Kodi angelo osamala amasamalira bwanji ana?

Ana amafunika kuthandizidwa ndi angelo osamala kuposa achikulire omwe ali m'dziko lomweli, popeza ana sanaphunzirebe mpaka akulu momwe angadzitetezere ku ngozi. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti Mulungu amadalitsa ana powasamalira kwambiri kuchokera kwa angelo osamala. Umu ndi momwe angelo osamala angakhalire akugwira ntchito pompano, kuyang'anira ana anu ndi ana ena onse mdziko lapansi:

Mabwenzi enieni komanso osawoneka
Ana amasangalala kulingalira abwenzi osawoneka pomwe akusewera. Koma amakhaladi ndi abwenzi osawoneka monga angelo enieni oteteza, okhulupirira akutero. M'malo mwake, nkwachibadwa kwa ana kunena mwachilengedwe kuwona angelo oteteza ndi kusiyanitsa zokumana zenizeni ndi zochitika zapadziko lapansi, kwinaku akufotokozerabe zomwe amachita.

M'buku lake lotchedwa The Essential Guide to Catholic Prayer and Mass, a Mary DeTurris Poust adalemba kuti: "Ana amatha kudzizindikira okha ndikumamatira kwa mngelo womuteteza. Kupatula apo, ana amagwiritsidwa ntchito kupangira anzawo oganiza, ndiyetu ndizodabwitsa bwanji! akaphunzira kuti nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mzawo wowoneka ndi mnzake, ndikuti ndikuwayang'anira?

Zoonadi, mwana aliyense amakhala m'manja mwa angelo osamala, Yesu Kristu amatanthauza kuti akauza ophunzira ake za anawo pa Mateyo 18: 10: "Onani kuti musanyoze m'modzi wa ang'ono awa. kuti angelo awo kumwamba nthawi zonse amawona nkhope ya Atate wanga wa kumwamba ".

Kulumikizana kwachilengedwe
Kutseguka kwachilengedwe kwa chikhulupiriro chomwe ana ali nacho kumawoneka kukhala kosavuta kwa iwo kuposa akulu kuzindikira kukhalapo kwa angelo oteteza. Angelo oteteza ndi ana amagawana kulumikizana kwachilengedwe, akukhulupirira, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ana azindikire kwambiri kuzindikira kwa angelo oteteza.

"Ana anga adalankhula komanso kulumikizana pafupipafupi ndi angelo omwe amawasamalira popanda kutchulapo kapena kupempha dzina," a Christina A. Pierson analemba m'buku lake la A Living: Living with Psychic Children. "Izi zikuwoneka ngati zachilendo chifukwa akuluakulu amafuna mayina kuzindikira ndi kutanthauzira zolengedwa zonse ndi zinthu. Ana amazindikira angelo awo pamaziko a zisonyezo zina, zomveka, monga kumverera, kugwedezeka, kutekemera zamtundu, zomveka ndi zowoneka. "

Wosangalala komanso wachidaliro
Ana omwe amakumana ndi angelo omwe amawateteza nthawi zambiri amatuluka pazomwe zakhala ndi chisangalalo chatsopano ndi chiyembekezo, amatero wofufuza wina, a Raymond A. Moody. M'bukhu lake The Light Beyond, Moody amafotokoza za mafunso omwe adachita ndi ana omwe adakumana ndi zokumana nazo pafupi ndipo nthawi zambiri amapereka malipoti akuwona angelo osamala omwe amawatonthoza ndikuwatsogolera pazomwe adakumana nazo. Moody akulemba kuti "pamlingo wazachipatala, chofunikira kwambiri cha NDEs chaubwana ndicho lingaliro la" moyo woposa "womwe amalandila komanso momwe umawakhudzira kwa moyo wawo wonse: omwe ali nawo amakhala osangalala komanso opatsa chiyembekezo kuposa ena onse. mozungulira. "

