Vuto lakupemphera ndikukhala ndi moyo wamoyo ndi ana: momwe angachitire?

Ngati mukufuna kupemphera ndi ana anu, muyenera kaye kusewera nawo

Wolemba MICHAEL NDI ALICIA HERNON

Anthu akatifunsa kuti cholinga cha utumiki wabanja ndi chiyani, yankho lathu ndilosavuta: ulamuliro wapadziko lonse!

Kuchita nthabwala pambali, kufikira padziko lonse lapansi ndikomwe tikufunira Ambuye wathu ndi Mpingo wake: kuti abweretse zonse kwa Kristu kudzera mwa chikondi ndi kutembenuka. Kutenga nawo mbali mu chiwombolo chathuchi kumangoyambira kulengeza kuti Yesu ndi Mfumu komanso kukhala ndi moyo moyenerera. M'banja, banja lachifumu limakhalidwa kudzera mchikondi: chikondi pakati pa okwatirana ndi mamembala onse am'banja omwe amayenda kuchokera pakukonda Ambuye. Tikakhala ndi moyo weniweni, chikondi ichi ndi umboni wamphamvu waubusa ndipo chitha kubweretsa mioyo yambiri kwa Yesu.

Kodi dongosolo la "ulamuliro wadziko lapansi" limayambira kuti? Yesu adapanga zosavuta popereka ife kudzipereka ku Mtima wake Woyera.

Banja likaika chifanizo cha mtima wachikondi wa Yesu m'malo olemekezeka m'nyumba mwawo, ndipo aliyense m'banjamo akapereka mtima wake kwa Yesu, pobwerera amawapatsa mtima wake. Zotsatira za kusinthana kwa chikondi ichi ndikuti Yesu akhoza kusintha mabanja awo ndi mabanja awo. Zimatha kusintha mtima. Ndipo zimachita zonsezi kwa iwo omwe amalengeza ndikuti ndi mfumu yabwino, yachifundo komanso yachikondi ya banja. Monga momwe Papa Pius XI adanenera, "Zowonadi, (kudzipereka uku) kumatsogolera malingaliro athu mosavuta kuti timudziwe Khristu Ambuye mwachangu komanso moyenera kusintha mitima yathu kuti imukonde modzipereka komanso kumutsatira bwino kwambiri" (Miserentissimus Redemptor 167 ).

Kodi kudzipereka kwa Mtima Woyera wa Khristu kumachokera kuti? Pakati pa 1673 ndi 1675, Yesu adawonekera kwa Santa Margherita Maria Alacoque ndikumuwululira Mtima wake Woyera, ndikuwakonda anthu. Adamuwuza kuti Lachisanu loyamba pambuyo pa phwando la Corpus Christi amayenera kuyikidwa pambali kuti azilemekeza Mtima wake Woyera ndikupanga zokonzera onse amene samamkonda ndi kumulemekeza. Kudzipereka kumeneku kufalikira ngati moto pakati pa akhristu ndipo titha kunena kuti zinakhala zofunikira pokhapokha zaka zikamapita.

Chaka chino, maphwando agwera pa June 19. Uwu ndi mwayi wabwino kuti mabanja athe kuyang'ana ubale wawo ndi Ambuye ndikuyamba kumuchita zonse chifukwa chomukonda. Yesu adapereka Santa Margherita Maria malonjezo ambiri posinthana ndi mtima wake Woyera, ndipo izi zidakwaniritsidwa mu "Malonjezo 12 a Mtima Woyera".

"Muomboli wathu mwini adalonjeza Margaret Woyera Woyera kuti onse amene amalemekeza Mtima Wake Woyera adzalandira zokongola zakumwamba" (MR 21). Zosangalatsa izi zimabweretsa mtendere ku mabanja, zimatonthoza m'mavuto ndikupeza madalitso ambiri pazinthu zawo zonse. Zonsezi chifukwa chokhazikitsidwa pampando wachifumu monga Mfumu ya banja!

Kodi zonsezi zikukhudzana bwanji ndi masewera? Mkazi wanzeru kwambiri nthawi ina adatiuza, "Ngati mukufuna kupemphera ndi ana anu, muyenera kaye kusewera nawo." Pambuyo poganizira zomwe takumana nazo monga makolo, tidazindikira kuti izi ndi zowona.

