Kupambana kwamaphunziro kapena kulephera kwa makolo (wolemba Bambo Giulio Scozzaro)

Ndikukumbukira St John Bosco, mphunzitsi wamkulu wa achinyamata, makamaka munthawi zino zakutha mwauzimu ndi kutaya mtima kwa achinyamata. Timamva malipoti ochulukirachulukira a achinyamata omwe amwalira atapachikidwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena chifukwa chakukangana pakati pawo. Kuchuluka kwa achinyamata omwe lero sapemphera kapena kudziwa Yesu ndi okwera, kuposa 95%. Kodi makolo akuganiza chiyani?
San Giovanni Bosco anali wodabwitsa ndi ana, achinyamata, ana masauzande ambiri atasiyidwa mumsewu mumzinda wa Turin osokonezeka, ndipo modzipereka adadzipereka kuti apulumuke. Anawanyamula pamsewu, ambiri aiwo anali ana amasiye, ena omwe makolo awo adawasiya chifukwa cha umphawi komanso mphwayi.
Zolemba ngati momwe San Giovanni Bosco adanenera ndi malo omwe amateteza achinyamata ambiri ku ulesi woopsa, kuchokera ku ulesi womwe ulipo ndipo kusakhutitsidwa kumeneku kumayambitsa chikhumbo chomakula chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa komanso chiwerewere.
Vuto lenileni lero ndi kusapezeka kwa mapangidwe achipembedzo, alibe chidziwitso chovomerezeka pamakhalidwe aumunthu ndipo amakhala otayika komanso osimidwa.
Zolakwitsa makamaka za makolo. Mibadwo iwiri yomaliza ikuwonetsa makolo omwe amangokhalira kukondweretsa ana awo pachilichonse, kuwasiya ali omasuka kuti abwerere kunyumba ola lililonse lausiku, kulola zomwe sizoyenera kapena zomwe sizovomerezeka kwenikweni mwaumunthu.
Amadzinyenga kuti akhale ndi ana abwino kwambiri powawona akusangalala koma izi zimadza chifukwa chowapatsa chilichonse chomwe angawapemphe.
Kupatula owerengeka, makolo ena onse sadziwa njira ndi zabodza za ana awo, zomwe amachita akatuluka, komwe amapita ndi zomwe amachita. Samadziwa zolakwa za ana awo ndipo amawayamika ngati kuti ndi osadetsa nkhawa ndipo amachita zinthu moyenera ngakhale atakhala kutali ndi kwawo ...
Makolo omwe amadziwa zolakwa zazikulu za ana awo ndipo amatseka maso awo pachilichonse, amanyalanyaza ngakhale kufotokoza zolakwika ndi chowuma mwamphamvu, chifukwa cha chikondi chawo cholakwika ndikusiya ana awo ali otsimikiza kuti amaloledwa kuchita chilichonse.
Makolo ayenera kukonda ana awo nthawi zonse, koma ayenera kudziwa bwino zomwe ana awo amalephera komanso zomwe amalephera kuwathandiza ndipo, ngati kuli koyenera, amawadzudzula pafupipafupi. Ichi ndiye chikondi chenicheni, nthawi zonse ayenera kuwonetsa zoyenera kuchita, zomwe zimapindulitsa moyo, chikumbumtima.
POPANDA KUKONZEKETSA, POPANDA KUYENDA BWINO, ACHINYAMATA AMAKULA PANJA, KUNJA KWA MUTU, PAMENE ZINTHU ZABODZA, ZABWINO NDI ZABWINO ZIMAONEKA Mnyumba.
MWANA AKAKUMANA NDI MAGANIZO A KUKHALA chete, AMATENGA ALIYENSE KUTI ADZIPE ZIMENE AMAKONDA, NGAKHALE KUTI ASAULULA ZINTHU ZAKE NDIPONSO KUWUTSA KWAMBIRI NDI MABWENZI!
Kuyandikira kwa ana azaka zakukula kumayenera kukhala kwachikondi, kosasintha komanso kokhazikika, kuwapangitsa kuti azilankhula kwambiri kuti awongolere. Makolo ambiri amadzipeza ali ndi ana otukuka akamapita ndi anzawo, kapena omwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kapena amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zonyansa zosaneneka ndikubwerera kwawo ndikukhala ndi nkhope ngati angelo aang'ono ... Makolowo anali kuti?
Kupatula owerengeka, makolo ena onse sasamala za maphunziro achipembedzo a ana awo, mwina amakhutitsidwa akapita ku Mass koma ichi ndi gawo loyamba lokha. Ana ayenera kupangidwa ndikulankhula nawo kwambiri kale akadali ana kuti adziwe zomwe amakonda komanso zofooka zawo, ngakhale malingaliro omwe amakhala chete kuti asawulule zofooka zawo.
Ana ayenera kumvera, kumvera ndikutsatira malangizo a makolo pazochitika zawo pamoyo wawo komanso zaka zawo ndipo izi zikuyenera kufotokoza bwino, koma sizimachitika nthawi zonse chifukwa chakusokonekera kwamalingaliro komanso kufooka kwakudziko kwa makolo.
Kholo limakondadi ana ake makamaka akamasamalira miyoyo yawo, kokha kuti adzakhala ndi moyo wamuyaya, pomwe thupi lidzaola. Koma osati makolo okha omwe amadandaula za mizimu, ndiyofunikanso ku thanzi la ana awo, ndi chakudya choyenera komanso zomwe zimafunikira pamoyo wolemekezeka.
Chikondi chauzimu komanso chokhwima cha makolo kwa ana awo chimakhalapo akamaphunzitsa maphunziro achipembedzo mogwirizana ndi Uthenga Wabwino.
