Ganizirani lero za chinsinsi cha anthu omwe mumawakonda

“Kodi simunawerenge kuti kuyambira pachiyambi Mlengi anawalenga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi, nati: Chifukwa chake mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake, nadzaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake, ndipo aŵiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi? Kotero kuti salinso awiri koma thupi limodzi “. Mateyu 19: 4-6a

Ukwati ndi chiyani? Amuna ndi akazi kuyambira ali aang'ono amakopeka ndi anzawo. Ndi chibadwa cha anthu kukumana ndi izi. Inde, nthawi zina "kapangidwe" kameneka kamasokonekera ndikusandulika kukhumbira, koma ndikofunikira kutsindika kuti kapangidwe kachilengedwe kamangokhala kuti ... kachilengedwe. "Kuyambira pachiyambi Mlengi anawalenga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi ..." Chifukwa chake, kuyambira pachiyambi, Mulungu amatanthauza umodzi wopatulika waukwati.

Ukwati ndiwosamvetsetseka. Inde, amuna angaganize kuti akazi awo ndi "osamvetsetseka" ndipo akazi angaganize chimodzimodzi ndi amuna awo, koma zowona munthu aliyense ndichinsinsi chopatulika ndipo mgwirizano wa anthu awiri m'banja ndichinsinsi chachikulu.

Monga chinsinsi, okwatiranawo ndi banja lenilenilo liyenera kumalizidwa ndi kutseguka ndi kudzichepetsa komwe kumati, "Ndikufuna kukudziwani tsiku lililonse." Okwatirana omwe amayandikira ukwati wawo ndi chinyengo nthawi zonse amayang'anitsana ndipo nthawi zonse amalephera kulemekeza chinsinsi chopatulika cha winayo.

Munthu aliyense amene mumamudziwa, makamaka wokondedwa wanu, ndi chinsinsi chokongola ndi chaulemerero cha chilengedwe cha Mulungu chomwe simukuyitanidwa kuti "muchotse" koma chomwe mumayitanidwa kukumana nacho tsiku lililonse. Payenera kukhala kudzichepetsa nthawi zonse komwe kumalola kuti okwatirana azitsegulirana tsiku ndi tsiku munjira ina yatsopano, kuti apeze kukongola kopitilira muyeso mu mzake. Ndi kudzichepetsaku komanso ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake m'banja zomwe zimapangitsa kuti okwatiranawo akwaniritse cholinga chawo chokhala amodzi. Ganizirani izi, "salinso awiri koma thupi limodzi". Ndi ochepa okha omwe amamvetsetsa tanthauzo la izi ndipo ndi ochepa omwe amapeza kuya kwakuyitana ndi ulemu kwaukwati.

Lingalirani lero zachinsinsi cha anthu omwe mwayitanidwa kuti muwakonde, makamaka ngati muli pabanja. Kuitana mnzakeyo "chinsinsi" kumatha kumwetulira chifukwa muzindikira kuti simungamvetse. Koma kuvomereza modzichepetsa tanthauzo labwino la "chinsinsi" kudzakuthandizani kuti muziyamikira za ena ndipo zidzakuthandizani kuvomera kuyitanidwa ku umodzi wa anthu, makamaka m'banja.

Ambuye, ndithandizeni kuwona kukongola ndi chinsinsi chopatula cha anthu omwe mudawayika m'moyo wanga. Ndithandizeni kuwakonda ndi chikondi chodzichepetsa. Ndikulimbikitseni kuti ndizikonda kwambiri mkazi wanga tsiku lililonse. Yesu ndimakukhulupirira.