Njira zomwe muyenera kuchita pakuulula kwanu bwino
Monga momwe Mgonero wa tsiku ndi tsiku uyenera kukhala wabwino kwa Akatolika, Kulandila Sacramenti la Confidence ndikofunikira pakulimbana kwathu ndiuchimo komanso kukula kwathu m'chiyero.
Kwa Akatolika ambiri, komabe, Kuulula ndi chinthu chomwe timachita kochepera momwe tingathere ndipo, sakramenti ikatha, sitingathe kumva ngati momwe timvera tikalandila Sacramenti la Mgonero Woyera. Izi siziri chifukwa cha chilema mu sakalamenti, koma chifukwa cha chilema mu njira yathu yakuulula. Kuyandikira molondola, ndikukonzekera koyamba, titha kukhala okonzeka kutenga Sacramenti la Confidence momwe tiyenera kulandira Ukaristia.
Nawo mavesi asanu ndi awiri omwe angakuthandizeni kupanga chivomerezo chabwino komanso kuvomereza mokwanira bwino za sakalamenti.
1. Pitani ku kuulula kawiri kawiri
Ngati zokumana nazo zowonekera zakhumudwitsa kapena zosakhutiritsa, izi zingaoneke ngati upangiri wachilendo. Zili ngati zosiyana ndi nthabwala yakale ija:
"Adokotala, zimandipweteka ndikafika pano. Kodi nditani?"
"Lekani kuyalutsa."
Komabe, monga tonse tamva, "machitidwe amapanga zabwino" ndipo simupanga kuvomereza kwabwinoko pokhapokha mutapita kuulula. Zifukwa zomwe nthawi zambiri timapewa kuvomereza ndizo zifukwa zomwe tiyenera kupita pafupipafupi:
Sindikukumbukira machimo anga onse;
Ndimakhala ndi mantha ndikalowa chiphokoso;
Ndili ndi mantha kuti ndidzaiwala kena kake;
Sindikudziwa choti ndikuyenera kapena kuvomereza.
Tchalitchi chimafuna kuti tizivomereza kamodzi pachaka, pokonzekera ntchito yathu ya Isitala; ndipo, zoona, tiyenera kupita kuulula tisanalandire mgonero nthawi iliyonse tikazindikira kuti tachita tchimo lalikulu kapena lakufa.
Koma ngati tikufuna kuona Confidence ngati chida cha kukula kwa uzimu, tiyenera kusiya kuyimilira mwanjira yoyipa - chinthu chomwe timachita podziyeretsa tokha. Kuulula kwa mwezi ndi mwezi, ngakhale tizingodziwa za machimo ang'onoang'ono kapena am'kati, kungakhale gwero labwino komanso kungatithandize kuyesetsa kwathu pantchito zosiyidwa zauzimu.
Ndipo ngati tikuyesayesa kuthana ndi mantha a kuulula kapena kulimbana ndi chimo (lachivundi kapena lamwano), kupita kukalapa mlungu uliwonse kwakanthawi kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri. M'malo mwake, munthawi yamakedzedwe a Lent and Advent of the Church, pamene ma parishi nthawi zambiri amapereka nthawi yowonjezera yowulula, kuulula kwa sabata iliyonse kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri pakukonzekera kwathu kwa Isitala ndi Khrisimasi.
2. Tengani nthawi yanu
Nthawi zambiri ndimapita ku Sacrament of Confession ndikukonzekera konse komwe ndikadatha kuchita ndikadalamula chakudya mwachangu kuchokera pa drive-drive. M'malo mwake, popeza ndimasokonezeka komanso ndimakhumudwitsidwa ndimam'malo odyera ambiri othamanga, nthawi zambiri ndimaonetsetsa kuti ndikudziwa bwino zomwe ndikufuna kuchita.
Koma kuvomereza? Ndinkanjenjemera poganiza kuchuluka kwa nthawi zomwe ndinathamangira kutchalitchi mphindi zochepa nthawi yakuulula isanathe, ndinapemphera mwachangu kwa Mzimu Woyera kuti andithandizire kukumbukira machimo anga onse, ndipo kenako ndinalowa mu tchalitchi ngakhale kale kumvetsetsa kuti zidatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji chiyambireni kuulula kwanga kotsiriza.