Munthu wodabwitsa wa St. John Bosco ndiye chitsanzo cha makolo onse, iye ndi "njira yodzitetezera" adatha kuthana ndi nkhanza zazing'ono ngati nyama, odzipereka ku chiwerewere, kuba ndi mtundu uliwonse wa zolakwa.
Ndizotheka kupezanso achichepere omwe asokonekera, zimatengera chikondi chachikulu, kuyandikira, kuwongolera kotsimikizika komanso kosasunthika, kuwapempherera nthawi zonse.
M'maphunziro a chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha ana ndi achinyamata, ndikofunikira kuwachenjeza za zotulukapo zamachitidwe awo amwano komanso achiwawa, zimawapatsa kukhala tcheru komwe nthawi zambiri samakhala chifukwa chosasamala ndipo kumbukirani machenjezo a makolo awo.
Popanda zikumbutso izi komanso kunyalanyaza kwa masiku ochepa zomwe ana awo amakonda, makolo samathandiza ana ndi ana.
Ndi chikondi chenicheni kwa iwo kuti adzawaitanenso molimba komanso mwachikondi, apo ayi amatenga zonse ndipo zonse ziyenera.
Ana (ana kapena achichepere) sayenera kupatsidwa chilichonse chomwe akunena kuti ndi chopanda tanthauzo, ngati ali ofooka pazimenezi ndipo amadzilungamitsa, apambana kale.
Ndi kapangidwe kabwino kowapangitsa kuti "azipindule" ndi ulemu kwa anthu am'banja, mikhalidwe yosadzudzulidwa mkati ndi kunja, ndikukwaniritsa ntchito, zomwe zili zawo, monga pemphero, kudzipereka kuphunzira, kulemekeza aliyense, kukonza chipinda ndikuthandizira kuperekera nyumba.
Maphunziro azachikhalidwe amapereka maziko a maphunziro ku mibadwo yamtsogolo, anthu omwe adzagwire ntchito, ndipo chikumbumtima chiyenera kupangidwa ndi makolo.
Mpaka pomwe atenga mimba ndi Choipa, achinyamata ndi oyera, ndizofunika kuti ziumbike ndipo amapangidwa ndi zitsanzo zomwe amalandira. Sikuti kupezeka kokha kwa makolo ndi kosasintha kwa makolo, kuwona mtima kwa aphunzitsi, komwe kumatsimikizira kupambana kwamaphunziro ndi zomwe zili.
Misewu, zachilengedwe, thanzi, mwayi wofanana ndi malamulo "maphunziro" samanena nthawi zonse za maphunziro ndi kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu, sizichitika chifukwa chikhalidwe cholakwira komanso zachiwawa, zomwe amapeza pa intaneti komanso pawayilesi yakanema, ndi oimba opanda Makhalidwe abwino ndipo nthawi zambiri anthu wamba.
Masiku ano pafupifupi achinyamata onse amakula popanda malangizo otetezeka kuchokera kwa makolo awo.
Malingaliro omwe amalowetsedwa masiku ano ndi atolankhani amapatsa achinyamata chosokoneza chomwe zaka makumi angapo zapitazo sichinkaganizirika, ndipo izi zikuwonetsanso kufooka kwa makolo komwe kumalakwitsa chifukwa cha zabwino, zabwino, kuwolowa manja. M'malo mwake ndikufanana ndi njira yopanda maphunziro, kulephera kukambirana ndi ana, kufooka pamene ana akweza mawu awo kapena kufuula!
NDIKULEPHERETSA KWAMBIRI KWA NTCHITO YA MAKOLO NDI MAPHUNZIRO.
Ku Italy kumakhala maphunziro azadzidzidzi omwe akuchulukirachulukira komanso kusowa kwamaphunziro oyenera komanso okhazikika pamalamulo amoyo wapabanja, kuphatikiza ulemu ndi ulemu.
Nditetezera achichepere ndikumapatsa makolo udindo wawo wosachotsedwa pamakhalidwe achipembedzo ndi chikhalidwe. Kunenedwa kuti ngakhale achichepere ophunzira lerolino amasokeretsedwa mosavuta ndi achichepere ena osayeruzika, oledzera ku chisembwere ndi kusoŵa maphunziro.
Kukhala kholo ndi kovuta, ndiye popanda kupemphera, popanda thandizo la Yesu simungathe kukumana ndi achinyamata ndipo ndizolephera kwenikweni.
Mu Uthenga Wabwino, Yesu akulera mtsikana, choncho makolo onse ayenera kupempha Ambuye kuti alere ana awo kuchokera ku moyo wopanda tanthauzo, malingaliro achiwawa ndi imfa, kuchokera ku mikhalidwe yonse yosemphana ndi chikhalidwe chachikhristu.
Makolo ayenera kuthandiza ana awo kwambiri kuyambira ali aang'ono, sichisangalalo chenicheni pomwe amawakhutiritsa mzonse, koma akamakula monga momwe Yesu amafunira.
Mnyamata akawoneka wotayika ndikupempherera zambiri, kutembenuka kwake, kuuka kwake kwauzimu kumafunsidwa mosalekeza, Yesu amamvera nthawi zonse ndikulowererapo akangopeza kutseguka mumtima mwa mnyamatayo. Yesu amakonda achinyamata onse ndipo akufuna kupulumutsa aliyense ku chiwonongeko chamuyaya, inu makolo muli ndi ntchito yophunzitsa ana anu kupemphera.
Omaika komanso opanda chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu amatha kusintha ndikukhala Akhristu abwino, owonera zamakhalidwe, ndi mapemphero a makolo awo!