Njira yakutsogolo yakupangira zisankho muumoyo wanu

Ndiye kodi kusankha koyenera ndi kotani? Mwina ili ndi funso lofunsa kwambiri, koma ndikofunikira ndi tanthauzo lenileni komanso lothandiza. Pomvetsetsa zoyambira zamakhalidwe oyenera, tili ndi mwayi wopanga zisankho zabwino m'miyoyo yathu.

Katekisimu amaphunzitsa kuti pali zinthu zitatu zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kuchita zinthu zina. Tiona zinthu zitatu izi mosamala chifukwa ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe Tchalitchi chimaphunzitsa pano.

Makhalidwe azikhalidwe za anthu ali ndi:
- chinthu chosankhidwa;
- Mapeto akuonekera kapena cholinga;
- Zomwe zimachitika.
Cholinga, cholinga ndi zochitika zimapanga "magwero", kapena zochitika zina, zamakhalidwe a anthu. (# 1750)
Osatayika pachilankhulo. Timagawa chilichonse chamakhalidwe kuti timvetsetse bwino zomwe mumachita komanso chikhalidwe chomwe tikufunsidwa. Izi zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri mtsogolomo bukhuli tikatembenukira pazokhudza mikhalidwe ina.

Chosankhidwa: "chosankhidwa" chikutanthauza "chinthu" chomwe timasankha kuchita. Zinthu zina zomwe timasankha nthawi zonse zimakhala zolakwika. Izi timazitcha kuti "zoyipa". Mwachitsanzo, kupha munthu (kufuna kupha munthu wosalakwa) nthawi zonse kumakhala kulakwa. Zitsanzo zina zitha kukhala zinthu monga mwano ndi chigololo. Palibe chifukwa chakuyenera kuchitira chinthu cholakwika.

Momwemonso, zochita zina zitha kuonedwa ngati zabwino pamakhalidwe awo. Mwachitsanzo, machitidwe omwe chinthu chake ndi chifundo kapena kukhululuka nthawi zonse chimakhala chabwino.

Koma sikuti zochita zonse za anthu, ndizachikhalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, kuponyera mpira sikulowerera pamakhalidwe pokhapokha ngati zomwe tikuwona (monga tawonera pansipa) zili zakuti mpirawo ukuponyedwera pazenera la mnzakeyo ndi cholinga chophwanya zenera. Koma kuponya mpira sikwabwino kapena koyipa, chifukwa chake tiyenera kulingaliranso cholinga ndi zochitika zina.

Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira ndikuchitapo kanthu, ndikuti zinthu zina mkati mwakemoyipa ndizolakwika kwambiri ndipo siziyenera konse kupangidwa. Zina ndizabwino, monga chikhulupiriro, chiyembekezo ndi kuthandiza ena. Ndipo machitidwe ena, makamaka zochita zambiri, satenga nawo mbali.

Cholinga: Cholinga chomwe chimalimbikitsa kuchitapo kanthu chimakhala ndi gawo lofunikira pakuzindikira ubwino kapena kuipa kwa chochitikacho. Colinga coipa cingasinthe zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zabwino kuti zikhale zocita zoipa. Mwachitsanzo, yerekezerani kuti wina akupereka ndalama kunyumba ya mwana. Izi zingaoneke ngati ntchito yabwino. Koma ngati zopelekazo zidaperekedwa ndi munthu wandale kuti angathandize pagulu ndi kutamandidwa, ndiye kuti chabwinocho chikadasinthidwa, pambuyo poyeserera mwamakhalidwe, kukhala cholowerera, chosayenerera ndi chimo.

Kuphatikiza apo, chinthu choyipa kwambiri sichingasinthidwe kukhala chabwino malinga ndi cholinga chabwino cha munthu amene akuchita. Mwachitsanzo, kunama mwachindunji ndikusankha chinthu choyipa. Mapeto abwino sapezeka konse posankha chinthu choyipa. Chifukwa chake kunama, ngakhale kuchitidwa ndi cholinga chowoneka ngati chabwino, kumachimwabe. "Mapeto salungamitsa njira."

Zochitika: Zochitika kuzungulira machitidwe ndizofunikanso. Zikhalidwe sizingachite zokha, kuchita zabwino kapena zoyipa, koma zimatha kutengera udindo wa iwo omwe achitapo kanthu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina akunama, uku ndi kulakwitsa. Komabe, ngati ali ndi mantha kwambiri ndikunama kuti apulumutse miyoyo yawo, nthawi zambiri sangakhale ndi mlandu wabodza la munthu yemwe wanama popanda chifukwa. Mantha kwambiri ndi mikhalidwe yofananira sizimapangitsa kunama kukhala kwabwino kapena ngakhale kusalowerera. Zochitika sizimasinthiratu zomwe zichitike. Koma mikhalidwe imatha kukopa udindo wakuchita.

Komabe, zochitika sizimangochepetsa kulakwa. Amatha kuthandizanso pakuchita zabwino. Mwachitsanzo, tanena zoona. Nenani kuti wina ali ndi mantha kwambiri komabe, ngakhale ali ndi mantha, amalankhulabe zoona m'njira zabwino komanso molimba mtima. Choonadi chimenecho chimakhala chowoneka bwino makamaka chifukwa cha zovuta.

Tikukhulupirira kuti kuganizira mwachidule magwero atatuwa amakhalidwe abwino kumathandizira kumvetsetsa kopanga zisankho. Ngati zikuwoneka zosokoneza pang'ono, osadandaula. Pakadali pano, yesani kumvetsetsa mfundo zoyambira.