Uku ndi njira yakusiyira uvomerezo kenako kukumbukira kukumbukira zochimwa, kapena kuyiwalanso zomwe wansembe adakuwuzani, chifukwa mudalunjika pa kumaliza Confidence osati pazomwe mudali kuchita.
Ngati mukufuna kupanga chivomerezo chabwinoko, pezani nthawi kuti muchite bwino. Yambani kukonzekera kwanu (tidzakambirana za pansipa) kenako ndikafika molawirira kuti musathamangitsidwe. Patulani kanthawi pemphelo pamaso pa Sacramenti Lodala musanatembenukire ku zomwe muti munene mu Confession.
Tengani nthawi yanu ngakhale kamodzi mutalowa chisankho. Palibenso chifukwa chofulumira; mukamadikirira mzere wakuulula, zitha kuwoneka kuti anthu patsogolo panu amatenga nthawi yayitali, koma nthawi zambiri samakhala, ndipo inunso simunatero. Ngati mungayesere kufulumira, mungaiwale zomwe mumanena, chifukwa chake mudzakhala osasangalala mukamakumbukira.
Kuulula kwanu kukatha, musathamangire kutuluka mu mpingo. Ngati wansembe anakupemphererani kuti muchotsere mtima wanu, nenani pamenepo, pamaso pa Sacramenti Lodala. Ngati atakufunsani kuti muganize za zomwe mwachita kapena kusinkhasinkha za malembedwe ena a malemba, muchite motero. Sikuti mungangomaliza kulipira, gawo lofunika kuti mulandire sakramenti, komanso mukuwonetsetsa kuti kulumikizana kukugwirizana pakati pa zomwe mudalongosoleza, kuvomerezedwa ndi wansembe, ndi kulapa komwe mudachita. .
3. Dziwani bwino chikumbumtima
Monga ndanenera pamwambapa, kukonzekera kwanu kuulula kuwulula kuyenera kuyamba kunyumba. Muyenera kukumbukira (pafupifupi pafupifupi) pomwe inali Confidence yanu yomaliza, komanso machimo omwe mwachita kuyambira pamenepo.
Kwa ambiri a ife, kukumbukira machimo mwina kumawoneka ngati awa: "Chabwino, ndidavomereza chiyani komaliza ndipo ndachita kangati izi kuchokera pachivomerezo changa chomaliza?"
Palibe cholakwika ndi izo, mpaka momwe zimakhalira. Inde, ndi poyambira abwino kwambiri. Koma ngati tikufuna kulandira mokwanira Sacramenti la Confidence, ndiye kuti tiyenera kuchoka pazikhalidwe zakale ndikuyang'ana m'miyoyo yathu mopepuka. Ndipo apa ndipamene pamayesedwa mozama za kuzindikira.
Katekisimu wodziwika bwino wa ku Baltimore, mmaphunziro ake pa Sacrament of Penance, amapereka chitsogozo chabwino komanso chachifupi chakuunikira chikumbumtima. Poganizira za zotsatirazi, ganizirani momwe mwachita zomwe simukadayenera kuchita kapena simunachite zomwe muyenera kuchita:
Malamulo Khumi
Malangizo a mpingo
Machimo asanu ndi awiri oyipawo
Ntchito za dziko lanu m'moyo
Zitatu zoyambirira ndizongodzifotokozera; chomaliza chimafunika kuganizira za zomwe zimakusiyanitsani ndi ena onse. Mwachitsanzo, ine, ndili ndi ntchito zina zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chokhala mwana wamwamuna, bambo, abambo, mkonzi wa magazini komanso wolemba zochitika za Katolika. Kodi ndimachita bwino ntchitozi? Kodi pali zinthu zomwe ndikadayenera kuchitira makolo anga, mkazi kapena ana zomwe sindinachite? Kodi pali zinthu zomwe sindimayenera kuchita kwa iwo zomwe ndidachita? Kodi ndakhala wakhama pantchito yanga komanso moona mtima mu maubale ndi abwana anga akulu ndi anzeru? Kodi ndawachitira anthu omwe ndidakumana nawo ulemu komanso kuwathandiza chifukwa cha moyo wanga?
