwa timawakonda komanso timawalemekeza. Amachitanso chimodzimodzi akakhala kunyumba kwathu. "

Mukafunsidwa ngati mumakhulupirira Santa kapena ayi, afotokozereni zoona zenizeni zomwe angamvetsetse. Sungani zosavuta, zowongoka komanso zowona. Yankho langa ndi ili:

Ndikhulupirira kuti mphatsozo zimachokera mchikondi chomwe tili nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake. Nthawi zina zinthu zokongola zimatigwera mwanjira yomwe timamvetsetsa, nthawi zina zinthu zokongola zimachitika ndipo ndimachinsinsi. Ndimakonda chinsinsi ndipo nthawi zonse ndimati "Zikomo Mulungu!" Ndipo ayi, ine sindimakhulupirira Santa Claus, koma Akhristu ambiri amakhulupirira. Agogo ndi agogo ndi Akhristu. Amalemekeza zomwe ndimakhulupirira komanso amalemekeza zomwe amakhulupirira. Sindimangopita ndikumawauza kuti sindikugwirizana nawo. Ndimawakonda kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimagonjera.

M'malo mwake, ndimapeza njira zogawana miyambo yathu kuti tizitha kusamalirana wina ndi mnzake ngakhale timakhulupirira zinthu zosiyanasiyana. "

Mwachidule, apongozi anu amagawana chikondi chawo kwa inu ndi banja lanu kudzera pa Khrisimasi m'nyumba mwawo. Kuzindikira kwachiyuda kwa banja lanu ndi ntchito yamomwe mumakhalira masiku 364 otsala pachaka. Khrisimasi ndi apongozi anu ali ndi mwayi wophunzitsa ana anu kuyamika kwambiri dziko lathu la zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana komanso njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe anthu amatsogolera kuphunziroli.

Mutha kuphunzitsa ana anu koposa kulekerera. Mutha kuwaphunzitsa kuvomereza.

About Rabbi Marc Disick
Rabbi Marc L. Disick DD adamaliza maphunziro awo ku SUNY-Albany mu 1980 ali ndi digiri ku Jewish, Rhetoric and Communication. Anakhala ku Israel chaka chake chaching'ono, amaphunzira ku UAHC College Year Academy ku Kibbutz Ma'aleh HaChamisha komanso chaka chake choyamba cha maphunziro achipembedzo ku Hebrew Union College ku Jerusalem. M'maphunziro ake a arabi, Disick anagwira ntchito zaka ziwiri monga wophunzitsa pa yunivesite ya Prosteton ndipo anamaliza maphunziro a Masters ku Jewish Education ku New York University asanapite ku Hebrew Union College ku New York komwe adadzozedwera ku 1986.