Phunzitsani anawo kulumikizana ndi angelo owasamalira
Ndikwabwino kuti makolo aziphunzitsa ana awo momwe angathanirane ndi angelo oteteza omwe angakumane nawo, mwachitsanzo, okhulupilira, makamaka ana akakhala kuti akukumana ndi mavuto ndipo amatha kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri chilimbikitso kuchokera kwa angelo awo. "Titha kuphunzitsa ana athu - kudzera pemphero lamadzulo, zitsanzo za tsiku ndi tsiku komanso zokambirana zina ndi zina - kuti atembenukire kwa mngelo wawo akaopa kapena akuwatsogolera. Sitipempha mngelo kuti ayankhe pemphero lathu koma apite ku Mulungu ndi mapemphero athu ndikutizungulira ndi chikondi. "

Amaphunzitsa kuzindikira kwa ana
Ngakhale angelo ambiri osamalira ana amakhala ochezeka komanso ali ndi zofuna za ana m'maganizo, makolo ayenera kudziwa kuti si angelo onse omwe ali okhulupirika ndikuphunzitsa ana awo kuzindikira momwe angalumikizane ndi mngelo wakugwa, ena amati okhulupirira.

M'buku lake lotchedwa A Living: Living with Psychic Children, Pierson akulemba kuti ana "amatha kuwayandikira [angelo omuteteza] mosavutikira. Ana akhoza kulimbikitsidwa kutero, koma onetsetsani kuti mukufotokoza kuti liwu, kapena chidziwitso chomwe chimabwera Ayenera kukhala achikondi ndi okoma mtima nthawi zonse osati amwano kapena mwankhanza: ngati mwana agawana kuti bungwe likuwonetsa kuti alibe chidwi, ayenera kulangizidwa kuti anyalanyaze kapena aletse bwalolo ndikupempha thandizo ndi chitetezo kumbali inayo. ".

Fotokozani kuti angelo sachita zamatsenga
Makolo athandizanso ana awo kuti aziganiza za angelo oyang'anira momwe angawonekere m'malo mwamatsenga, okhulupirira amatero, motero athe kuyang'anira zomwe akuyembekezera angelo omwe akuwasamalira.

"Gawo lovuta limadza pamene wina wadwala kapena ngozi yachitika ndipo mwana adadabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani mngelo wowayang'anira sanachite ntchito yawo," a Poust analemba mu Essential Guide to Katolika Prayer ndi Mass. "Awa ndiovuta ngakhale kwa akulu, njira yathu yabwino ndikuwakumbutsa ana athu kuti angelo sakhala amatsenga, amakhalanso ndi ife, koma sangatichitire kapena kupangira ena, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zina ntchito ya mngelo wathu ndi kutitonthoza tikakumana ndi vuto. "

Bweretsani nkhawa za ana anu kwa angelo omwe akuwasamalira
Wolemba Doreen Virtue, akulemba m'buku lake la The Care and Feeding of Indigo Children, amalimbikitsa makolo omwe ali ndi nkhawa ya ana awo kuti azilankhula zakukhosi kwawo ndi angelo awasungire ana awo, kuwapempha kuti athandizire chilichonse chodetsa nkhawa. "Mutha kuchita izi mmalingaliro, kuyankhula mokweza kapena kulemba kalata yayitali," alemba Virtue. “Auzeni angelo zonse zomwe mukuganiza, kuphatikizapo zomwe simumadzinyadira nazo. Pokhala wowona mtima ndi angelo, ndimatha kukuthandizani. ... Osadandaula kuti Mulungu kapena angelo adzakuweruza kapena kukudzudzulani mukawafotokozera zakukhosi kwanu: zakumwamba zimadziwa zomwe timamva, koma sizingatithandize ngati sitingawatsegulire.

Phunzirani kwa ana
Njira zodabwitsa zomwe ana amagwirizanirana ndi angelo osamala zingalimbikitse achikulire kuti aphunzire pazitsanzo zawo, monga okhulupirira. "... tingaphunzire kuchokera ku chidwi ndi kudabwitsidwa kwa ana athu, ndizotheka kuti tiwone mwa iwo chidaliro chonse mu lingaliro la mngelo wokuyang'anira komanso kufunitsitsa kutembenukira kwa mngelo wawo popemphera munthawi zosiyanasiyana", analemba Poust mu Upangiri wofunikira wa Pemphero la Katolika ndi Misa.