Kupenda mozama chikumbumtima titha kuzindikira zizolowezi zomwe zakhala zolimba kwambiri mwakuti sititha kuzizindikira kapena kuziganizira. Mwina timayika nkhawa zosafunikira kwa okwatirana athu kapena ana athu kapena kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yopumira khofi kapena nthawi ya nkhomaliro kukambirana ndi anzathu za abwana athu. Mwinanso sitiyitanira makolo athu pafupipafupi monga tikuyenera, kapena kulimbikitsa ana athu kuti azipemphera. Zinthu izi zimachokera munthawi yathu m'moyo ndipo, ngakhale ndizofala kwa anthu ambiri, njira yokhayo yomwe tingadziwire mu moyo wathu ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi kuganizira za momwe zinthu ziliri.
4. Osangopewa
Zifukwa zonse zomwe ndatchulazi chifukwa chomwe timapewa kupita kukalapa zimachokera ku mtundu wamantha. Ngakhale kupita pafupipafupi kungatithandizire kuthana ndi mantha amenewo, mantha ena akhoza kukulitsa mitu yoyipa pomwe tili muvomerezo.
Choyipa chachikulu, chifukwa chingapangitse ife kuulula kwathunthu, ndikuwopa zomwe wansembe angaganize tikamaulula machimo athu. Uku, komabe, ndiye kuwopa kopanda tanthauzo komwe tingakhale nako chifukwa, pokhapokha ngati wansembe amene amvera kuulula kwathu kuli kwatsopano, pali mwayi wabwino kuti tchimo lirilonse lomwe titha kutchulapo ndi lomwe lamva ambiri. nthawi zambiri m'mbuyomu. Ndipo ngakhale sanamumvere iye muvomerezo, adakonzekera maphunziro ake a seminare kuti athane ndi chilichonse chomwe mungamuponyere.
Chitani zomwezo; yesani kumugwedeza. Sizochitika. Ndipo ichi ndichinthu chabwino chifukwa kuti chivomerezo chanu chikhale chokwanira komanso kupezeka kwanu kuti kuvomerezeke, muyenera kuvomereza machimo onse ofayidwa ndi zolemba (zomwe mudachita) ndi chiwerengero (mudachita kangati). Muyenera kuchitanso izi ndi machimo amwano, koma ngati mungayiwale cholakwa chamkati kapena zitatu, mudzakhala osamasulidwa kumapeto kwa chivomerezo.
Koma ngati simungapewe kuvomereza tchimo lalikulu, mukungodzipweteka. Mulungu akudziwa zomwe mwachita ndipo wansembe safuna china chokha kupatula kusamalira kusamvana pakati pa inu ndi Mulungu.
5. Pitani kwa wansembe wanu
Ndikudziwa; Ndikudziwa: nthawi zonse mupite ku parishi ina ndikusankha wansembe woyendera ngati alipo. Kwa ambiri aife, palibe china chowopsa kuposa lingaliro lakumapita ku Confidence ndi wansembe wathu yemwe. Zachidziwikire, nthawi zonse timavomereza zachinsinsi m'malo moonana pamaso ndi pamaso; koma ngati tingazindikire mawu a abambo, ayeneranso kuzindikira athu, sichoncho?
Sindingakupusitseni; pokhapokha mutakhala m'chipembedzo chachikulu kwambiri ndipo simumalumikizana ndi abusa anu, atero. Koma kumbukirani zomwe ndidalemba pamwambapa: Palibe chomwe munganene chomwe chingamukhumudwitse. Ndipo ngakhale ili silikhala vuto lanu, silingakuganizireni zoipa chifukwa cha zonse zomwe mumanena mu Confession.
Ganizirani izi: mmalo mokhala kutali ndi sakaramenti, munabwera kwa iye ndikulapa machimo anu. Munapempha Mulungu kuti akukhululukireni ndipo m'busa wanu, amene amachita za Khristu, anakukhululukirani machimo amenewo. Koma kodi tsopano muli ndi nkhawa kuti mukana zomwe Mulungu wakupatsani? Ngati ndi choncho, wansembe wanu angakhale ndi mavuto akulu kuposa inu.