Pali njira zambiri momwe kusewera kumatsegulira mwana mtima ndi malingaliro kwa Mulungu. Ndi chifukwa cha ubale wathu ndi ana athu timapanga zifaniziro zawo zoyambilira za Mulungu. " ana chizindikiro chowoneka cha chikondi cha Mulungu ", kuchokera komwe banja lililonse kumwamba ndi padziko lapansi limatchedwa" "(Familiaris Consortio 14). Kuyika chifanizo cha Mulungu mumtima mwa mwana ndi udindo waukulu kwa makolo, koma monga Yohane Paul amakonda kulengeza, sitiyenera kuchita mantha! Mulungu atipatsa ife zonse chisomo chomwe tikufuna ngati titachipempha.

Kuphatikiza apo, tikasewera, timachita nawo zosangalatsa: timadzipumitsa tokha. Masewerawa amatithandiza tonse kukumbukira kuti ndife ndani komanso zomwe tidapangidwira. Sitinapangidwe kuti tizikhala tokha, koma kulumikizana ndi ena. Tidapangidwira mgonero ndipo mu izi timatha kupeza chisangalalo ndi cholinga, komanso ana athu.

Kuphatikiza apo, sitinapangidwire ntchito yolimbikira: tinapangidwa kuti tisangalale. Mulungu adafuna kutipanga ife kupumula ndikusangalala ndi dziko lomwe adatilengera. Kwa mwana, kusewera ndi makolo ake kumasangalala kwambiri.

Mu masewerowa, tikulimbikitsa kulumikizana ndi ana athu, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azidziwa kuti ndife eni ake komanso kwa Mulungu. Aphunzitseni kuti ali ndi malo komanso chizindikiritso. Kodi izi sindizo zokhumba za mitima yathu yonse? Mwana wanu amakhulupirira mosavuta kuti Mulungu amawakonda chifukwa mumawakonda. Izi ndi zomwe masewerawa amafotokozera.

Pomaliza, kuchokera pamalingaliro a makolo, masewerawa amatikumbutsa momwe zimakhalira kukhala ana komanso kuti kufanana ndi ana ndikofunikira mu pemphero. Yesu ananena momveka bwino pamene anati: "Mukapanda kutembenuka ndi kukhala ngati ana, simudzalowa konse mu ufumu wa kumwamba" (Mateyo 18: 3). Kufika pamlingo wa mwana ndikukhala osatetezeka komanso osavuta, ndipo mwinanso wopusa pang'ono, kumatikumbutsa kuti pokhapokha modzichepetsa titha kuyandikira kwa Ambuye.

Tsopano makolo ena, makamaka omwe ali ndi achinyamata, akudziwa kuti kunena kuti "nthawi ya banja" ingalandiridwe ndi maso ndi ziwonetsero, koma musalole kuti izi zikulepheretseni. Kafukufuku wa 2019 adawonetsa kuti makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu zitatu mwa ana a zaka zapakati pa khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwirizi anati akufuna kuti akhale ndi nthawi yambiri yolumikizana ndi makolo awo.

Nanga chovuta chiti cha Play and Thandizo? Kuyambira pa Juni 12 mpaka Juni 21, ku Messy Family Project tikukulimbikitsa makolo kuti achite zinthu zitatu: kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi wokondedwa wawo, kukhala ndi tsiku losangalala ndi banja ndikupanga Mtima Woyera wa Yesu kunyumba kwanu, kulengeza poyera kuti Yesu ndi Mfumu ya banja lanu. Sikuti timangokhala ndi mndandanda wamalingaliro a masiku otsika mtengo komanso osangalatsa a mabanja komanso masiku otsika mtengo, komanso tili ndi mwambo wabanja wogwiritsa ntchito pamwambo woikika. Pitani pa webusayiti yathu kuti muphatikizane ndi zovuta!

Chimalimbikitso chomaliza ndi ichi: musataye mtima zinthu zikakhala kuti zisakuyendereni. Moyo umasokonezeka! Mapulani okhala ndi mnzawo amasinthidwa molakwika pakabuka kusamvana kapena mwana wadwala. Mavutowa amayamba pakati pa ana omwe akuyenera kusangalala. Ana amakwiya ndipo mawondo awo amakhala akhungu. Zilibe kanthu! Zomwe takumana nazo zakuti ngakhale mapulani samayenda, kukumbukira kumapangidwabe. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti mwambo wanu woikidwa kukhala wangwiro kapena wopanda ungwiro, Yesu ndi mfumube ndipo amadziwa mtima wanu. Zolinga zathu zitha kulephera, koma malonjezo a Yesu salephera.

Tikukhulupirira ndipo tikupemphera kuti mupite nafe limodzi pazovuta za Pempherani ndiosewera komanso mulimbikitse anzanu ndi abale anu kutenga nawo mbali. Kumbukirani, cholinga ndikuthekera kwadziko lapansi: ya Mtima Woyera wa Yesu!