M'malo mopewa wansembe wanu, gwiritsani ntchito Confidence naye kuti akupindulitseni mwauzimu. Ngati mukuchita manyazi kuulula machimo ake kwa iye, mudzakhala mukuwonjezera chidwi kuti mupewe machimo amenewo. Ngakhale kumapeto tikufuna kufikira pomwe tipewa tchalitchi chifukwa timakonda Mulungu, manyazi pa chimo akhoza kukhala chiyambi cha chitsimikizo choona komanso kutsimikiza mtima kusintha moyo wanu, pomwe kuulula kosadziwika m'parishi lotsatira, ngakhale kuli kwakuti Zovomerezeka komanso zothandiza, zitha kupangitsa kuti zibwerere muchimodzimodzi.
6. Funsani upangiri
Ngati gawo la chifukwa chomwe mukuganiza kuti Kuulula sikukhumudwitsa kapena kusakhutira ndikuti mumapezeka kuti muulula machimo omwewo mobwerezabwereza, osazengereza kufunsa upangiri kwa omwe akuulula. Nthawi zina, amapereka popanda kukufunsani, makamaka ngati machimo omwe mwaulula nthawi zambiri amakhala achikhalidwe.
Koma ngati satero, palibe cholakwika kunena kuti, "Atate, ndalimbana ndi [tchimo lanu]. Ndingatani kuti ndipewe? "
Ndipo akayankha, mverani mosamala osataya uphungu wake. Mutha kuganiza, mwachitsanzo, kuti moyo wanu wopemphera uyenda bwino, kotero kuti ngati wokhulupirira wanu atakupatsani nthawi yochulukirapo popemphera, mutha kuona uphungu wake kukhala wofunika koma wopanda ntchito.
Musaganize motero. Chilichonse chomwe anganene, chitani. Kuchita komwe poyesera kutsatira upangiri wa chivomerezo chanu kukhoza kukhala mgwirizano ndi chisomo. Mungadabwe ndi zotsatira zake.
7. Sinthani moyo wanu
Mitundu iwiri yodziwika kwambiri ya Convention Act imamaliza ndi mizere iyi:
Ndasankha mwamphamvu, mothandizidwa ndi chisomo chanu, kuvomereza machimo anga, kulapa ndikusintha moyo wanga.
E:
Ndasankha mwamphamvu, mothandizidwa ndi chisomo Chanu, kuti musachimwenso komanso kuti musamachimwenso muchimo.
Kubwereza chochitika chokhala ngati chisankho ndi chinthu chomaliza chomwe timachita mutavomerezedwa musanalandire wansembe. Komabe mawu omalizirawa nthawi zambiri amachoka m'maganizo mwathu tikangobwerera pakhomo lowulula.
Koma gawo lofunikira pakubvomereza ndi kukhululuka moona mtima, ndipo izi siziphatikizapo chisoni chokha chifukwa cha machimo omwe tidachita m'mbuyomu, komanso chisankho chakuchita zonse zotheka kupewa kuchita machimo enawa ndi ena mtsogolo. Tikatenga sakaramenti yakuulula ngati mankhwala osavuta - kuchiritsa zowonongeka zomwe tachita - osati monga gwero la chisomo ndi mphamvu kutipitiliza kuyenda munjira yoyenera, timakhala ndi mwayi wodzivomera, kubwereza machimo omwewo.
Kuvomereza kwabwino sikutha pomwe tisiya kuvomereza; Mwanjira ina, gawo latsopano la Confession limayamba. Kuzindikira chisomo chomwe talandira m'sakramenti ndikuchita zonse zomwe tingathe kuchita ndi chisomo popewa osati machimo omwe tavomereza, koma machimo onse, komanso maphwando amachimo, ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yowonetsetsa kuti ndapeza adalapa kwabwino.
Malingaliro omaliza
Ngakhale kuti malembawa onse angakuthandizeni kuulula bwino, musalole kuti ina iliyonse ikhale chifukwa chosagwiritsa ntchito sakaramenti. Ngati mukudziwa kuti muyenera kupita ku Confidence koma mulibe nthawi yoti mukonzekere momwe mungayeneretsere kapena kukayezanso bwino za chikumbumtima, kapena ngati wansembe wanu sakupezeka ndipo muyenera kupita ku Parishi ina, musadikire. Fikani kuulula ndikusankha kuyambiranso kuvomera.
Ngakhale Sacrament of Confession, yomveredwa bwino, samangochiritsa zowonongeka zakale, nthawi zina timayenera kuyimitsa bala tisanapitirire. Musalole kuti chidwi chanu chofuna kubvomereza bwino chikulepheretseni kupanga zomwe muyenera kuchita lero.